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Easier to imagine a pretty woman wanting to hurt me than imagine one wanting to kiss me.
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Easier to imagine a pretty woman wanting to hurt me than imagine one wanting to kiss me.
In my admittedly limited experience, women willing to kiss a guy are still often going to be reluctant to do something that they think might hurt that guy, even if the guy insists otherwise.
If im not in actual physical dnager because shes near me, then whats the point?
Honestly same but with guys. Guys that are too keen on hurting a woman are obviously bad, but then they can go the other direction and not be willing to do something even if the woman is a very willing participant.
Not saying I blame them, it’s just a consequence of our society’s general issues with consent.
I’m armchair Freuding a bit, but I think that’s one of the reasons “Femdom” type pornos seem to be enjoyed by some men.
Like I totally get wanting a woman to take control. But the “femdom” stuff online tends to be degarding, straight up mean. (Which some people like and is okay, but it’s more mainstream than I’d imagine).
That’s why there’s also gentle femdom, the superior genre of femdom
I think men are just naturally submissive to women and that’s why they like FemDomme
I think it’s much more that people sexually like exaggerations of what theyre into and sexual power play is a fairly common fantasy. There’s little difference between Masoch’s Venus in Furs and James’s 50 Shades series
That’s incredibly tragic. I might still be single, and I’ve dated some beautiful women, but none of them wanted to hurt me.
I dunno if you want this.
But just gonna say I felt this way for a decade or so. A very lonely decade where my only relationship was short lasted and one sided.
But honestly now looking back it kinda feels dumb I looked at myself that way. I’m literally too disabled to work (which I thought would make it impossible to date). And I have this wonderful partner who loves me more than anything, to the point it can be kinda annoying like she’s obsessed with me.
(Sorry if this comes off as a brag, don’t mean it too, just wanna say what can feel hopeless might change).
This mentality also explains the popularity of tsunderes.
I can’t believe that people have seen the stiletto cock stomp through plywood that caused the man to ejaculate blood and still don’t understand the appeal of this kink.
Sometimes i hate that my brain can accurately visualize things
I was searching for Cognitive Behavioral Therapy!
Aaaand there’s my 14th reason
That’s enough internet for today. Good night, Lemmy. Never change.
I really didn’t need to read that. Take your upvote, and I hope to never read such a thing again.
This is the shit I come to Lemmy for. This is the real internet I love not censored corporate bullshit.
We can all* agree that we want a person we find attractive to place some of their skin in contact with some of our skin. Beyond that, don’t sweat the details!
* I phrased this as inclusively as I possibly could but sorry aromantic asexuals, you might not be included.
I’m extremely sexual, but I don’t like others touching any of my skin.
The funny thing is I’d prefer the stepping, and not in a sexual way. My back always hurts and a good walk across my back is always bliss.
Who says she can’t both step on me and give me a kiss?
I want both
Don’t you know they can’t make you forget you’re the man
Thanks, Norm.
I'd like her to penetrate one ball with her stilettos.
Which one were you thinking, lefty, righty, or middle?
… middle?
If she lined it up right she could get all three and make some kind of stiletto ball kabob.
Maybe some light stiletto sounding first.
I had a bit of a late awakening with all these things so I kind of understand the poster
by late I mean even over 21
I’m kind of autistic though if that means anything, probably on the spectrum
Same, married now, but still.
Why did I read this in Columbo’s voice
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
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SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
I can hear it in my head.
helpImTrappedOnline@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
“Pictures don’t make sound”
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