As they say, (willfull?) ignorance is bliss.
Woke
Submitted 2 months ago by Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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Armand1@lemmy.world 2 months ago
sompreno@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Wouldn’t say their ignorant, most people know and choose to believe what they believe regardless
FreshLight@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
Smarter people are more likely to be depressed. Just a filter there not a direct correlation.
zikzak025@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’d argue there’s nothing normal about being a well-adjusted person in a terminally ill society.
vaultdweller013@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
I would rather be a John Brown in a horrid world than be “sane man” in the same such world and boy am I about to give into my madness and zealotry.
aesthelete@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Having empathy in this society run by psychopaths is depressing and anxiety inducing indeed.
It bleeds into everything in this whole place. You know when you’re using something — a government system, a website, a support line, an application — and it feels like nobody thought about how shitty the experience would be for you? That’s what it feels like to live in a society that has no empathy. The people that design these systems do not give a shit about how you’ll feel being subjected to them, because they have no empathy.
bizarroland@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I am a somewhat empathetic person.
I was raised in a family of people that had no empathy.
My grandmother met all of the criteria to be labeled as a sociopath, psychopath, something, and she raised her kids accordingly.
So when I was a kid, like my little sister would grab my arm and rake her nails down my arm to just grate as much skin off as she could because she was upset over something.
And I would complain, and I would be told that maybe I shouldn’t have upset her.
And also being a kid, sometimes I would cry.
And my grandmother came to me and was like, you’re bigger than her, why don’t you just do something about this? And I said, I do. I cry.
She thought that was hilarious. She told that story as a joke any time I was brought up for the rest of her life.
To me, when I see someone else crying because of something I did, that causes me emotional pain because I’m normal.
So I was attempting to cause emotional pain, not on purpose, but because I was actually hurt, as punishment for the action that my psychopath sister, who was raised by my psychopath mother, who was raised by my psychopath grandmother, had taken.
But the concept of feeling emotional pain as the consequence of your action choosing to hurt another person is and was so alien to the people in my family that it being explained to them comes across as humor.
Needless to say, I don’t associate with my family anymore. I have not talked to any person that I am blood related to in four months, and even that was just a quick text.
People say I’m weird. Okay, I was raised by a very weird family in very weird circumstances, doing my best to be sane and normal in a weird situation.
It’s very much the same for being woke when opening your eyes to be woke today is like eating lunch in a room full of dead bodies.
aesthelete@lemmy.world 1 month ago
People say I’m weird. Okay, I was raised by a very weird family in very weird circumstances, doing my best to be sane and normal in a weird situation.
I feel for you. At least some members of my family are either psychopaths, have narcissistic personality disorder, or both. I think the comorbidity there is pretty common.
The lifelong damage caused by being raised by a pack of wolves is real.
killea@lemmy.world 1 month ago
“People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time.”
Alvaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 month ago
Life would be easier if I just believed that I am superior and that my president is good, too bad I have a brain 🙃
KaChilde@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
If you aren’t at least a little bit anxious and depressed about the state of the world, you haven’t been paying attention.
I also refuse to believe that all the racist, misogynist, bigoted snowflakes out there are living anxiety free, considering how quickly they blow up at the sight of a pronoun.
Tigeroovy@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
Yeah, they seem to be more afraid of shit they made up than anybody else.
Like part of the reason small town conservative types don’t like the ideas of cities is because they’re scared of being mugged.
N0t_5ure@lemmy.world 2 months ago
To paraphrase George Bernard Shaw, the fact that a MAGA racist is happier than a woke person is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one. The happiness of credulity is a cheap and dangerous quality of happiness, and by no means a necessity of life.
lengau@midwest.social 1 month ago
Breaking: people with empathy affected by other people’s suffering.
Earthman_Jim@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
Fucking accurate.
The only time I’ve seen racists sad is when Trump didn’t kill enough immigrants fast enough.
Gates9@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
They put ICE in the airports, they’re sending them to polling places, they bought the voting machines. Soon there will be a critical mass of people who have nothing left to lose: a Constitutional crisis and a confrontation between the civilian population and the fascist regime is imminent.
chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
I haven’t listened to Knowledge Fight for a while because I’m watching my own mental health a bit, but ol AJ has never sounded actually happy for more than an episode or two. Hatred like they have sounds like they sleep well, but they’re fucking miserable too. J.K. Rowling could shut up and just enjoy being rich, but she still has to find someone to hate and hurt. You wouldn’t really hear about a happy person.
Gerudo@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
My woke ass actually feels empathy for others, so of course I am depressed watching them get disappeared.
Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
Rather be unhappy than live in fear.
Which is what the asleep people have.
RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I live in fear of the “asleep” people being in charge.
AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
It’s probably 300 times harder to be depressed and anxious when you are braindead, so this tracks.
minorkeys@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Simple worldviews tend to be happier. Ignorance is bliss.
BennyTheExplorer@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Honestly, I am pretty happy as a woke person.
The trick is to watch less news and do more things to actually change anything.
Vreyan31@reddthat.com 1 month ago
I’m part of a mutual aid group that delivers groceries to people every 2 weeks.
We sometimes get urgent requests on off-dates.
I don’t think I can explain how satisfying(?), motivating(?) it was to randomly get off work one evening last week with instructions to buy $50 worth of groceries for someone I’d never met and to drop it off.
To be part of someone finding relief in a terrible situation.
The hardest part was honestly finding a group with flexible opportunities that I could contribute to regularly. Most organizations that ask for volunteers often want business-hour availability, and 6+ mo commitment - ie, good for retirees.
fuck_u_spez_in_particular@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yep, (social) media is optimized in fueling your emotions, and well the strongest emotions are negative, so it’s mostly optimized towards that.
Avoiding this, doing something more healthy leads to a better mental (and likely physical as it’s connected) health IMO/IME.
JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
It was maybe a month or two ago that showed that studies like these - all usually done as surveys - are highly susceptible to changes in input from users, just by word choice. In their example, they showed that if you use terms like ‘mental health’ while surveying people, a discrepancy emerges between non-conservatives and conservatives. This discrepancy disappears when you instead ask other questions, such as ones about sleep, worries , and fears.
So I don’t really know if I overall trust the data on happiness overall.
Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 month ago
You telling me you dont trust the data for a shitpost?
ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 1 month ago
Yes, it has to be quite nice and comforting to be stupid. I can only imagine…
NarrativeBear@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Fedizen@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Most of the MAGA sphere spends all day watching all the things the news people tell them to be afraid of. I’ve met these people, they aren’t happy so much as little piggies that love to roll around in filth.
Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 month ago
You gonna tell me a shit post may not be factually accurate?
king_comrade@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Sir, my pearls have been clutched!
fuck_u_spez_in_particular@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yeah I think I recently have read here on Lemmy that the amygdala is bigger for MAGA, so I think the opposite is true indeed.
Which would also make more sense, because of all the irrational anxieties those scum has…
Linken@lemmy.world 2 months ago
I couldn’t take current events anymore and now I’m in therapy haha long overdue really.
daggermoon@piefed.world 1 month ago
Depressive realism
Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 month ago
My favorite
joyjoy@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
I too am happiest when I’m asleep.
Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Username…relevant? I guess? This post makes me sad…
ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Username relevant? That’s what happens when you don’t sleep/stay awake/confront the horrors.
ImgurRefugee114@reddthat.com 2 months ago
You might come to that conclusion: if you associate wokeness with empathy then it makes sense to think that such people are emotionally influenced by all the shit in the world and therefor must feel worse than those who don’t have such a burden. All other things being equal, that would probably be true; but it overlooks the fact that the proudly antiwoke are fucking miserable.
undergroundoverground@lemmy.world 1 month ago
This just in, ignorance is still bliss
Cantaloupe@lemmy.fedioasis.cc 1 month ago
Yeah I wonder why that is.
TootSweet@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Source?
cogitase@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
Rooster326@programming.dev 1 month ago
Ah yes. Prime them with loaded questions then ask them happiness in a scale
TootSweet@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Ah. NY Post.
Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 month ago
You
TwilitSky@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I wouldn’t call myself woke and I’m not happy. This is NONSENSE!
GreenBeanMachine@lemmy.world 1 month ago
So the less you care the less you stress? Makes sense.
manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
This is 100% a nazi meme
Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’m confident you dont know what that means
lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 months ago
I’m not sure to which extend this is true but this might be correlation. I guess MAGA people are more often privileged while marginalized people are more often woke and due to their marginalization they are depressed
TransNeko@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No shit. it’s really depressing seeing all of those filthy pedophiles and nazis getting sexually aroused by dead kids.
and even more depressing watching 2/3rds of Americans refusing to deal with 80 million terrorists in America.
moonshadow@slrpnk.net 1 month ago
Eighty million terrorists? Think I finally get what “blue maga” means x(
TransNeko@lemmy.world 1 month ago
let me guess. you believe in a simple concept: being a bystander is better than resisting fascists. and you love letting MAGA bang your wife and daughter.
WizardofFrobozz@lemmy.ca 1 month ago
Everyone who shows up to wave a sign at one or two No Kings parades as the extent of their “resistance” is MAGA-lite as far as I’m concerned.
Actually start throwing punches or stay the fuck home, you clowns.
TransNeko@lemmy.world 1 month ago
and let me guess… you would fight but you don’t have the balls to do anything other than jack off to ICE agents slipping on ice.
MirrorGiraffe@piefed.social 1 month ago
How’s the fighting going?