That teen needs to drop the mom in an old-age home
Mom sues porn sites (Including Chaturbate, Jerkmate, Superporn and Hentaicity) for noncompliance with Kansas age assurance law; Teen can no longer enjoy life after mom caught him visiting Chaturbate
Submitted 15 hours ago by Pro@programming.dev to technology@lemmy.world
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MITM0@lemmy.world 36 minutes ago
Pogogunner@sopuli.xyz 15 hours ago
“Q.R., using his mother’s old laptop, had unfettered access to the internet and began searching for hardcore pornography,” says the court. His mom claims this led to “pain, suffering, disability, disfigurement, and mental anguish; psychological injury; past and future love of enjoyment and pleasure of living.”
It’s not the internet making your son feel those things, it’s you.
obinice@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
Damn, he’s Disabled and Disfigured now?
…What was he doing?
Bristingr@lemm.ee 50 minutes ago
He broke both his arms. He’ll need his mom for the jerking now.
Chowtime3688@sopuli.xyz 15 hours ago
Why is the mom not responsible for giving her kid internet access.
BCsven@lemmy.ca 14 hours ago
Well she is, but also the law states she can get compensation if an adult site doesn’t age restrict minors.
al_Kaholic@lemmynsfw.com 13 hours ago
Negligent is the word you’re looking for. And her child she be removed and put in a safe environment. At the least she should have to pay a fine and attend classes and child protection should make visits.
themeatbridge@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
Disfigurement? Kid’s doing something wrong.
False@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
That’s truly some advanced-level porn.
Rakonat@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Mom never supported any kind of sexual education and definitely refuses any kind of healthy and mature conversation with the poor kid.
hemmes@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Don’t knock it till you try it
HakunaHafada@lemm.ee 14 hours ago
His mom claims this led to “…; past and future love of enjoyment and pleasure of living.”
So the mom is suing Chaturbate, et al., because she thinks they’re going to cause her son to enjoy life in the future? Is that the mental gymnastics going on here?
dharmacurious@slrpnk.net 11 hours ago
I think it’s just poorly written pseudo-legalese, and it’s intended to mean that he will be unable to enjoy life in the future because of the psychological damage that poor is doing to him (unrealistic expectations and mental harm, et cetera).
While porn addiction and unrealistic ideas of beauty and sex are genuinely real things that happen, the way to prevent that is with frank, open discussions about sex and pornography, not trying to prevent your 14 year old from masturbating. I was a 14 year old boy at one point, and lemme tell you, nothing could stop me from masturbating. Nothing. It’s just not going to happen. Kids will find ways to find porn, and if somehow we completely do away with it entirely (again, won’t happen), they’ll find new ways, and they’ll read and write erotica or get into hentai or whatever. This woman is insane, Kansas is insane, and so are all the other states imposing this bullshit
reddig33@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
“Mom” isn’t doing this unless she’s uber rich. Someone is bankrolling her to try to set precedent.
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Mom is joined in her lawsuit by the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE).
Vanth@reddthat.com 13 hours ago
Pretty sure those NCOSE assholes are the ones who said school shootings and other mass murders are because of moral decline due to gay people.
echodot@feddit.uk 9 hours ago
The group has also campaigned against sex trafficking, same-sex marriage, sex shops and sex toys
So they just did a control + f for “sex” and then are against any of the results. Are they seriously suggesting that there are people out there who are all for sex trafficking, and would vote in favour of it? They sound like lovely people.
postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
Operation Yorkville
I have found my new masturbation euphemism.
intheformbelow@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
I’m pretty sure NCOSE is a cover for a pedo ring. They probably frequented Epstein’s parties.
Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 9 hours ago
Its current president is Marcel Van der Watt.
That makes so much sense.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 9 hours ago
Anti-masturbation shaming and lawfare and the idea that you can blame all your problems on it is a mainstay of the religious right playbook.
They then hold the forever frustrated subject in a mental shame prison they can never escape but above which they can self righteously judge everyone else and feel they know the real reason why everything is messed up. A similar self sealing logic as the conspirationnists.
ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 9 hours ago
Yeah, I can imagine having a mother like that would make it so that you can’t enjoy life, damn.
treadful@lemmy.zip 11 hours ago
Imagine gooning so hard that your mom makes you famous.
intheformbelow@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
She just didn’t want him to jerk off to her on chaturbate. She performs there regularly as “Giantmagacnt”
Rakonat@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
I want to believe this is satire but fuck I will not be fact checking.
R3D4CT3D@midwest.social 3 hours ago
teens aren’t aware or private browsing?
wewbull@feddit.uk 1 hour ago
madjo@feddit.nl 10 hours ago
His first name starts with a Q?! That poor kid, imagine getting your porn preference blasted into the news by your mom and then you also have a Q in your name. Mom should be sued for child abuse
OozingPositron@feddit.cl 7 minutes ago
I wouldn’t mind being called Quijote.
Fontasia@feddit.nl 3 hours ago
Mum wanted to make it everyone else’s problem that she can’t have a frank discussion about sex with her own son so probably been making poor judgements all the way through
Vanth@reddthat.com 6 hours ago
I hope those aren’t his real initials because it seems like there’s more than enough information to identify him between the article and complaint filing. Poor kid doesn’t deserve to be dragged into this.
thatsTheCatch@lemmy.nz 8 hours ago
Quandale Dingle
Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 6 hours ago
Quiglet Cumberfungle.
Poor bastard.
echodot@feddit.uk 9 hours ago
I don’t know why they bother censoring it we all know he’s called Quentin.
turtlesareneat@discuss.online 6 hours ago
In the old world maybe. Today’s tragedeigh naming means it could be anything. Qristofer. Enjoy.
barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 2 hours ago
Could be Quincy.
pyre@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
those are not hid initials; he was named after the code.
Puzzlehead@reddthat.com 6 hours ago
Wouldn’t he have to put in a fake birth date if it asked him to verify his age?
pyre@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
conservatives are pushing for full ID submission.
killerscene@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 hours ago
i had left my VPN on in a location in the US and was shocked that i had to enter in ID to visit a sire.
i dont even have to give my ID to government websites who the hell is doung that
DeathsEmbrace@lemm.ee 5 hours ago
Those closeted gays wanting to see us send pics…
tooLikeTheNope@lemmy.ml 5 hours ago
1st world problems
Vanth@reddthat.com 14 hours ago
Jeebus, I need backup plans for Friday nights.
Page 8 & 9 of the court filing (not the article):
Through this time, Q.R. was able to access chaturbate.com on thirty different instances: […] seven instances on August 30, 2024 […]
Bruh, make sure to hydrate.
Page 13:
Plaintiff prays for judgment against Defendants in an amount in excess of $75,000.00 for:
a. actual damages resulting from Q.R.’s access to material that is harmful to minors, including but not limited to past medical expenses, future medical expenses, past and future lost services and disability, past and future pain, suffering, and disability […]
Page 15, looking for more details on alleged “disfigurement”:
As a direct and proximate result of Defendants’ negligence, Plaintiff has suffered and will continue in the future to suffer the following damages: a. Pain, suffering, disability, disfigurement, and mental anguish […]
It goes on to talk about pornography causing a shift in perspective on sex and possibly leading to addiction. Not finding anything specific on the alleged “disfigurement”.
I’m left to assume poor Q.R. will have to deal the rest of his life with the friction burns caused by jerkin’ it 7+ times on August 30, 2024.
His mom also demanded a jury trial, so Q.R. can rest in easy knowing 12 strangers will hear about his friction burns and give it the serious attention due.
nkat2112@sh.itjust.works 12 hours ago
This was so hilariously stated - and your comment is quite thought-provoking.
I can’t imagine how this poor teenager will think of his mother over time.
Supervisor194@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
I can’t imagine how this poor teenager will think of his mother over time.
Not well, this much is certain.
echodot@feddit.uk 9 hours ago
Bet that kid is counting the days until he’s legally an adult and can get away from her.
Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 9 hours ago
Page 13, absolutely fascinating to me that “prays for judgement” is stated
It’s not a “prayer” in the religious sense.
“Prayer” in a court filing is what the plaintiff asks the court to do to resolve the case.
Vanth@reddthat.com 6 hours ago
Ty! TIL. I’ve probably seen it many times before, but it only jumped out at me this time given the Olathe, KS setting and strong fundie Christian vibes.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 13 hours ago
As a direct and proximate result of Defendants’ negligence, Plaintiff has suffered and will continue in the future to suffer the following damages: a. Pain, suffering, disability, disfigurement, and mental anguish […]
More likely a direct result of his mom being a fucking psycho.
echodot@feddit.uk 9 hours ago
Surely you cannot sue someone for future injuries where the future injuries are entirely unevidenced. There would have to be some kind of medical assessment that said that this kid is going to suffer ongoing injuries and I can’t imagine they have such an assessment.
Maybe the counter argument should be that this kid’s mom should attempt to get him on disability payments, and only if he’s able to get on that, will they accept liability. There is zero chance of that happening.
Vanth@reddthat.com 6 hours ago
Agreed. As a lawyer friend once told me, “you can sue someone for damn near anything. It doesn’t mean you’ll win”.
I imagine the “disability and disfigurement” will get sussed out at some point and either backed up w some sort of evidence, or taked out from the rest of the complaint.
tartarin@lemm.ee 2 hours ago
Moms suck!
BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 1 hour ago
Only if you pay them
bhamlin@lemmy.world 28 minutes ago
If they like you, sometimes they do it for free
tacosanonymous@lemm.ee 12 hours ago
I have never heard of most of these and I’m a decent degenerate.
joel_feila@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
I have only heard of one of those ans im a furry. Im a professional degenerate
Lembot_0002@lemm.ee 11 hours ago
Never stop to discover new things.
False@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
“Hello maam, your son clicked the prompt stating he wasn’t in Kansas. Our service is not offered in that state. Goodbye.”
JeeBaiChow@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
You mean he wasn’t born on January 1st 1970?
chellomere@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
Ah yeah, that’s what sex on the first date means
Cyclist@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
My favorite part:
His mom claims this led to “pain, suffering, disability, disfigurement, and mental anguish; psychological injury; past and future love of enjoyment and pleasure of living.”
Agent641@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
Getting caught does that
Geetnerd@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
Guess he’ll have to do it like we used to back in the day: lock himself in the bathroom with a Victoria’s Secret catalogue.
Archangel1313@lemm.ee 13 hours ago
I feel bad for her kid. Everyone is going to hate him for this.
venusaur@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Am I the only one that thinks there’s something positive to stricter control of pornography?
Even if you love porn and grew up exposed to it as a kid, you gotta admit that there are psychological effects on avid adult viewers and more on minors.
Think about what was available as a kid, too. Wait 10 min for a 3 minute to load or just search pics. Now it’s a completely different overstimulating world that transforming how people relate to sex and themselves.
breecher@sh.itjust.works 5 hours ago
Even if you love porn and grew up exposed to it as a kid, you gotta admit that there are psychological effects on avid adult viewers and more on minors.
No you don’t. That is right wing propaganda completely unfounded by science. That porn addiction nonsense so many Americans babble about is a product of that propaganda, and doesn’t actually exist.
venusaur@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Wow. You don’t think porn addiction exists? Said like a true porn addict.
GuyFawkes@midwest.social 15 hours ago
Man fuck that bitch!
passwordforgetter@lemmy.nz 6 hours ago
It’s always best to regulate the goldberg’s online businesses.
tal@lemmy.today 14 hours ago
For a brief shining moment, it seemed like adroit use of state-level legislation in Kansas might manage to blue-ball much of America by leveraging access to its market of 3 million.
pepperdine-graphic.com/addiction-risk-thrive-in-s…
In 2011, Piccirillo began traveling from Chicago, Illinois to Orange County, California to act in a number of pornographic films. Pornography production is illegal in Illinois, as it is in 48 of the 50 United States.
The pornography industry “by and large lives here in Southern California,” said Ged Kenslea, the senior director of communication for the AIDS Healthcare Foundation. This is for a number of reasons, but legality and location are important factors.
“There are only two states in the union where adult film production is legal,” Kenslea said. “Everywhere else it would be considered participating in an illegal act of prostitution. California and the state of New Hampshire both have state supreme court rulings that codify adult film production as a legitimate business.”
That was until the degenerate California legislature, intertwined in obscene embrace with its filthy industry, and having a market of 40 million, passed its own legislation disallowing a pornography site conducting business in its jurisdiction from having an age gate. Now the outcome was written by economic imperatives: there was to be a Kansas-conformant site and a California-conformant site of each pornography website. Anyone purchasing a commercial subscription was directed to the Kansas-conformant site if they wished to purchase service in Kansas. The age-gate-free California-conformant site did not have age gates, and did not accept advertising specifically targeting Kansas residents, keeping itself from being subject to Kansas jurisdiction.
lennee@lemm.ee 14 hours ago
ok boomer
roserose56@lemmy.ca 13 hours ago
beverly goldberg from the Goldberg’s comes into my mind lol
theangryseal@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
I don’t understand how these kids get caught. They gotta be really slow or something.
I was caught 0 times as a teenager. My mom never found my porn.
My brother was caught a few times. My cousin was caught in the damn car on a family vacation with OTHER PEOPLE IN THE CAR just yanking his noodle under a blanket.
I was so cautious as a kid. I guess because I was caught and thoroughly shamed when I was about 4 years old. Maybe that’s why I never got caught when I was old enough for it to matter. That shame gave me a lifelong lesson.
I had a motion detecting toy dinosaur at the bottom of the stairs. When someone approached the stairs it would go, “raaaaaawr, raaaaaawr” and I’d be sitting at the foot of the bed reading a book by the time someone got upstairs.
If they suspected anything, didn’t matter. I was reading.
When I got high speed internet (as it was called in those days) I threw out the tapes and magazines. I had a separate hard drive I’d plug into my computer juuuuuust in case, and since I was always messing with and tearing into my computer, my mom never found anything. That drive had Linux, my mom was scared of Linux.
Now that I think about it, holy shit they fucked me up haha.
When they caught me as a little guy my mom said, “oh shamy, shamy.” And my dad said, “you keep messing with that thing and it’ll fall off and you’ll turn into a girl.” They spent the whole day giving me that, “oh you shameful creature” look.
Haha, man. Wow.
Yeah, maybe my people just messed me up.
ameancow@lemmy.world 7 minutes ago
I’m pretty sure we’re now in a situation where most of our society’s contention is driven by childhood-induced shame over sexuality in some form or another.
And there’s not shit we can do about it because every time someone tries to make a campaign to encourage better sex-education, or even scarier, sex positivity among children, those people or groups get attacked for being pedos and predators.
This is going to be a social dividing line that gets sharper as time goes. There will be people who have a shred of intellectual capacity and haven’t been hollowed out be capitalism, who raise their kids to be free from shame and shackles of toxic social norms and let them just live and discover on their own what sexuality means to them.
And the orcs, who want literal dark-ages levels of shame, hate and fear and of course power-imbalances as deeply rooted foundations to anything and everything related to sex.
OminousOrange@lemmy.ca 30 minutes ago
A 30 year old friend of mine didn’t know about incognito mode. A certain subreddit popped up, on his projector screen, as a recommendation when we were searching for a sports stream to watch. I don’t think anyone else noticed or would really know what the sub was, but I later casually mentioned this really cool browser feature to use in case you need to search something weird.
I learned one shouldn’t assume that everyone is familiar with all the digital tricks to hide what they’d prefer others not see.
SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 hours ago
“you keep messing with that thing and it’ll fall off and you’ll turn into a girl”
On one hand, fucking horrible thing to say on a child
On the other… probably would not have the effect they would intend on a certin chunk of the population lmao
GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 42 minutes ago
oh she knew. we all know.
theangryseal@lemmy.world 26 minutes ago
Knowing is one thing, being caught cock in hand is another. :p
Xiflado@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Did you place the toy downstairs before wanking or was it always there?
theangryseal@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
It was always there. ;)