Submitted 2 days ago by return2ozma@lemmy.world to technology@lemmy.world
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/24/inside-the-rise-of-couple-location-sharing
Me an my GF have been sharing location for years now, it has never been an issue and often been handy to see if one of us is driving from work to home or finding each other in a festival or theme park etc.
But well I kinda wanna surprise here and for that I need to drive somewhere where I normally don’t go, so now I gotta find an excuse just incase she checks my location. Or I just turn of my Phone for an hour or two
But well I kinda wanna surprise here and for that I need to drive somewhere where I normally don’t go, so now I gotta find an excuse just incase she checks my location. Or I just turn of my Phone for an hour or two
Eww this is just weird you have to think about that.
In my 8-or-so years of using it with my partner, close friends, and some family, the only occasion where I turned it off was when visiting a jewelry store for an engagement ring.
I know I have less privacy in principle, but I’ve never had an issue crop up so far.
Cheater!
I am more worried that she is going to spoil the surprise for hereself …
This is dumb. Young couples have been plagued by insecurity long before location sharing. Dial the clock back 20 years and I’m your typical high school boy worried about his girlfriend.
I share my location with my wife, and even some buddies of mine. My wife has seen my location when I was at someone’s bachelor party. It has nothing to do with sharing location and everything to do with trust in your relationship. I don’t have her location to keep tabs on her. I have her location so we can better figure out how to get our kids from places. I have my buddies’ locations so if I end up grabbing a beer, I know who’s out and about, or when someone goes to Tanzania, I can say, Joe, what the hell are you doing in Tanzania?
Before location sharing you texted, or you called, or you hit me on my pager, or sent me a letter. Technology isn’t the problem, it’s – once again – just us dumb people being dumb.
What’s wrong with giving the spouse a quick call when they’re worried about them? Fuck sharing your location, what kind of dumb shit is this? If anything, sharing your location might actually make them paranoid in the first place, as they might try to interpret things in your movement. The hell is wrong with people? I’ve never heard of this behavior, is this something Americans do?
call? what kind of dumb shit is that?
I’ll look and see my wife is distant and I’ll shoot her a text and say “Grabbing the kids.” We each work jobs that take us different places every day (her more than me since COVID), and so we aren’t able to rely on some set pattern. I’m able to just see where she is and make a decision. Half the time she’s in the car she’s on the phone for some meeting and so I can’t call. It just makes things easier. I can’t fathom why it upsets you so much, but if you wanna chalk it up to America bad, you do you.
Hey bros. I’m just letting you know about this terrible app called GPS spoofer. Please don’t install this on your phone by mistake.
I second the caution for these apps. I’ve been living on Utupoa Island for the last four years and didn’t even know it.
I know several people that do this, but most often it’s parents with kids. That’s still not an excuse though as there deserve their own privacy. In all cases that I’ve seen though, it’s through Apple/iPhones. Now I’m not saying Android users can’t or don’t do this, but Apple makes it so easy, that it’s everywhere and I hate that.
Trust is good, control is not better.
I do this location sharing with someone.
The only time it crosses my mind to check it is when they are coming to visit or we are otherwise traveling or meeting up.
I thankful for whatever makes it easy for me to just be chill about it.
Life360?
That sounds right
Install a ROM on your phone and claim it no longer works on there :-)
Yeah right, rather than stand your ground, lie in your partners face.
Lol. I keep telling my partner that I’m sharing my location data with her so don’t need to worry where I might be (Im pretty bad at reporting home unfortunately)
First step - get a gf
Just treat them like regular people, like you would anyone else, and they’ll come to you. Basically, you don’t have to hit on them. Just be their friend. Let it happen naturally.
Never. Not even once.
I am of multiple minds on it.
I very much do like the idea of sharing your location (once you are in a committed relationship). Knowing when your partner is coming home or stuck at work or at the grocery store is useful. Same with knowing that someone can check in on you if something horrible happens. And I have 100% shared my location temporarily for that.
The problem is that… you don’t always want to do that. And explaining that becomes a mess.
At its core it is opt in versus opt out but it also can trigger the kinds of conversations that are really better suited to a lot later in a relationship. Like with prenups. There are a lot of REALLY REALLY REALLY good reasons to have them but it is the kind of topic that you can’t even raise without having the implication of “I don’t trust you”.
We have location sharing enabling via Find My since everyone but me uses Apple. I don’t think my wife ever uses it and I only use it as a means of checking they seem to still be alive when they are otherwise late to somewhere they planned to me if I get worried about it.
In years past I would just call them, but this way is less actively intrusive. But people that use it as a spying tool have issues.
I’m pretty sure she’ll think I’m about to pop out from behind a car to scare her.
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diptchip@lemmy.world 1 day ago
You’ll never be able to stop someone that wants to cheat. Best you can do is be funner and sexier than anyone your partner might be around. Never understood why that’s so hard for some people.
Obi@sopuli.xyz 1 day ago
That’s the gist of the success of my marriage. Even before we met, we both had reached a point of maturity where we were confident in ourselves as single people, and then from that solid base you can build the relationship in a healthy way. We both try to be the best to our partner, while being ultimately independent. These over-jealous people are using their relationship as a crutch for life so they’re terrified of it going wrong. Either that or they’re guilty themselves and projecting.
Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 22 hours ago
So essentially very good friends that chose to live together + benefits of being in a deeper relationship?
Sounds healthy indeed! Wish you the best to keep that bond :)