If you're a parent, how do you prevent your kid from watching AI slop?

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• Jhuskindle@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  I am a very progressive parent. I was harassed by my parents for spending too much time on the computer and I make 6 figures working in tech now and spend 8 hours a day minimum on the computer. When I say I’m progressive I’m not exaggerating. Robotics are the future of humanity. Understanding tech is the future 6 figure job my kid will have. First and foremost I pay for YT premium to avoid the constant barrage of unreviewed ads. Secondly I take a night every week to go through her watch history and remove some videos that are questionable for the algorithm. I also block channels in the suggested area and block watched makers if they are slop or … bad…

  I also tell her she is allowed to watch shorts but ONLY if she is able to watch longer form content above all. I do not believe in tik tok and that started way before trumps cronies owned it. I believe tik tok type consumption is one of those things that will come in a fad and ease out of fad.

  I also watch sometimes with her to identify Ai slop and I show her videos if I ever fall for Ai. I got really excited about a fox video the other day that turned out to be ai and I showed her and she recognized the Ai tells before I did.

  This allows a kid to explore technology without pressure or fear but avoids the Ai stuff. I also have her lookup facts if I know them to be wrong. We watch a lot of dar man because its child friendly but boy fact checking those videos are a riot.

  She is very smart so I rarely have to do anything now but she started yt back when those creepy vilent Elsa videos were popular. So I have been using this method for 6 years. She is a tech wiz, she is smart, made high honor roll, her focus is still intact and she does well at school.

  This was also important to me. I also noticed some channels which were satire of middle schoolers would influence her behavior, so we talk about it. Then if the behavior continues ues I block the channel. Later she can watch again if she feels she is strong minded enough. Some weird pov YouTube rs were cut off for a year but have been allowed back as she is not pliable in those ways anymore.

  Anyways thats the most serious and in depth answer. I hate to pay for YouTube but its the best way to keep her on a single platform with the most visibility and I can adjust the algorithm through her history

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• protist@mander.xyz ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  My son is still young, almost 8, so I’m speaking for near that age level. He doesn’t get unrestricted access to YouTube. If he’s watching YouTube, it’s with one of us present and helping him navigate it. He always wants to watch the video that’s the lowest quality shit just based on the thumbnail, because they have thumbnails that stick out. I’ve taught him about “low quality” content and we’ve watched a couple so he could understand what I meant. Now when he wants to watch something I say “no, that’s going to be low quality,” he seems to understand and we move on to find something else.

  Eventually, I’m going to let him navigate YouTube alone sometimes, and then go back and look at his watch history to see how things are going. He doesn’t know watch history is a thing, not will I ever tell him. If things go off the rails, we will guide them back to the rails slowly and nonjudgmentally

  That said, we were at a restaurant the other day and a woman was there with her baby and a friend. She set that infant in a high chair with AI slop on her phone right in its face. The kid definitely didn’t disturb her conversation with her friend, because it looked like a zombie. Godspeed, child

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  • FoolsQuartz@lemmynsfw.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I’ve taught him about “low quality” content and we’ve watched a couple so he could understand what I meant. Now, when he wants to watch something like that, I say “no, that’s going to be low quality,” he seems to understand and we move on to find something else.

    Honestly never thought about how I would teach my kid this stuff. I have the benefit of a decade of experience learning how youtube works and living through the clickbait endemic.
    I guess that’s why it’s so important for parents to navigate YouTube together with them. My first experience of YT was also watching cool stuff like VSauce and Lego animations with my family.

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  • stoy@lemmy.zip ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Remember that watch history has the largest impact on what recommended videos will appear in his feed.

    Curating the watch history is insanely effective, I have done it for a decade and it has helped me keep my feed 92% politics free, and 98% toxic masculinity free, I never knew about Tate until I started seeing reddit posts about what a terrible person he is.

    I would actually show him this when he is old enough.

    My strategy about this was to remove any content I don’t specifically want recommendations from, but has shifted to a more permissive stance where I will focus on removing videos that specifically harms my recommendations.

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    • protist@mander.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Definitely the case! I’m not always on top of this myself, but I do go in and remove anything that may poison my recommendations. At this point, I just get plants, history, and a splash of comedy. Thank you for bringing this to the fore!

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  • mustlane@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Just use DeArrow. Free add-on for browsers that replaces thumbnails and titles with the user-defined ones. Every user can create their own and share it with others.

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  • sefra1@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    He always wants to watch the video that’s the lowest quality shit just based on the thumbnail, because they have thumbnails that stick out.

    There’s an add-on by the same guy who makes sponsorbock that replaces thumbnails (and video tittles) for more more accurate ones, maybe you want to try that.

    (Disclaimer: The add-on itself is free software (as in freedom) but the developer added the restriction that after one hour trial you can either pay or wait 24h and then you can use it without restriction. It’s an interesting model.)

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  • Rhaedas@fedia.io ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    This is good parenting. You can't always be there to guide them or restrict them, nor should you want to be. You instead help them understand how to navigate the world themselves smartly. This is true for anything, not just what they see on the internet.

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    • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      nor should you want to be

      Found the part most parents struggle with!

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  • jenesaisquoi@feddit.org ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    That said, we were at a restaurant the other day and a woman was there with her baby and a friend. She set that infant in a high chair with AI slop on her phone right in its face. The kid definitely didn’t disturb her conversation, because it looked like a zombie.

    This should be illegal, because it is harming the child. It should be viewed the same as giving it alcohol to keep it quiet.

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    • Ach@lemmy.world ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I’m going for the hail mary pass and taking the stance that we need to send our youth back down into the mines.

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  • fizzle@quokk.au ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I’m yet to encounter this really, my kids (twins) are only 2. However, this is the answer as I understand it - limit access in terms of time and content, and relax those limitations as appropriate.

    That said, I’m going to struggle. Everyone needs to find the right balance for their own home, but I suspect I will lean more towards allowing less access to more curated content than most parents. I just can’t abide the kind of brain rotting content that’s available. I can’t stand advertising of any kind. I know this will make me unpopular - or less “cool” than other parents, but I’m hoping that I can make up for it in other ways.

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    • protist@mander.xyz ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      PBS Kids is a great option for littles! Free, no commercials, and supportive of social/emotional development (Reminder to set up a monthly donation to your local PBS station!). With the PBS Kids app, we’d often download a few episodes of something like Daniel Tiger or Wild Kratts for road trips

      We rarely watch YouTube together, most of the time he’s watching a series of some kind through Netflix or Paramount. Trollhunters, Gravity Falls, Henry Danger, stuff like that. His only exposure to commercials is during football games, whereas I can still sing over 100 jingles from my childhood

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  • Meron35@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Look into DeArrow (by same creators of SponsorBlock), which offers crowdsourced “de-clickbaited” video titles and thumbnails.

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    • copygirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      While it’s nice to just avoid the clickbait while enjoying potentially genuinely good videos, I ended up uninstalling the extension. I want to explicitly avoid clickbait, and focus on encouraging and supporting creators that don’t use it. Also, if I end up unknowingly interacting with too many clickbait-y videos, I worry the algorithm will push me more of that.

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  • Nurse_Robot@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Damn good answer. Proud of you

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  • gedaliyah@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Unpopular opinion: I have a second phone logged into my kid’s YT account. I train the algorithm while he’s sleeping.

    It takes a significant time, and YouTube doesn’t have good options for blocking content, but it helps keep out the worst of the brainrot.

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    • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I’m not sure whether to be scared or impressed by that. Both, I guess.

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  • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    So, basically a future “people of walmart” 20 years before it happens. So like an orgin story for idiocy.

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• IWW4@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  You can’t and any attempt to do so will only entice them.

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  • TORFdot0@lemmy.world ⁨46⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

    I agree that if you completely take away their agency that it only makes the slop look more attractive but I also disagree that sentiment that “you can’t”. Technically it’s true. But that doesn’t mean we ought to give in to slop as parents. Low effort slop has been around since before AI. Find ways to teach the importance of genuine creative content and cultivate a preference for the real creative works with your children.

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    • IWW4@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨minutes⁩ ago

      In the narrow context of AI slop images it just such a nothing issue. There are so many insanely hard challenges to parenting that worry about you kid seeing shitty art isnt one of them.

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  • ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    No reason to downvote. You can’t keep your kids away from everything you think is harmful. It’s also not good for them, because even if you manage to do so, they won’t be able to properly handle it, when they’re grown up.

    Explain to them what is what, what aspects about it are harmful and how to recognize it something is generated with AI or not.

    Parenting isn’t about shielding your kids from everything you think is bad for them, but about preparing them to handle real life and it’s challenges.

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• TORFdot0@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Only whitelist content or creators you personally have vetted with apps like YouTube kids, jellyfin, etc until you can trust their own decision making. Then share an account so that you can see watch history (and hopefully your good media choices influenced their tastes as you would share an algorithm)

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• palordrolap@fedia.io ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

  "If I find out you've been watching AI slop, there will be consequences. And don't think hiding it from me will make sure I don't find out. Watching slop makes people stupid in a very particular way, and you can't stop yourself from catching stupid from it, so I'll be able to tell."

  It's up to you what "consequences" means in this instance. You could even reveal that the consequence was the stupidity they developed along the way, and now they have to live with that.

  (By all means, modify this message to be less cold and more kind and loving. I am not good at that sort of thing.)

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• hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  (disclaimer: I’m not a parent, so this is just what I think I would do with a hypothetical child)

  How old is the said kid? If 5 or older, I’d have a talk with them about the following points: 1. what generative AI is, 2. why it’s bad/why I don’t want them to watch slop, and 3. how to recognise it, all adjusted so that a kid can grasp those things.

  Another thing is to make sure they don’t spend all or most of their time on screens, but instead ensure that they have the resources and attention to do normal, screenless kid things.

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• deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t, I don’t gatekeep their entertainment. I do critically discuss the content with them though.

  IMHO it’s more important to teach them to critically analyse what they consume.

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  • birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    This is what my parents did, it helped a lot. Media literacy is important!

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  • yakko@feddit.uk ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    Do you have any kids’ media literacy edu content you like?

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    • deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      I just talk through it with them. Get them to think about who made it, why they made it, what’s it saying, where was it made, who is it made for, how theyfound it, what they thought of it, which situations it would be appropriate… and picking it apart.

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• CubitOom@infosec.pub ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  First, help them discover real connections, with their friends, family, volunteer work, or ever work with animals.

  Introduce them to good content; art, music, plays, poetry, novels, film, etc. that actually make them feel or discover something.

  Help them to think critically about the media they consume and they won’t want entertainment to zone out to, but something that they can actually enrich themselfs with.

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• Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Hard restrictions of devices based on age. No phones or tablets until high school. No social media until 16.

  Lots of activities.

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  • LwL@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    Great way to make sure your kid gets bullied and socially excluded, resulting in lifelong trauma.

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  • IWW4@lemmy.zip ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    LMAO… Ok Warren Jeffs, good luck with that.

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• Nioxic@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  My kid doesnt have internet access

  As in, his pc in his room has no internet

  When he plays online in the living room he isnt allowed to go to the browser unless i am there to tell him what to type or which site to go on

  And he has no smartphone etc, just a dumb ass nokia

  My kid is 11

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• ShyFae@piefed.blahaj.zone ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  As a parent, screen time was a mistake.

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• droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Don’t give them full access to the internet until college.

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  • Flax_vert@feddit.uk ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    They need to do a PHD before getting internet access in my family

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  • FerretyFever0@fedia.io ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    That's a little unrealistic, is it not?

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    • droning_in_my_ears@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      Maybe.

      When I was a kid we didn’t have internet until highschool. We’d borrow mom’s laptop for homework and smuggle some games on the way. It made us very… resourceful. Internet was this magical inaccessible thing. I remember when our school gave us tablets with restricted internet, I guessed my math teacher’s password based on how he typed and used his account it to access the full internet.

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    • IronBird@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      i can’t tell if alot of these answers are sarcastic or not…

      i know social media as a whole is predominantly affluent rich people with top much time on their hands, so maybe thay’s just what this demographic is about idk. but surely these people know if you coddle too much the second these kids leave the nest they’re going to make an absolute shitload of mistakes

      better to make those mistakes young in relatively controlled environment, teach critical analysis/how to avoid scams/watch out for predatory behavior etc. than to try and pretend it doesn’t exist through a walled garden

      you can’t stay in the garden forever, at some point someone is either escaping, breaking in, or the walls just crumbling down

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• infinitevalence@discuss.online ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I don’t allow unsupervised watching of YouTube and all other platforms are forbidden.

  Their computers are in a public space where I can see what they are doing and watching.

  I also do not allow screens in their bedrooms the occasional exception being for homework not only if they can’t get it done in a common room.

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• kboos1@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  It’s not really that hard with my son 13, I monitor what he’s doing discreetly using apps and just listening to what he’s doing. I make sure to explain to him what I find acceptable and I give him space and freedom to make mistakes but I’m also clear about the consequences. I don’t let him out of sight or ear shot.

  My daughter 5 on the other hand is much tougher, she likes to watch slop and I have to limit it block shows or apps that have “free streaming” because the garbage is everywhere. She doesn’t understand or know the difference, she doesn’t see the overt government or corporate propaganda and low effort quality, she just sees bright colors and happy cartoons and signing. Here’s hoping my efforts aren’t for not.

  Otherwise, just keep them off the black hole that is social media (Facebook/Instagram/tweeter and their clones) because there’s nothing good or redeemable there, limit YouTube and similar sites, take part in their lives while also giving the space to make decisions, don’t completely cut out AI but encourage creativeness using all of the tools available to them, encourage quality over quantity, instill healthy values, be flexible, and treat them like young humans. Treating them like young humans also means setting boundaries, being firm, standing your ground and being consistent. They’re humans not flowers. The values part is probably the hardest part to impart because what everyone themselves value doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing to everyone else and life is full of contradictions so they need to be able to decide who/what/when/where is the right choice and completely denying everything will blow up in your or their faces.

  The values we teach them as parents is what will allow them to decide when is the right time to allow AI content as something acceptable and give them the knowledge for how to use it to their advantage. AI isn’t going away so don’t run away from it, but that doesn’t mean we have to accept the shit corporations are cramming down our throats or allow it to run our lives and raise our kids.

  It’s a long war and a lot of people give up or declare victory too soon. Never give up, never surrender, because one day you will be old and AI will be running your life support machines and I hope someone’s lazy kid didn’t half ass train it because they grew up watching Cocomelon.

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  • danekrae@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

    I monitor what he’s doing discreetly using apps and just listening to what he’s doing.

    I feel happy about growing up in the time I did…

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    • TORFdot0@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

      We had to use a family computer in a shared space. Not a tablet or phone that could be used unmonitored. Just because it wasn’t a technical measure doing the monitoring doesn’t mean we were unmonitored.

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• Veedem@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  You can’t unless you block social media which includes YouTube. At the end of the day, with my 8yo, I’m taking the approach of using parental controls to limit exposure to content he shouldn’t see and then doing my best to ensure he knows how to spot AI videos in their current state.

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• andybytes@programming.dev ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  I feel sorry for parents. I almost replicated but thank god I did not. I obsered others and kept a record. My findings since I was a child is things are only gonna get worse. I might be a broke, I might be a joke but I sleep with the gravity of a thousand suns. Good luck out there. Thoughts and Prayers

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• brunchyvirus@fedia.io ⁨11⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Just to like the radio, television, internet, etc...AI slip is here to stay, it might die down, but the cats out of the bag. I would take the same steps you would regular parental controls for tv/phone/internet if you're concerned.

  Secondly and more importantly you should be teaching your kids critical thinking skills and not to believe everything they see or hear...just like that old quote

  "Believe half of what you see and nothing of what you hear."

  The reason I say that is regardless of what you think of AI, it's good enough now to where you can grab a few minutes sound bite of someone from Facebook or YouTube and be able to imitate there voice.

  This generation is going to have to be much more viligant not just about spam emails, but audio and video calls imitaing a manger or a significant other...it's going to be very interesting

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• TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Raise them in the woods with no access to the outside world until the age of forty.

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