People with no friends needs to get the fuck up over it

Submitted ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz⁩ to ⁨showerthoughts@lemmy.world⁩

I have seen two YouTube videos: one of a 25-year-old woman crying because she has no friends and never had friends, and the other of a 31-year-old GROWN MAN crying on CAMERA because he had no friends and has no friends. Like, ok, this is so pathetic. Who cares if you have no friends? That’s not something to break down crying about; it would be equivalent to me asking a woman out, getting rejected and then crying about it. Please grow the fuck up, leave people alone and do your own thing.

One song lyric I like is “Just because you got yourself in some shit”. It doesn’t mean I have to come deal with it. You handle your own when you become a man, and you become a man when you handle your own."

Friendships are not important, and not having friends is not something to cry or be upset about.

If you have no friends and are isolated and you want to cry over it, please get the fuck over it.

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Iheartcheese@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Jesus you sound like a whiny little bitch

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- starlinguk@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Bet they have no friends.
  
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the_q@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Ladies and gentleman, I present… the effects of Andrew Tate!

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devolution@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Behold! The incel!

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otter@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

Please grow the fuck up, leave people alone and do your own thing.

Why make this post then? You’re doing the same thing you’re complaining about. You can always just block content you don’t want to see

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- FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  I watch YouTube a lot and have never seen videos of the kind op speaks of. Pretty easy to choose what you watch on YouTube.
  
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michaelalf@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Humans evolved being social. Hunting and gathering food, protecting the tribe from predators, raising the young. Not everyone needs or wants friends, but social inclusion is hardwired into our brains.

You’re either very young and naïve, or very self centered and lack empathy/are a sociopath. Either way, grow the fuck up.

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ieatpwns@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
This has to be bait

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- SacralPlexus@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  OP was in another post trolling about “Darth Vader did nothing wrong” despite many people pointing out that he did in fact murder children and that is pretty wrong. I think they are just a downvote troll.
  
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Agrivar@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
This isn’t a showerthought. This is the pathetic whingeing of an incel that saw something that almost cracked their shell.

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owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
##People with shit opinions need to shut the fuck up over it

I have seen lots of posts, one where a GROWN MAN is WHINING like a little bitch because he saw a couple of youtube videos with people crying in them. Like, ok, this is so pathetic. Who cares what random people on youtube are doing? That’s not something to create a bitchertation about; it would be equivalent of me watching a youtube video that doesn’t interest me and whining to a bunch of strangers about it. Please grow the fuck up, leave people alone and do your own thing.

One song lyric I like is “You’re a loser, baby, a loser, goddamn baby, you’re a fucked-up little whiny bitch (hey).”

Youtube videos are not important, and not liking one is not something to bitch or whine about.

If you don’t like random youtube videos and you want to whine like a little bitch over it, please get the fuck over it.

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theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Everything you post is more evidence that you lack a soul

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- FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  Op once posted about how they don’t care their friend’s child is dying and how they could help but don’t care
  
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FiniteBanjo@feddit.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Anybody reading this who wants spare friends is welcome to check out my discord channel, we occasionally play games on Saturdays. https://discord.gg/FmH989hUPd

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StillAlive@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
You sound like a cunt. Blocked.

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jasoman@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Go tell your friends that not us asshole.

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db2@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

and the other of a 31-year-old GROWN MAN crying on CAMERA

You’re presumably an adult. Whatever was done to you as a child is I’m sure tragic, but as an adult you don’t get a free pass. Your lack of socialization to the point of toxicity is an entirely you problem so take it and go away. You know, the advice you were foisting on others, except when directed at yourself it actually makes sense.

Unless, as is likely, you’re just a hypocrite.

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mysticpickle@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Well. You definitely sound like you’ve got a lot of experience not having friends :>

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Rhoeri@piefed.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
This should be a stupid post in Unpopularopinion instead of a stupid post in Showerthoughts.

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whelk@retrolemmy.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I don’t know man, you’re kind of doing the same sort of thing right now

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hoshikarakitaridia@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
I thought we were over this tough guy talk already.

You can live a depressing life where you tell yourself any emotion towards your current situation is not to be shown otherwise you are weak and you need to be strong.

Or you can also accept that life is complex, feelings are valid, we are social creatures, real mental health means being vulnerable and the strongest people are the ones that can be vulnerable.

You are complaining because people are vulnerable. You know what? That’s the most respectable shit, to talk about deep fears and strong feelings on camera, while those people know there’s some easily irritable people like you out there who “can’t stand the weak”.

I had so many opportunities in my life to become numb, choose to suck it up, never talk about things, maybe become violent or insane, but the hardest and most sensible choice was always to be vulnerable, and everyone who doesn’t have the guts to choose that is a different kind of weak. And because I am not like you I don’t hate weak people, I listen to them, I learn from them and help them improve likewise.

TL;DR that is one of the most ignorant takes I’ve heard in a while.

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spittingimage@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Turn youtube off and go outside. You need some light that isn’t filtered through your computer screen.

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FreshParsnip@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
You sir, are the limit

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wltr@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Telling us 25 and 31 are grown ups, is like … they are not, actually. It’s after the thirties when you’re a grown up.

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Lumidaub@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Omg Grimreaper you’re back i’m your biggest fan (⁠灬⁠º⁠‿⁠º⁠灬⁠)⁠♡

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AethiopeRoot@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Germ…People be down voting to the truth

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474D@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Being someone who cries on YouTube is probably part of why they have this issue lol. Also the song is by Yelawolf - Till It’s Gone

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