blarghly

@blarghly@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Depressed and Lonely? There Could Be a Robotic Sex Partner in Your Future⁩ ⁨⁨8⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  Sounds like a pretty big cope. Sex isn’t about cumming. It’s about emotional connection with another human being. Being unable to get fulfillment of this basic human need is sad and lonely. This is why fleshlights have a stigma that beating your bishop the old fashioned way doesn’t - every healthy teenaged boy spanks it on the reg. But actually purchasing a device speaks to a level of hopelessness at obtaining actual sex that is sad, which implies a failure to be attractive, which is itself unattractive.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨This is why we have a defense budget⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Thanks I hate it.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do you really have to let everyone know⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Look up “polarizing” as a dating strategy. You don’t have to attract everyone. Just the people who are into what you’re into.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do you really have to let everyone know⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Not really. I’d say that most fetishes heavily favor one gender or another.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do you really have to let everyone know⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Who said it isn’t working?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do you really have to let everyone know⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  No, but a lot of women are really into giving pleasure to their partners, whatever that might entail (within boundaries). So if a guy is really into feet and shows it, there’s a decent chance his partner will get off on indulging his fetish. Plus, I assume foot fetishists give the best foot massages.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why do people insist on not answering ALL the questions in an email or text message?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Big shout out for enumerating questions. Makes it clear you need an answer for each one. Makes it easier to follow up if you need more info on a particular question. Makes it easier to pester the person with “hey, I need an answer to 2 by EOD or project deadlines will be significantly impacted” (copied to your PM).

  People’s poor reading comprehension is annoying. But the right move is to do everything you can to get the answers you need, creating a polite paper trail as you go. Usually the other person will get you the info you need sooner if you pester them enough, with the implied threat that you are building a case against them if the project is delayed. Because if they don’t answer your questions in a timely fashion when you do everything possible to get the answers you need, it is their fault.