They do indeed.
My parents are deeply religious, but have never figured out that it’s my siblings and I who actually answer their prayers.
Everybody talks about beliefs like they're this big important thing.
Submitted 19 hours ago by DominatorX1@thelemmy.club to showerthoughts@lemmy.world
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FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
RagingRobot@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
God sent you to them. It was their reward for rubbing their genitals together. Thank you heavenly Father!!
orbitz@lemmy.ca 5 hours ago
I always liked the line in Dogma about them, don’t turn ideas into beliefs, you can change ideas easier than beliefs. Paraphrased and I understand how much it waters down the whole problem but I still thought the idea of it was nice. Listen and be open, you shouldn’t always need to be rigid. Though mean there are still ideals I’m rigid about, respect, compassion and such. Though I always thought the idea was you thought about what worked best for everyone not just what people said you should do cause tradition.
spunow@lemmy.myserv.one 19 hours ago
My dogma defines my in-group, and my in-group can’t be wrong because then that would mean that I am wrong, which I categorically can’t be. Therefore, your science and logic and proof must be wrong if it contradicts my dogma.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
Ah, so it’s a narrative control thing. Controlling the narrative (including the narrative of me, my ego or whatever) is important.
Well this begs another question. “Why is the narrative so important”?
I mean, we stand in the midst of a constant hurricane of sights, sounds, thoughts, vibes and nameless sensations, but the narrative gets this primary role.
You gotta ask why.
Almacca@aussie.zone 5 hours ago
I believe I’d like another drink.
chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 hours ago
I think a lot of the time “beliefs” are more about social signaling than actual worldview. Most people aren’t going to do anything to go against the grain for the sake of their beliefs, so one belief or another isn’t going to make a difference for anything that matters.
Wytch@lemmy.zip 18 hours ago
Beliefs lead to actions. Actions affect others. It’s not super complicated.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
Lots of things lead to actions. Feelings, habits, inertia, inspiration… Beliefs are not special in this.
rumba@lemmy.zip 4 hours ago
Belief isn’t inherently bad you can believe in observational facts. It’s faith that’s dangerous. Any system that requires you to maintain beliefs without observable facts or in the face of negative confirmational facts is a problem.
46_and_2@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
Judging by all the vaguely hostile comments, you seem to have struck a chord here.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 16 hours ago
Well that’s a terrible truth.
blarghly@lemmy.world 5 hours ago
Well yeah. What you believe is literally all reality is. Of course it’s important. I believe I’m sitting in a chair typing on my phone right now - if I didn’t have those beliefs, my reality would be completely different. That’s important
Mothra@mander.xyz 17 hours ago
Yes and I believe this isn’t really a showerthought
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
So defensive. I believe that I have struck paydirt.
Mothra@mander.xyz 16 hours ago
In the wrong community
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 16 hours ago
Defensive? Now who’s stooping to insults because someone doesn’t believe in your belief?
AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 hours ago
if a belief is a model/theory/assumption that a person will not change regardless of evidence against it, it is by definition a delusion.
If a belief is an opinion, it is a personal statement. Statements like “Vim is the best IDE” are really conveying the information “I prefer Vim over all others IDEs” which is a true statement.
If a belief is a hypothesis then the person holding it will accept if it ends up being wrong.
Only in the first and second cases do people usually place importance on their beliefs, and typically, only the first case leads people to harm others or themselves with no way to convince them to stop.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 15 hours ago
To generalize it, I’d call a belief “an idea that you are attached to”. And it bears upon your more general blob of beliefs, thoughts, memories, etc accordingly. Like a constant among variables in the midst of an algorithm.
AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 hours ago
The word for established assumptions is “axioms”
Definitions are kind of the most fundamental axioms. Abstracting things helps us build with them and they’re true because you say they are.
We use axioms in models to derive new theorems/information. But that is often what makes us resist changing them. If you build your other assumptions on an axiom, you have to rethink all those assumptions or even throw them out when it gets proven wrong.
However, attachment to a belief, holding to an assumption even when it’s been proven wrong, is called “delusion” and yeah those beliefs tend to be the most destructive
bradorsomething@ttrpg.network 12 hours ago
The difference between a belief and a theory is no one was ever burned at the stake disagreeing about a theory.
rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
In my view, beliefs are important. To me, a person is built from their beliefs.
Beliefs are mutable and can change for all sorts of reasons, at all sorts of speeds, and in all sorts of ways. They’re not permanent, but I do think they’re fundamental to people.
slazer2au@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
Do some people it is.
HenriVolney@sh.itjust.works 13 hours ago
People do that. Like kids talking about their favorite baseball team. The same focus on things that move them to the core, while having no effect on to their life apart the place they willingly give them.
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 16 hours ago
Well, they are.
They define one’s view of the world, your paradigm.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 16 hours ago
That depends on the person.
You perceive a thousand things. Sights, sounds, nameless feelings… as well as beliefs.
One can be guided by any of that. And one can treat any of that as central.
Whether or not one treats one’s beliefs as centrally important appears to be a matter of preference or perspective. Or something .
auraithx@piefed.social 19 hours ago
who asked you?
DreamAccountant@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
I did. I asked.
Fuck off.
auraithx@piefed.social 16 hours ago
Whoosh
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
Asked me what?
auraithx@piefed.social 17 hours ago
For your belief on this matter.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
So you stand for nothing? You’ve no values? I mean, I guess one doesn’t need to have an ideology to be a hedonistic, consumerist pig, lol.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
Please, go on. You seem to be having a perfectly nice conversation with yourself here.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
I mean, I assumed you didn’t believe beliefs were fundamental and important since your whole post consists of being shocked by it, lol. Don’t step back now, silly man.
DreamAccountant@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
This asshole thinks that religions and beliefs stop people from being hedonistic, consumerist pigs. lololololol.
Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe 16 hours ago
You brought religion into this, and your sophist insults.
Sounds like someone has a belief and is upset it’s being exposed.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
How do you think you pass over riches, drugs, sex, etc that you can easily acquire one way or another? You don’t cheat on your wife because of your beliefs, you don’t do coke because of your beliefs, you don’t undercut your employees because of your beliefs, etc etc. There literally isn’t any other way to curtail your hedonistic impulses (and other impulses, ofc) but to BELIEVE in something, a sentence or a group of sentences that resound within you at least, that tells you “no, it’s okay, I can hold it in cause if not I’ll regret it later”. It’s either that or, idk, locking yourself up in a room? 😅
Alsjemenou@lemy.nl 16 hours ago
Because everything we can say about reality is through the human perspective and the construct of language. We believe that this can yield us truths. But its just a belief. Our human-ness might just as well blind us to what is actually true. And as such, most of everything we think we know is based on belief. There is no escaping this problem.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 15 hours ago
Ahh, now that’s an interesting idea. Beliefs are important because they are communicable. So belief gains weight from its social significance. As society is powerful then so are beliefs.
So a man outside society, a hermit, might find his beliefs falling away.
Alsjemenou@lemy.nl 12 hours ago
Yes. And also explains why worldviews are so different between cultural, linguistical and geographically different groups of people.
Even though we’re becoming more and more unified, through the internet, through logic systems like maths or science in general. This is not to be mistaken for truth. Western scientific ideology specifically has as unspoken ‘truth’ that when ideas ‘win’, they are more valuable. While English, our logical rules, our ideologies are winning not because they are true but because they are believed more, or over, other languages, logic systems and ideologies.
Ofcourse these systems of beliefs create opportunities and knowledge for people. Don’t mistake my dismissal of truth for disaproval.
GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 16 hours ago
All I know is that nobody knows shit.
riskable@programming.dev 15 hours ago
If you don’t know shit you need to eat some real food!
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 16 hours ago
Nonetheless we definitely get attached to certain ideas. For various reasons.
But more than that, getting attached to certain ideas (believing stuff) is widely considered to me normal, right, healthy and necessary. Which makes beliefs important.
So you gotta ask why that is.
GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 14 hours ago
You definitely assumed that the message you typed could be understood by a random stranger and be delivered through a series of wires and rocks that can think, and possibly sent over magical waves which cannot be seen. Maybe it’s all just your or my imagination.
Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 16 hours ago
Believe in yourself - if nothing else.
PoastRotato@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Yeah, of course they do. They literally form the cornerstone of your worldview. If you change someone’s beliefs, you change how they see the world. That sounds pretty damn big and important.
Akasazh@feddit.nl 11 hours ago
I wish I got to be as militant about my atheist beliefs as some nut jobs can be about their faith.
Not that I really want to, but must be nice sometimes just acting like everybody that doesn’t think like me is wrong
acockworkorange@mander.xyz 7 hours ago
We could go door to door spreading our disbelief. But we generally hate proselytizers.
Schmoo@slrpnk.net 7 hours ago
Some people are, it’s called antitheism. I confess when I was an edgy 16yo I was like that, but I had just left a religious cult so don’t judge me too harshly.
DreamAccountant@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Cornerstones, my ASS. Beliefs are just goofy fiction. I believe you’re wearing fruit as a hat. Nobody gives a shit. Nobody should ever give a shit. It’s not a cornerstone of my life, it’s a fleeting nothing, based on nothing, worth nothing.
Some asshole taught you that beliefs are everything? They lied. You know what IS everything?
Fucking everything is! Matter, energy, reality, facts, - that’s what’s important. You believe you can walk on the Sun? “Fuck you” - Reality.
BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
So what you are saying is that it is your own belief that the concept of beliefs encompasses only false beliefs.
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 16 hours ago
So why are beliefs so important for ao many people then?
I mean sure, maybe it’s just indoctrination.
Or maybe it’s utility. Believing a nice scientific model or car repair manual can deliver definite advantages.
Or maybe it’s habit. I’m stuck in my head so areanging my mental furniture becomes important.
Or something else
riskable@programming.dev 15 hours ago
Nietzsche would be proud 🥲
DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 17 hours ago
Why does it get that special role of “cornerstone”.
You have a thousand things in your perspective. Sights, sounds, vibes, random thoughts… Why does belief get this special treatment?
AnarchoEngineer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 hours ago
I think by cornerstone, they are referencing that beliefs are assumptions that form one’s model of the world.
You think by logically building on assumptions. “I remember putting leftovers in the fridge last night, so I don’t need to make dinner tonight” You assume your memories are accurate (or accurate enough) and then build on other things you “know” to construct every thought.
Sights, sounds, and vibes are a different story. They are called qualia and the raw experience of them cannot be described.
Think of qualia like the raw data you collect from an experiment. Your worldview is the scientific model you’ve built to describe this data and it rests on both fundamental logic and the beliefs/theories you currently believe in.
Unfortunately people don’t like having to change their worldview. And when you’ve held a belief for long enough, it becomes foundational to many of your other assumptions. Some people would rather say reality is wrong than change their beliefs.
The word for a belief that cannot be changed via evidence is called a “delusion” in case you ever want to piss off a religious person who says “nothing can shake my faith” like it’s a good thing.
ChicoSuave@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
Sounds like the idea of “belief” is just being accepted as a religious or spiritual idea. Beliefs are the cornerstone because it’s a tool we use every single day.
At the center of how we think is the fundamental idea of The Way Things Work and that comes down to how we believe the physical things around us will act and react. Just about everyone will start making a choice by comparing what we know to be real or true for ourselves and the things around us.
That cornerstone of belief is what we use to define “real and true”. Ghosts or spirits are absolutely real and true for some people while others don’t see the same evidence.
Beliefs get the special treatment because we are a collection of our experiences and each one of us has a different way of understanding how things work.