LustyArgonianMana
@LustyArgonianMana@lemmy.world
Dominatrix in the PNW
- Comment on hygiene 5 days ago:
Worked at vet office, anything like urine or feces must be rinsed off or it will smell. Obviously soap is needed too.
He should powerwash it outside. Or, if in an apartment he could rinse it for a while in the shower.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
There is something called “collective narcissism,” and a lot of this info is in various studies and works. Here’s one study about gender narcissism: link.springer.com/article/…/s11199-020-01193-3
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
His hatred of blackness is based on a delusion, an unreality, a false narrative. Therefore, it doesn’t actually need to make sense. He just compulsively uses that narrative to either feel 1) validated, smart, amazing, grandiose or 2) hated, a monster, the biggest victim and villain. He can even flip back and forth between these. These feelings are HIGHLY ADDICTIVE for them, and it is what they prioritize over EVERYTHING ELSE.
So it isn’t about making sense. It is about feeling grandiose and vulnerable. That’s it. It never had anything to do with black people in the first place, because the narratives he has around them werentreal anyway. It was about picking something he could get supply from.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Why aren’t you saying this to the person justifying using the n word?
Probably because you’re a racist PoS. Go fuck yourself.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
There’s also overlap with power narcissism (“might makes right”, nearly always ties in to physical narcissism and intellectual narcissism), money narcissism (classism), gender narcissism (misogyny), and savior narcissism (the stuff you see in charities and churches, evangelicalism).
And more ofc. There’s no limit to delusions someone can have.
All of that overlaps because there is intersectionality of narcissitic abusers, who then look for victims who safisfy that. We focus a lot of intersectionality of victims and not their abusers. But it’s why Ted Bundy picked young white attractive college girls with long straight dark hair to attack - all of those aspects represent his own narcissistic delusions, they are not the fault or problem of the victim, but of the abuser projecting onto the victim. They look for perfect dolls or teddy bears to project onto. Ted Bundy was otherwise perfectly safe to Anne Rice and most people he encountered because she wasn’t someone he could fully project onto - his narcissistic delusion enforcement wasn’t triggered by her.
So for eg it isn’t so much that Native American women are more likely to be murdered because they are Native women, but that there’s a widespread narcissistic belief set that murdering Native American women is not a concern, so much so that police and media and much of the public ignore it or actively aid it. And now we see this issue magnifying with the deportations - where are all the women? Latinos are just Native Americans who were colonized by Spanish speakers, after all.
But when we focus on abusers instead of the abused, the abusers realize they will get cut off from supply and they have a huge pushback for control.
And yeah it all ties into sexual stuff too
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Read again:
Then these delusions can be applied to others not even in that group, because it was never based on reality to begin with. That’s why he’s calling white people the n word, he simply wants supply and it doesn’t matter if what he says makes sense or is rational.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
You desperately needing to say the n word is clearly you being racist. That you won’t say it around black people shows you know it’s wrong and there are consequences for using it.
You’d be a coward about it just like the white guy in this clip: youtube.com/shorts/SGsXaxgMzPo
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
It does. You can use it, and I can call you a racist and white supremacist. All allowed. Natural consequences of being a racist and using racist terms is being hated by normal people and called out. Can’t handle that, maybe stop using and defending the word and use a different one, ya dumb coward.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Did he ever take gabapentin?
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Maybe you’ll find my take on it interesting: lemmy.world/post/33807544/18577415
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
They need to be asset forfeitured entirely, even of clothes, and anyone who helps them, even by giving them water, should be asset forfeitured too. Let them wander outside naked, drinking from puddles and scrounging for food (not through trash though, that’s illegal, not allowed just like they don’t allow it for poor people who are starving today). Have guards around them to prevent anyone from giving them anything. They don’t like people and society, then they can live without it.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Using that word in the way you describe makes you racist and a white supremacist. There are many other words you can call your “friends.”
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Mine is the word entitlement vs false sense of entitlement.
Me: “You are entitled to your social security money.”
Other guy: “I’m not ficking entitled, that money is mine and I want it back.”
Lol
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
They are making shit up. There’s a whites only town being made in Arkansas right now and the legal system is allowing it there. There is actively a racist genocide happening of Latinos by this government. Kids and adults both yell the nword in games and even on a hacked Roomba. This one guy refusing to believe in racism is just his own racism, don’t buy into it.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Blatant racism is a thing, especially online and in gaming. Someone hacked a Roomba a while back to shout the n word at a family.
The areas of the US that mainly were oppressing Native Americans have colorblindness as their main mode of racism, bc they were trying to genocide Natives. So never allowing talk or race and forcing assimilation is what colorblindness is.
The areas of the US that had more black slaves have more explicit blatant racism, because the entire point in the past was to grow the black slave population and keep them in their place.
Rec book Conquest: Sexual Violence and American Indian Genocide, and/or Heteropatriarchy and the 3 Pillars of White Supremacy to learn more.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Same, I find it genuinely shocking and very different from 10 years ago.
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
Well, they are actively trying to enslave and kill you, so maybe learn
- Comment on Peter Thiel’s bestie going mask off 5 days ago:
He is a racial narcissist (and racial fascist) who has narcissistic delusions about race that are his projections of his own insecurity. He gets narcissistic supply from people responding to his delusions as if they are real. Which is why narcissists crave proximity and control so much and are fascists, because their biggest goal in life is to cater and caretake their delusions, not to actually think or do things or be progressive. It’s about the appearance of those things because it was always about narcissistic supply in the first place.
Most white men who are racial narcissists believe in:
- physical narcissism, which they believe black men are superior to them due to eugenics from chattel slavery, including a belief that they are stronger, their dicks are better and they are better at sex (this is a REALLY big deal to them, more than you would realize). This is also why white supremacists wanted to EAT and DID EAT black slaves. It’s also why they have to push narratives that black people are ugly, phrenology, etc. It’s why they are so physically cruel to them - they overabuse them because they are physically insecure.
- intellectual narcissism, which they believe they are superior to black people because of chattel slavery/owning them (aka sadistic and psychopathic abuse, not intellect) and the various white supremacy lies. This is why they don’t like DEI. Again, remember this is projection- it’s their own deepest insecurities they vomit out constantly through delusions.
Then these delusions can be applied to others not even in that group, because it was never based on reality to begin with. That’s why he’s calling white people the n word, he simply wants supply and it doesn’t matter if what he says makes sense or is rational.
Tldr; Curtis Yarvin believes his own dick is small, he is bad in bed, he is weak, and he is stupid
- Comment on Reddit users in the UK must now upload selfies to access NSFW subreddits 6 days ago:
I don’t agree but I can understand that it is possible, however as someone that used to post adult content professionally on Reddit, I’m going to let you know that there is some WEIRD SHIT going on with their porn subs that seemingly Spez orchestrates at a site level.
Posting OC porn on Reddit is made to be deliberately difficult, you have to submit custom doxxing pictures to mods privately on any bigger sub, the little subs get very little traffic unless it’s like a niche kink. They often have rules like no professionals or SWers, OC only, but then allow Amaranth posts from a fan as if she isn’t a sex worker like anyone else lol. Crossposting or even posting the same picture more than once across 2 forums can earn removal or bans, eg a see through top + wet panties in one pic qualifies for 2 diff subs, but I can only post that pic to 1 of them or risk permaban. And there’s more actually in how difficult they make it to post but it’s kinda boring in terms of details.
Will say, I made my own subreddit - that got removed, no notice or warnings, even though it was active and no site violations and was doing well for at least 6 months.
The girls who are popular on Reddit are not organically so. The posts that are popular are not organically so. They are being promoted by Reddit and the mods themselves. They act as their pimps and stop others from taking any attention or money away from their girls. I am not joking. He is part of the Maxwell stuff.
- Comment on How abnormal is it for a mother to be her son a fleshlight for his 18th birthday? 1 week ago:
Singing also helps with this too, idk if you enjoy that but even humming works.
I don’t really expect anything from you any which way, I mean that nicely, no worries. Take care
- Comment on How abnormal is it for a mother to be her son a fleshlight for his 18th birthday? 1 week ago:
There’s always tomorrow. It’s a good sign you don’t want to be like the person who hurt you and already differentiates you from them as a parent. You are already doing better than your mom by thinking that.
That “worms” feeling and the staying up late is because your brain is using histamine and adrenaline (plus other stuff) to make a lot of neural connections that were already close by. It will mildly restrict blood flow from smaller capillaries too. You can keep that busy or more switched off mentally by exercising and especially doing something that moves your eyes and the muscles under your eyes, eg face yoga. That gets the circulation going back into the small capillaries and helps you reset biochemically. Even just flexing your undereyes (like John Wayne squints) will encourage blood flow in your face and help.
It is a lot of work and pain now, but it is absolutely worth it to see through the bullshit and heal yourself. I am a happier person for it 1000%. It’s worth it to be brave but go slow and don’t push it. Take breaks.
Therapists can be hit or miss (a bad one is worse than no therapist), but you can find one that specializes in BPD that can help guide you (not that you per se have it, but they work with it a lot and can help you understand it really well). BPD, even residual fleas from parents, is VERY treatable with dialectal behavior therapy and talk therapy as long as the person wants to learn and the therapist is adequate (some aren’t).
- Comment on How abnormal is it for a mother to be her son a fleshlight for his 18th birthday? 1 week ago:
To be honest, opening this knowledge up can be overwhelming and can take years. Take your time with it. I still get new memories of abuse that my brain had sort of locked away, it gets easier to assimilate over time though once you have a good foundation/framework for the trauma. The 2 best things for you to remember, is that 1) your mom’s traits are hers, not automatically yours or every mom’s or every woman’s, because she has her own mental illness that is just a “her” thing and 2) good rolemodels you had as a kid besides her, even teachers or therapists.
- Comment on Researchers quietly planned a test to dim sunlight. They wanted to ‘avoid scaring’ the public. 1 week ago:
What I’m proposing is something like the start of a dyson sphere tbh, it would be further out into space and ideally only maintained by machine, no humans.
I think the impact of spreading a bunch of sulfur or other particulates in the air is just a bad idea in terms of health for everyone, and having a large blanket or shield in space would be less risky in that aspect but yes, more technically challenging.
- Comment on Hate to see all the suffering 1 week ago:
They were completely right, wdym?
Colonial people were slaves to their royalty. Oligarchs to this day still use slaves to convert more slaves over - eg bots are mainly slaves, NPR did a Planet Money episode about this. Obviously bots spread slave propaganda to convert people to their side and also accrue blackmail to force them to their side. Many of our celebs and politicians, people like Epstein, fit this exactly. Epstein wasn’t a free man, even if he was an abusive man.
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bartolomé_de_las_Casas
They tried to escape this by going to the Americas, a place for refugees and always has been. Many colonists tried to uprise against their captors and join the Native peoples because Native peoples were generally more democratic (keeping in mind we are talking about multiple continents of different groups of people).
ebsco.com/…/native-america-white-relations-us-177…
People are explicitly slaves per the 13th amendment in the US constitution. I think you just don’t know what modern slavery is, which is intentional by our slavers.
Here are some docs about various forms: Thailand’s Slave Fishermen Maid in Hell: Why Slavery? Slaves of Dubai Slavery by Another Name Dying for Gold Cobalt Red Whore’s Glory Half the Sky Children Underground Link to: youtu.be/xrQ-9eODqy0
- Comment on Researchers quietly planned a test to dim sunlight. They wanted to ‘avoid scaring’ the public. 1 week ago:
Yes, and our demise is axtually polycausal, meaning it isn’t strictly carbon related. We not only need to handle the carbon thing, but alsp pollution and other issues, asap: www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.adh2458
- Comment on Researchers quietly planned a test to dim sunlight. They wanted to ‘avoid scaring’ the public. 1 week ago:
It’s literally our only option to buy us time to sequester carbon. I don’t agree with aerosol or particle based shields that aren’t easily removed, but a metal or solid shield in space locked between the sun and earth to deflect a % of the rays is totally doable and needed
- Comment on Hate to see all the suffering 1 week ago:
It’s all slavery, always has been
- Comment on How abnormal is it for a mother to be her son a fleshlight for his 18th birthday? 1 week ago:
He has been sexually abused by her, perhaps covertly. There is enough in what you described that if I was a mandated reporter, I’d be making a call. From what I know of CSA, he has multiple flags and signs of being sexually abused.
Highly recommend, when you feel okay to do so, to look up emotional incest first, and parentification/adultification. That will explain how your mother has been grooming your brother to be her stand-in husband. The reason she didn’t want him to go to school is because a husband her age wouldn’t go to school.
It sounds like your mom also had an emotionally incestuous relationship with you as well, so reading that material can be extremely “triggering” for you. My sincere condolences, it is very traumatizing. Reading about it can bring up old memories as your brain tries to organize old memories with this new information. Often people get tired, agitated, or even regress in age. Give yourself plenty of time to mentally adjust and read and lots of breaks outside walking around, ideally in nature, w eyeballs moving around. OR you can try to play a game like Tetris afterwards (Tetris is specifically studied as being helpful for PTSD/trauma).
I will also rec the book The Borderline Mother, I’m not sure this applies to her at all, but my guess is that it does
- Comment on Juggalos Not Happy as Insane Clown Posse Releases AI-Generated Video 1 week ago:
Encouraging suicidal ideation
- Comment on what video game deserves to be in a museum? 1 week ago:
Terraria, a monument to indie games and the craft itself, gave tons of free content and still does, unlike the popular pay for expansion models on a half finished buggy game of their contemporaries