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They wonder why nobody wants kids anymore.

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Submitted ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Darkcoffee@sh.itjust.works⁩ to ⁨aboringdystopia@lemmy.world⁩

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  • Flax_vert@feddit.uk ⁨20⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    What are “donated sick days” don’t you have maternity leave in the USA?

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    • circuscritic@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      It’s where they make you beg your coworkers for their own sick leave to be transferred to you, or have HR send out an email blast begging employees to donate their own meager PTO to you, instead of the employer granting an appropriate amount of sick or maternity leave to begin with.

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    • roofuskit@lemmy.world ⁨17⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      Like you get two hours to recover and they shove you back to work.

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  • RedGreenBlue@lemmy.zip ⁨16⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    Bill will donate every dollar of his for this. Right? I don’t think bill thought this through.

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  • Arghblarg@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    What does this mean? That other employees are going to be expected to give up their own vacation/sick leave to pregnant co-workers? The state is so cheap they aren’t willing to give them their own leave? WTAF.

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    • Ava@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Pretty much. Leave sharing policies are usually set up such that in some sort of extraordinary medical circumstance, employees can transfer paid leave to one another.

      The idea is sorta that if a loved one has a major medical emergency and needs a lot of care for 3 months, other employees can transfer paid leave to help cover gaps. This makes sense as a way to cover edge cases in extreme circumstances, but “is having a child” definitely isn’t such a case.

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      • FlordaMan@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        I’m so happy to life in a country where all sick days are paid.

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      • exu@feditown.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        The sane way is having regulation that protects your income and job for a few months

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      • PattyMcB@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        Pregnancy is not an edge case, though.

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    • Timecircleline@sh.itjust.works ⁨44⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      A lot of places have it set up as “compassion leave”. Usually it’s done by the employee association and they approve it for personal tragedies. If someone’s house burns down, for example.

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  • Treczoks@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    “Donated sick days”? WTF? Sick days should be a right. Maternity leave should be a right.

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    • sin_free_for_00_days@sopuli.xyz ⁨43⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      Back when I was a teacher, we could “donate” a number of sick days to a pool that would help other teachers who ended up with long term health issues. And yes, you are correct.

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      • Flax_vert@feddit.uk ⁨20⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

        That’s the employer’s responsibility, not yours

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    • PattyMcB@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      FMLA IS a right (albeit crap compared to most of the rest of the civilized world). They just find ways to screw people out of it

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      • shawn1122@sh.itjust.works ⁨17⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

        For people outside of the US, FMLA is up to three months of unpaid leave where you get the privilege of getting to keep your job and your benefits (though you continue to pay for them while not being paid).

        For many American women, this is all they have access to for maternity leave. So they power through those three months then have to scrap together the cash to put their 4 month old in day care ($15 to $20k annually) while not getting paid for the quarter of the year.

        Around 40 to 45% of women in the US don’t even qualify for FMLA because your employer needs to be large (50+ employees) enough and you need to have worked for them long enough to qualify (usually a year).

        Blue states fill the gap with their own state run programs (still usually only three months, though you get some pay) but if you’re in a red state the choice for many women is 1) have children and enter financial ruin or 2) don’t have children.

        America lags behind most advanced economies in this regard and there isn’t any sign these circumstances will get better.

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      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

        the right to take the time off, not the right to be paid for it.

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  • Ilixtze@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    Manufactured subjectivity for serfs: “Remember , your children are very sacred to us until they are born into in this world; then they become slave-meat for degenerate billionaires.”

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  • CompactFlax@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    “Guarantee access to donated leave bank” fuck you. New mothers need a guaranteed six weeks of recovery time and should be able to tag in with their partner for at least a year. Federally guaranteed.

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  • frustrated_phagocytosis@fedia.io ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Who is expected to donate these sick days?
    Are any women not done with children ever going to donate days? Because you might need those for your own pregnancies. And once you have kids, you need all of your sick days because your kids can't go to daycare or school when they're sick. If you're done raising kids, you're probably old enough for aging related illnesses, you'll need those days for managing care and prevention (colonoscopy for example). That leaves the younger single folks without children, who inevitably have fewer sick days to start. I never had any sick days when I was teaching part time, and no health insurance either.

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  • Lumidaub@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I think it’s fascinating how they keep doing bizarro socialism (your sick days? our sick days), just to avoid making capitalists contribute to society.

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  • notsosure@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    You couldn’t make this shit up

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    • Darkcoffee@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Should have posted this in nottheonion honestly.

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  • warm@kbin.earth ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Land of the free

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    • PattyMcB@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Home of them vs us

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  • DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Thanks for nothing, Elliott Prick.

    Also, fuck you.

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  • rogsson@piefed.social ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Thanks I hate it

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  • alaphic@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I live in this state.

    These same folks can’t seem to figure out why we’ve had an ever worsening teacher shortage for the last couple of decades or so, btw. (Spoiler alert: It may not solely be due to the fact that everyone who can gets the fuck out of here as soon as humanly possible 🤯)

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  • Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    What an uncivilized shithole.

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  • WolfmanEightySix@piefed.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Betting this is only the thin end of the wedge.

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