Horny🧠

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• x4740N@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  In before the no-fap weirdos show up

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  • Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    you are no-fap because you have an unhealthy relationship to sex

    i am no-fap because i plant to die like a male bee: nutting so hard my balls explode

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• Lemminary@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Closer to my experience:

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• uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  So about two years ago, my libido switched to working not at all. Its previous stage was working-half-assed for most of my adult life. Psych-meds were (and probably still are) a factor.

  I kinda hoped it’s going to be wheeee! I’m ace! GARLIC BREAD!

  Alas, no.

  But I now have two noteworthy phenomena:

  The first is I’ll look at something erotic. Usually porn. There’s lots of porn available, and my brain goes this is important. It means something to me and tries to decipher it like a 70s era acid rock album cover or a Salvador Dali painting. It’s not titillating… not quite. It’s like someone gave me a post-hypnotic suggestion years ago and I accidentally came across the triggering image, but that subconscious code is faint and sepia now and gives me strange impulses.

  The other phenomenon is when my brain goes HORNY and I’ll look at porn and it skips right over it. HORNY! It’s like the zombies deciding Homer Simpson doesn’t have enough brains to be interesting, there’s no sexy in these curves. Nor these. Nor these. Everything is all wrong! This is super frustrating, and sometimes I’m compelled to keep looking for the stimulus that has the right pins in the right order to turn the lock.

  I understand Leon now, Nothing is worse than having an itch you can never scratch!

  Sadly this was a factor in my separation with my wife. We still see each other once a week for dinner. It’s a zesty blend of complicated and tragic, the kind that happens while society collapses Titanic sinks.

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  • underscores@lemmy.zip ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    that’s rough but as a stranger I appreciate the insight, what about meds ie: viegra ?

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    • uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Viagra and Cialis worked when I was younger and probably would work still. But they’re not covered by Medicare-D and are very expensive to purchase.

      Not wholly off the table, though, if we get lucky and find a source.

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• gofsckyourself@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  New version with more pixels and not cropped

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  • Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Really? That’s sus. Seems more likely you just posted an older version and the newer one is a modified version OP posted.

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    • gofsckyourself@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I literally made it myself

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  • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    newer version with less pixels and cropped

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    • Donkter@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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• thatradomguy@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Real

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• jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Me (a man):

  Wakes up… “Hmmm. I really have to pee.”

  My brain: “Horny! HORNY NOW!”

  Me: “What?! No! Why??? Ughhh!!”

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  • ValarieLenin@midwest.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Finnastride can help with this according to Hasanabi.

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• pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  i feel this is usually a bigger problem when you have a dick.

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  • outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Why? Gets physically in the way? Can’t, like… Do pus–ups?

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    • pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      having to deal with a boner when you don’t want it is an annoyance.

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  • dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    that’s a common belief, but it varies a lot by individual, with many women having higher sex drives than men

    psychologytoday.com/…/do-men-really-have-stronger…

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    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The researchers propose to measure affect in terms of how easily you get aroused when faced with a sexual stimulus or situation. Likewise, behavior involves the frequency of sexual acts. And finally, cognition has to do with how often you think about sex.

      that’s actually really interesting that there’s different categories of sex drives

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    • pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      i actually wasn’t talking about men vs women; i was talking about having a dick vs not, specifically because of having to deal with a boner during the day… but apparently some trans people who start taking T can get overwhelmed with how much it horns them up so i don’t know; maybe it’s anecdotally true even.

      other than that I’ve always believed it’s (at least mostly) social conditioning though.

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  • oplkill@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    for man its easier and faster to release that horny statement

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    • pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      yeah but it’s kinda frowned upon by the people around

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  • MissJinx@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m a woman and I disagree

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    • macaw_dean_settle@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      No, pyre is correct.

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    • TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      it’s not exactly the same as a full understanding but my transmasc friends labido in the first year of T was much worse than my first year of E (so far atleast)

      however my emotion regulation is WAYYYY worse than his was

      neither of us would get off HRT for the world though.

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    • pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      yeah but now i have two people with reference points to both feminine and masculine hormonal makeup that agree with my assumption so I’m gonna believe them more…

      … not because they have unique perspectives but because they reaffirm my previously held beliefs

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  • henfredemars@infosec.pub ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I have a sample size of one trans friend who started taking male hormones and felt it completely overwhelming. He was absolutely astounded by how intense it was for months on end until he felt he built up some mental fortitude.

    Clearly, it’s not an ideal comparison, and personal experiences are highly individual but I found their experience interesting.

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    • shneancy@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      as another trans guy i can confirm, T took my libido from “mid, horny sometimes” to “I GET HORNY EVERY DAY AND IF I DON’T FIX IT I LITERALLY CANNOT FOCUS”, in the span of like, no time, literally started with the first or injection

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    • stoicmaverick@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I would be fascinated to talk to this person. As a straight cis male dude guy, this is just all day, every day. I’d be like hearing someone describe the sun who’s never been outside before in the whole life.

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    • pyre@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      thanks for sharing; it’s wildly interesting! he’s one of a small number of people who can speak for two different modes of physical/hormonal makeup.

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• sundray@lemmus.org ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Well then, it’s a beautiful day to be horny I guess 🤷‍♀️

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  • Thassodar@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Coincidentally it’s my birthday, so it’s a beautiful horny day

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    • synae@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      happy birthday, ya horndog

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• lath@piefed.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  True. A good, safe environment will kickstart your baby making hormones into overdrive.

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  • sxan@midwest.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I thought it was the opposite: dangerous situations kicked the hormones into overdrive?

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    • lath@piefed.social ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      You're not going to believe this, but it can be both. For different reasons.

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    • deus@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      It’s always horny time

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• msage@programming.dev ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I thought this was Jessica!

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• finitebanjo@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  For the unawares, the original comic said “DANGER!”

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  • gofsckyourself@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • Zachariah@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    same thing really

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    • arin@lemmy.world ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Danger noodle

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• Lembot_0004@discuss.online ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  But hornieness just improves any day!

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  • EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Eh, depends on the person. I’m ace and don’t really feel it mentally but my body will respond to things so I generally just find it to be an inconvenience. Though sometimes my partner and I get a good laugh about it because I’ll not realize it sometimes and she’ll notice before me.

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    • CanadianCarl@sh.itjust.works ⁨8⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Aces are pretty nice to have have when gambling.

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