Guys hi, just looking for some support share, a Fantasy Adventure Story, for all ages and just some entertain with some storyes: www.youtube.com/watch?v=_mVIvQ1wsgg - maybe you are curious
They even got their own island
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KiWilly@lemmy.myserv.one 8 months ago
UnhingedFridge@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Still remember my middle school girlfriend brag about cheating on me and fucking guys that were buying her beer. Would have been nice to get authorities involved if I had anyone to talk to and wasn’t being neglected and abused at home. Kind of wild to lose hope in people at the age of 12.
Bad times.
MTK@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I remember how creepy it was to see that once the girls in my class got boobs (around 8th grade, 13-14 yo) full on adults would start hitting on them. I recall seeing a few class mates in a local park, all 3 were 13 I think, they still looked like little girls, it’s just that now they had boobs and wore bras. So I see these 3 girls, each sitting in the lap of an 18-20 yo dude, and making out…
As a kid I recall seeing it and thinking “wtf is wrong with those guys?”
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I live in a country where the age of consent is 14, and this shit is still pretty common. I voted Fidesz because I thought they’d fix the situation, by rising it. They added a close-in-age exception, so if you’re 17, you can prey on 12 year olds.
Taalnazi@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Wtf? You voted for Nazis?
Fuck that, they distract you while demonising everyone that criticises them as “LGBT pedos” (when the LGBT people are the most threatened by the actual creeps, ie Fidesz, and his fat oaf Orban).
SethTaylor@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I hope that’s the last time you vote Fidesz
Blackmist@feddit.uk 8 months ago
If “he’s got a car and he’s dead mature, like” is your main selling point, you need a better selling point. And to not be a fucking nonce.
In the 90s we didn’t even know what a paedophile was. I don’t recall even seeing that word before Sarah Payne was murdered.
It took a while for UK residents to get used to this new exciting word.
Hopefully today’s kids are a bit more aware…
silasmariner@programming.dev 8 months ago
Oh wow that article’s a blast from the past
markz@suppo.fi 8 months ago
jfc these people
dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 8 months ago
As an adult I wonder wtf the fuck is wrong with those guys.
MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
I accidentally ended up with a very young lady. I know how this will sound, and all I can do is assure everyone that, at least for my part, everything I say is the absolute truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
I went to college late, I was 23 by the time I applied to college, and turned 24 shortly after starting classes. My birthday is in the first quarter, or so, of the year.
Anyways. I think I was in my second year of college when I met this girl, I don’t even remember how I met her honestly; it wasn’t a dating app, those things barely existed at the time and I haven’t ever used one; I just haven’t seen the need… Anyways, everything seems cool, she’s telling me she’s 17 and has a bday coming up. At this point I’m 24/25, and I’m thinking that’s a bit young, but since she’s basically 18 at this point, I don’t really see a problem with it… Anyways, birthday happens, Yay, and life goes on. After a few months as things get more and more complicated, as happens in most relationships, I come to find out that her birthday, was her 17th birthday, she was 16 when we met. I’m suddenly very not ok with everything.
It didn’t last super long after that. She was also preggo with her exes kid and never told me. The relationship was only like 5-6 months long. She lost the kid, I believe it was a miscarriage, and I’m sad for her that happened, but too much weird bullshit and deception was happening so I called it off.
She wasn’t a good person. She’s on a short list of exes I don’t talk to anymore. Most of my exes I still consider good friends, even if I haven’t seen them in a long time. I’m in a stable, long term relationship with a more age appropriate partner, for… Gosh, it has to be 10 years now? Time flies. There’s… 6? ish years between our ages, and we met when I was 30-something… I’m much happier now. Heh.
BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 8 months ago
This just sounds like you were misled and it was awkward. I don’t think you intended to chase young women.
When I was in high school in the 80s it was not uncommon for high school girls in higher grades to have adult men as boyfriends. One of my teachers in fact did it, and got put on leave for a while LOL.
MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
I was hoping that’s how it came across, since that’s what happened. So thank you for the confirmation.
I’ve never been much for dating significantly younger women, since they’re usually a bit unpredictable. By the time my SO and I got together, we were established in our careers and just looking for someone that wouldn’t constantly stir up drama. Our relationship has thankfully been extremely drama free. If there’s a problem we talk about it like the adults we are.
andros_rex@lemmy.world 8 months ago
My husband kicked me out once he realized flashing his money at 19 year olds worked. The teenagers didn’t ask him to stop playing FIFA and walk his dogs.
MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
What an idiot.
Has he put himself on the poor house yet by spending all of his money to appease the young women he wanted a booty call from?
Because that kind of behavior seems to be rather expensive.
andros_rex@lemmy.world 8 months ago
No idea. He gave 5k to one before he kicked me out. What was our house is for sale now though.
Lumisal@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Could be a gay couple and it’s young men
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
At college, there were 16 and 17 year old girls with boyfriends in their twenties. Even at the time, I thought that was weird.
At least I never heard about anything younger than that.
MehBlah@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I know a guy who ended up in bed with a twelve year old. She didn’t look twelve and didn’t act twelve. He ended up going in to the military to flee. He didn’t have to worry because of course this same girl ended up pregnant in less than a year.
Her story was all too common. She had been abused and trafficked from a very young age and had associated approval through sex. When this all came out her mom and step dad faced no consequences. They went out of their way to try to punish her. She ended up getting court ordered counseling which despite the parents continuing to try to interfere she got better.
She eventually ended up married to a pretty decent guy and they left for parts unknown a few years later. I don’t think she was quite eighteen when they left.
The scumbag parents are still around. They are considered fine christians in the community. After all they asked god for forgiveness. Not their victim mind you but god, so its all okay.
Rakonat@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Some girl when I was in middle school, 14ish, used to get picked up by some tatted up 20 something, pretty sure he was at least 25 but no idea. We thought he was like an uncle or something. Nope, turns out he was her boyfriend. Pretty sure that guy went to prison for meth related activities.
Acinonyx@lemmy.sdf.org 8 months ago
Pretty sure that guy went to prison for math related activities.
I need to sleep
QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
That’s legal in most states, but not weird in none of them.
Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Yeah, it’s legal here.
turtlesareneat@discuss.online 8 months ago
One of the dudes in my gay group tonight:
“My momma cleaned hunter’s cabins and those hunters were real nice men if you know what I mean.”
He was talking about a time when he was early teens.
So it’s not just girls who get this treatment! If that makes you feel any more egalitarian.
tetris11@feddit.uk 8 months ago
“My momma cleaned hunter’s cabins and those hunters were real nice men if you know what I mean.”
I’m a bit dense. They were “nice” to each other, or “nice” to him, or they were actually nice looking, or…?
turtlesareneat@discuss.online 8 months ago
They would have sex with him.
Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 8 months ago
When i was in grade 9 a girl in my class started dating a guy that just graduated. His family was Hella poor but this dude had the nicest of everything cars, clothes etc. He was very obviously a 19 y/o drug dealer dating a 14 y/o tgat couldn’t even qualify for a learning permit.
And everyone was just cool with it. This was in tulsa Oklahoma circa 1999/2000
CunnyConnoisseur@lemmy.world 8 months ago
😳😳😳
AnarchistArtificer@lemmy.world 8 months ago
In school, when I was 13, one of my friends was “dating” a 19 year old. I vividly remember how cool we all thought this was. Reflecting on it makes me feel sick.
teamevil@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Back when I was 13 I was jealous because the “worldly” older guys got the girls …but the time I was that worldly age, I couldn’t believe how gross they were.
RBWells@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I met a guy when I was that age, adult but not old. Friends, hung out with other people. The minute I turned 16 he asked me out. I declined and it was no big deal but who does that?
carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 months ago
being a girl is scary cuz the moment you turn 13, creepy men are ogling at you
Honytawk@feddit.nl 8 months ago
It isn’t the age, it is when they start developing breasts
carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 months ago
yea, i said 13 to mirror the post, but you’re right
AlexLost@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Oh honey, the creeps are sadly ogling you well before 13… Learn to stab.
faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 8 months ago
Can confirm, had my first sexual encounter when I was 5 and he was 18.
ksigley@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I learned a lot about women wearing ice pick-sized hair pins in their hats during the early 20th century for this very purpose.
A7thStone@lemmy.world 8 months ago
mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 8 months ago
competing with grown men
competing with grown conservatives. the list is almost to 1500 examples.
bytesonbike@discuss.online 8 months ago
Question: Oh, you think conservatives are pedophiles? Give me 1,500 examples.
Answer: (your comment)
mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 8 months ago
PixelPilgrim@lemmings.world 8 months ago
🤮
Zozano@aussie.zone 8 months ago
Ah, yes… Pedos… Known for waiting until OP turns 13 so they can ethically swoop in and steal their girl.
aceshigh@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Cus 12 is waay too young… but not 13 /s
Honytawk@feddit.nl 8 months ago
Snowclone@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I was hanging out with this girl my age in high school a lot, we were both 17, I thought it was going well, then some full grown adult said she was pretty at Walmart and I had to move on with my life.
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Members of Congress, clergymen, the fucking PRESIDENT. What’s a boy to do!?
Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 8 months ago
[deleted]MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 8 months ago
You’re not wrong, but I would call out a point of clarity, that youth is far more fetishized for women.
I’m a dude, but as far as I can tell, guys need a bit of luck in the looks category (not the most important thing, but not looking disfigured generally helps), ambition, and success (mainly money). I had terrible luck with women. I’m not the best looking guy out there but I’m certainly not the worst either… And I could find relationships, but it always quickly fell apart. Once I decided to improve upon myself, and go to college in the pursuit of a well paying job, I found that my ambition was generally enough to keep people’s attention, romantically.
ChickenLadyLovesLife@lemmy.world 8 months ago
This is what wars are for. Young men slaughter each other while old men bang the young women.
thermal_shock@lemmy.world 8 months ago
One thing I HATE about military bases. All the E1 soldiers wandering the local high schools looking for girls. Was really sickening
bytesonbike@discuss.online 8 months ago
Bro it was such a shit show when I was growing up.
Just military bros spending their entire military paycheck on a mustang and picking up high school girls.
Still remember my friend crying/begging for help because military bro didn’t get sex and wanted to beat her up. And this dirtbag was going to get shipped with a rifle to some brown country.
lukaro@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
Don’t hang around so many republicans and the competition would thin out.
Banana@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
While rape culture is huge among Republicans and dating young women is more popular among them, this issue is far more vast and definitely involves men across the political spectrum.
Until this obsession with youth=beauty and women under 130lbs being the beauty standard changes, this will still be a problem.
lukaro@lemmy.zip 8 months ago
I’m not giving democrats or anyone a pass on this. I just really hate republicans.
Almacca@aussie.zone 8 months ago
It’s hard for 13 year olds to emigrate.
Sonor@lemmy.world 8 months ago
But they can get deported easily
BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 8 months ago
Not really, because guys that age are 100% INVISIBLE to females. All you got is zits and a curfew, which you can’t even violate because neither you, nor any of your friends have a driver’s license.
Banana@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Young girls were intentionally manipulated into thinking this behaviour from older men was acceptable. It’s called grooming because these were naive young women who literally did not have the brain development or experience to know that when a man says “you’re so mature for your age”, he’s fucking lying.
Don’t blame these young women for the grooming and trauma inflicted on them from a young age. Blame society for teaching men that they should be pursuing the youngest women possible.
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 8 months ago
“Guys” and “females.”
Zits and curfew aren’t why girls weren’t into you then and it’s not why women aren’t interested in you now, incel boy.
Snowclone@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Being over 21 really did get me in good with a lot of girls who were 19-20.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Graduating high school made me a hell of a lot more interesting to a couple of girls. I figured if they weren’t interested before, they weren’t interesting enough.
msprout@lemmy.world 8 months ago
guys
😎
females
🙄
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 8 months ago
Wait it’s only about what you can do for them and give to them, your material usefulness? What about love and shit? What about youthful vigor? Doesn’t that count for more, way more, than a driver’s license, spending money and social status?
captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
Love doesn’t exist. Only greed and lust.
MissJinx@lemmy.world 8 months ago
The thing about 13yo guys ia that you are on the beggining of your puberty process and most boys are ugly and awkward
Banana@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
13 year old girls are also awkward as fuck lmao. Acne, stretch marks, figuring out wtf to do with a period.
All that and having to navigate being coveted by adult men while not understanding why.
MissJinx@lemmy.world 8 months ago
For sure!!!
NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world 8 months ago
So, what, 13 year old girls (children) should be pursuing adult men? The fuck are you getting at here?
msprout@lemmy.world 8 months ago
I can earnestly say that, as a former 13-year-old boy myself, none of the other girls my age really compared me to George Clooney. All of us were ugly and awkward at that age, and if you think otherwise, I might grow a little leery of your intentions.
MissJinx@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Did I say otherwise? I ment exaxtly that, puberty is horrible to everyone. I also had 13yo and have a 12 and a 15 yo boys at home. The same.go for.girls of course
kautau@lemmy.world 8 months ago
How many 13 year old guys are you trying to date? You been to a private island in the last 10 years or so?
MissJinx@lemmy.world 8 months ago
What? What a stupid comment. I’ll just aaaime.you are 14
zakobjoa@lemmy.world 8 months ago
When I was 14 I got turned down by a friend who proceeded to date a 27 year old man.
bytesonbike@discuss.online 8 months ago
My wife’s sister dated a guy in his 30s when she was 19.
So much trauma for a decade.
DeviantOvary@reddthat.com 8 months ago
I was groomed by a guy in his 40s when I was 16 to 18. He was also suspected to have sexually abused younger kids. I’ve been in a relationship with my current partner who’s my age for over a decade now. The abuser knew very well how to take advantage of vulnerable girls. And yes. That trauma will stay with me. I still have nightmares. For the first year with my partner I would frequently wake up from these nightmares and be so relieved to be next to my partner to comfort me. I found out very recently that the asshole is still out and about, but got cancer, so there’s some karma there.
I’m sure that if I had better friends and wasn’t so lonely and had a better situation at home I wouldn’t have fallen for this. These abuser really know how to pick their victims.
m3t00@piefed.world 8 months ago
thought i needed a car to get a date. married a date with a car.
_druid@sh.itjust.works 8 months ago
When I was a kid, in 7th grade science, I overheard a boy asking a girl out. She rejected him, he wasn’t her type. He asked what her type was, she mentioned a guy she was seeing, and casually mentioned he was 22. At the time, I was thinking this poor kid was woefully outmatched and would never have a chance. A few years later, it dawned on me just how fucked up that whole situation was.
betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Yeah but they’ve got the market cornered on Catholic priests, that’s gotta count for something.
Beebabe@lemmy.world 8 months ago
Gross. Accurate. Took me way too long to understand why my friend’s dad was acting the way he was around 13-17. Decades later and it still sickens me.