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• Draegur@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  “I can fix her”?

  She can break me.

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  • turtlesareneat@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Twice this year, it’s a him but yes. They make borderline in boys too.

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    • captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Let him go. Folks all the way on bpd bullshit just leave you wrecked until you decide to stay away. Maybe he’ll get better, I’ve had respected friends and partners who did, but it ain’t worth waiting for.

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  • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Both are fun. Then we can do a crazy ex girlfriend off.

    (I will win)

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    • ivanafterall@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Challenge accepted.

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• OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I once dated a girl for a while but we stopped dating because she was just too BPD for me to handle. The passion & sex were great, but the mood swings, lies, paranoia, etc. were just too much.

  We remained friends though for a very long time. Went out separate ways but were always in touch. Eventually she got into drugs & dating real bad dudes, and I tried to get her to get a grip and stop the drugs & ruining her life. She ghosted me. Eventually she responded (or rather her boyfriend did) that she was in a psych ward for rehab. Or friendship resumed when she got out.

  A year later she died. I met her family at the funeral, befriended them. One day I mentioned her psych ward stay. Her mom said she was never in a psych ward. Her mom pulled up texts on her phone from the date range when she allegedly was in the ward.

  The whole thing was a sham. She told me she was in the psych ward / rehab to get me off her back. The txt from her bf was just her.

  I miss my friend dearly, but finding that out broke my heart.

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  • PlantDadManGuy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I’m sorry she couldn’t accept your help. You have to forgive yourself. Some people cannot be saved.

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• SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  She's probably going to need a good lay after that one.

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  • onslaught545@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    As if she didn’t get laid in the psych ward.

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    • toomanypancakes@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      There's not generally a bounty of desirable dick in the psych ward, trust me

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    • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Orderlies don’t count. It’s like being on vacation.

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    • SatansMaggotyCumFart@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Maybe but she'll need one after too.

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• 96VXb9ktTjFnRi@feddit.nl ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Working as a nurse in acute psychiatric care, I can tell you the comparative normality of non-psychiatric patients is easily overestimated. No need to stigmatize those in need of little help now and then. We all do.

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  • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    aww, you with in a cute psychiatric care

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• 4grams@awful.systems ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Lol, this literally happened to me once.

  Long story short, a girl I knew but always figured was way out of my league expressed interest in me. We quickly started dating, I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. A few weeks go by and she just ghosts me. Nothing for weeks, I was going nuts. Finally I get a message from her, she had checked herself into the psych ward, and wound up hooking up with one of the staff while she was there.

  Dodged a real one there…

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  • AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Hooking up with one of the staff? Yikes

    I don’t deny that you may have dodged a bullet, but I feel like the staff of a psych ward hooking up with patients is hella fucked up. Even if both people are adults, I think consent in that context is pretty dubious.

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    • 4grams@awful.systems ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      wholeheartedly agree. I was but 19 years old though and less wise in the ways of the world. I occasionally try to look her up but have had no luck, I really hope she turned out ok. Been decades though.

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    • boboliosisjones@feddit.nu ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      From what I heard its super common for psych ward staff to be doing patients. And yeah it can’t be very helpful in their situation…

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• OhStopYellingAtMe@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs.

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  • Apytele@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Men love BPD chicks because we’ll be obsessed with them and could suck the paint off a trailer hitch but they act all shocked when they realize they need Steve Irwin level animal handling skill to not get their face chewed off and that they might just get speared to death anyway.

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    • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Oh, yeah definitely. My first love had BDP and I’m still riding scars from those 5 years. Best head tho.

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    • jumping_redditor@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      live on the edge? like edging? the sigma male grindset reference?!?!

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  • sneezycat@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Girls with grippy socks give the best blowjobs footjobs.

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• Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  How about not putting your dick in crazy?

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  • lemonskate@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    crazy people need dick too

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    • MotoAsh@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      But do they deserve dick, is the question.

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  • seliaste@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Stfu mentally ill people deserve affection as much as anyone.

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    • vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      As a mentally ill dude I would like to trade the disgusting affection for a 1991 Fiat Polski.

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  • Sc00ter@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Counter point: have you ever put your dick in crazy? Its awesome.

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    • TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      They do fuck pretty good. It’s like holding a tiger by the tail. In one instance the tiger is sure to like it. Right?

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    • teamevil@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I mean you’re right if you vibe with similar crazy but that withdrawal and collateral damage…ouch.

      -even if you don’t vibe it’s going to be amazing

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    • psud@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You can get keen and competent without them being crazy

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I don’t think you understand the demographics of a psych ward. When I went (technically a pediatric one) it was 50% people who self harm and got caught, 30% people who are depressed and it got too bad, 10% overdoses, and only 10% ‘crazy’ people

    a lot game from disadvantaged backgrounds and just didn’t have the best start with abusive parents and shit and take it out on themselves. They just need stability and care, care that a significant other could give.
    I guess I could be put into this category too.

    the ‘crazy’ people were chill, they just talked to themselves and saw stuff sometimes. They’re not like… mean.

    the ‘crazy’ people that you are probably thinking of aren’t the ones who go to the psych ward. They say that they’re normal and blame others for their issues. They’re the ones who don’t want to be associated with people with depression and bipolar syndrome so they don’t seek treatment for it and get WAY worse than if they went to therapy instead of drugs.

    It’s also worth noting that the ‘crazy’ people you’re thinking of aren’t past saving. They need help too. They probably started off with a bad background and weren’t taught how to take accountability and coping techniques. It’s just really, REALLY difficult to admit you need help and to go through the process of getting it.

    People do recover and should be given assistance, assistance that the American system doesn’t give.

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    • LemmyPlay@lemmings.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Thanks for the perspective

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  • some_random_nick@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Look at you, trying to force “common sense” into people. How “admirable”.

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  • ivanafterall@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Have you tried it?

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• Lucky_777@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  This is how you become the ghost.

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• GoodTransKitty@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I got phone time when I was in the psychiatric hospital…

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  • princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yeah, I just had my phone the whole time. It turns out that completely cutting people off from their support network doesn’t promote mental wellbeing.

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I didn’t :(

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    • GoodTransKitty@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’m sorry -_-

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• red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  There are enough for everyone: cagedladies.com

  And there are some crazy ones on there.

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  • Agent641@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Fucking sliding doors moment right here, reading this comment is the proximate cause of my eventual murder and dismemberment by a big tiddy jailbird gf.

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    • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Dude I fucking hate that movie. I’m in the (personal, not global. I know we’re all in the global bad universe) bad universe and I do not like thinking about the good one

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  • Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Many years ago I responded to one of these inmate pen-pal things. I did it because Susan Smith, the woman who pushed her car into a lake with her small kids in it, was one of the people on the pen-pal list. I wrote a letter, but got a boiler plate response from the prison about her no longer being on the pen-pal project due to an over whelming response.

    I remember the profile she had though, discussing how she loved rainbows, and mini mouse

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    • Undisputedscoop@discuss.online ⁨18⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Now thats a woman who doesnt deserve my conjical visits

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  • qyron@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Considering the US penal system, I’d risk many are in for ridiculous things.

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    • red_bull_of_juarez@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Definitely. But a while ago, when I first saw this site in a post, I found one young woman who had in her bio that she was very submissive and looking for a daddy. When I looked her up, I found out that she was doing 8 years or so for sexually abusing a 12 year old girl. That’s what I mean when I say that there are some crazy-ass bitches on that site.

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• sundray@lemmus.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Hey baby, can I interest you an a folie à deux? 😉

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  • MotoAsh@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    God that movie sucked ass.

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    • sundray@lemmus.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I know, and it ruined a perfectly good psychoanalytical term, too.

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    • WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I kind of want to watch it, but I’d have to watch the original Joker first.

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• rabber@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Started dating a girl with bpd and have never been so excited yet so confused, my life is fucked now it think but she’s super hot so whatever

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  • rabber@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    She just called me to say she loves me then she called me an asshole and hung up

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    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      thanks for the update

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    • LemmyPlay@lemmings.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Time to put a ring on it

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  • heckypecky@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Convince her to go to DBT if she hasn’t yet, it makes a hell of a difference

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• hOrni@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Psych ward is always best enjoyed together. Good for You.

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• HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Crazy?

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  • HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I was crazy once.

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    • HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      They locked me in a room.

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• dbtng@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Don’t bother. She’s already perfect.

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• Saint_La_Croix_Crosse@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  This is literally me with an ex-girlfriend.

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• Godric@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  As someone currently being ghosted, improvement yeaaaaaaaaahhhhhh

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• goofystench@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  me when i was on duolicious

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• Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  No, she definitely ghosted me :(

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  • ivanafterall@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    They always come back around when you truly don’t give a fuck, so try to get there ASAP. It’s a win-win, in this context.

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    • Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You severely underestimate how big of a loser I am. I appreciate that!

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