wreckedcarzz
@wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world
- Comment on Sign me up 1 day ago:
💥🚙
😳😫💦
- Comment on Jellyfin over the internet 1 day ago:
This isn’t a guide, but any reverse proxy allows to to limit open ports on your network (router) by using subdomains (thisPart.website.com) to route connections to an internal port.
So you setup a rev proxy for jellyfin.website.com that points to the port that jf wants to use. So when someone connects to the subdomains, the reverse proxy is hit, and it reads your configuration for that subdomain, and since it’s now connected to your internal network (via the proxy) is routes to the port, and jf “just works”.
There’s an ssl cert involved but that’s the basic understanding. Then you can add Some Other Services at whatever.website.com and rinse and repeat. Now you can host multiple services, without exposing the open ports directly, and it’s easy for users as there is nothing “confusing” like port numbers, IP addresses, etc.
- Comment on Sign me up 1 day ago:
Men 🥰
- Comment on Sign me up 1 day ago:
I’m more of a ‘milkers and knots’ kinda guy, but I can see the appeal
- Comment on French is such a beautiful language 2 days ago:
You have to pay extra for that
- Comment on Is flirting redundant? 4 days ago:
It’s not even looks, for some of us. I’m demisexual, and before we became a thing, my master was nowhere near my ‘type’. But he was incredibly sweet and caring, always has been, and the affection grew from there. When my ex fiancé left me, he was there, supporting me in crisis. Always there, doing his best to care for me. Now a few years on, I think he’s sexy as fuck, and I’m very happy with him.
Back to the question though, I’ve never really flirted with anyone. Always very direct, ‘hey you are cute/funny/shy/interesting’ mixed with ‘I’m horny, and you are the one causing that’ thus ‘want to fuck?’. I always put desert before the main course, as it were, since sex is a big thing for me - so I don’t want to get attached if we aren’t at least a bit compatible. What easier way then to jump right into it? Then if it goes well, we are already miles beyond the usual starter-pack bs, so the whole courting/flirting stuff is just unnecessary. We already have been horny freaks, we’ve already figured out that our desires align at least a bit, ‘why not date?’
The traditional way seems so… stupid, frankly. Slow buildup over weeks/months just to meet a brick wall when you find out that he only gets off with butt stuff, while you/they are repulsed to the point of vomiting at the thought… ‘well that was a fun 2 months, thanks and I’ll see you around I guess’. Nah, that just doesn’t make sense to me.
And there’s the whole awkward ‘what if they reject me’ like my guy/gal/sentient being, just stfu and ask them. Direct, no bullshit, no games, no dancing around the question. ‘hey, you’re cute, are you seeing someone?’ is fine. Asking if they have a Facebook account so you can add them and then changing your relationship status to ‘it’s complicated’ and hoping they comment on that, isn’t the smart play.
I guess if they enjoy it, sure, flirt away. But in my mind it makes no sense and merely complicates and extends an awkward phase.
Do note that I myself decided long ago that I’d only date other furries, so the dating pool is… very liberating, vs the standard. But that doesn’t mean that people have to continue following the same rules and expectations.
Do what makes you feel right, and fuck the norms. You don’t owe anyone anything, and if someone expects something of you that you don’t think is ideal, maybe they aren’t for you, and that’s okay. You aren’t made from a cookie cutter, don’t try to conform to one.
- Comment on HAAAAAAAANNNNKKKK 4 days ago:
I made it like 3 episides of season 1 before I threw in the towel lol
- Comment on Das not good. 1 week ago:
30 gay anthro bucks emerge from the forest behind you
“looks like meat’s back on the menu, boys”
- Comment on Good ending 1 week ago:
“the word”
- Comment on Good ending 1 week ago:
suck my what
- Comment on Pick-ups from the Vancouver Retro Gaming Expo 1 week ago:
psp
retro
Well, guess it’s time to get my aarp card
- Comment on Picture of hardwood 1 week ago:
The railings don’t continue to the full length of the deck, which is both a safety hazard and disappointing. Or in other terms, why the fuck did you circumcise your deck? Definitely losing points for that.
- Comment on Xbox Game Pass might be getting a price hike 1 week ago:
Then there is me, who has only had it when it was on $1 promo and I used it to get a 10% discount to buy a game, and then immediately cancel the pass.
I guess if it stayed $1 indefinitely I’d keep the sub, but beyond that, nope.
- Comment on Open Source Paid Remote Desktop 2 weeks ago:
I was mostly with you right up until paragraph/linebreak/whatever 4. Took a pretty civil discussion and went bonkers. Put down the keyboard, go rub one out, and relax my dude.
- Comment on When asked "are you an honest person?" The only logical answer is yes. 2 weeks ago:
The guy is a straight-shooter with upper-management written all over him
- Comment on How often do you take him for a walk? 2 weeks ago:
See, that’s actually her husband, and they’re into a consentual public humiliation + abdl kink. He came so hard when they got home. Mommy is such a good mistress.
(I have been lead around on a leash before myself, and I’ll do it again, though for different reasons~)
- Comment on Technichally-wrong community. Here here, peepostin' lyka pro 2 weeks ago:
Ha-ha ha-ha-ha, now you’re blind!
(asdfmovie)
- Comment on Technichally-wrong community. Here here, peepostin' lyka pro 2 weeks ago:
Mmmhm, mmmhm… I know some of these words!
- Comment on Technichally-wrong community. Here here, peepostin' lyka pro 2 weeks ago:
(the drink, not the creature)
- Comment on The kid asks a great question 2 weeks ago:
$20 is $20
- Comment on Would alcohol be as popular if it weren't a beverage? 2 weeks ago:
Big brain right here 👌
- Comment on Would alcohol be as popular if it weren't a beverage? 2 weeks ago:
I was thinking more BD David XL size (think 3x 12oz/350ml cans)
- Comment on Would alcohol be as popular if it weren't a beverage? 2 weeks ago:
Alcohol: now in XXL suppository
- Comment on Self-hosting your own media considered harmful - I just received my second community guidelines violation for my video demonstrating the use of LibreELEC on a Raspberry Pi 5, for 4K video playback 3 weeks ago:
But being a pushover is not the answer, so…
- Comment on I've got something special for you 3 weeks ago:
Imagine not knowing literally everything about everything. And I’m the arrogant one? Lmfao.
blocked
- Comment on You ever just take a shit so huge it boosts your mood after? 3 weeks ago:
smooth and spreadable
notices your knife and bread
slowly backs away
- Comment on Scientists in Japan develop plastic that dissolves in seawater within hours 3 weeks ago:
I think that’s a mod for CP2077…
- Comment on Google confirms more ads on your paid YouTube Premium Lite soon 3 weeks ago:
exposure puts them at risk
they’re super easy to find
that one meme with the dude surrounded by question marks
- Comment on I've got something special for you 3 weeks ago:
I chuckled :p
- Comment on I've got something special for you 3 weeks ago:
I didn’t know that the gb layout was different, so thanks for the knowledge, but kindly sod off with the smartass remark, thanks love