Yep

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• Clairvoidance@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Well, always felt that.

  I can’t tell if it’s just body-dysmorphia

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• _____@lemm.ee ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Me when I look at my highschool id card. I thought I was hideous then. Now, on the other hand …

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• MTK@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  The nice thing about not being naturally attractive is that as I get ilder and start to freak out about my physical health, I get better looking.

  So for the most part I’m happy about always looking my best because dear god I’m gonna die at 40 if I don’t start working on my health now.

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• ciara@infosec.pub ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  with estrogen… you just keep looking better

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• 1984@lemmy.today ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I think guys usually look better when they get older. More charisma, confidence. Not all but quite a lot.

  And I think the attraction level of genders change. Women are super attractive when they are 20, but its hard for them to stay attractive when they are 40. For men its the other way around… They look better at 40 than 20, and age better.

  Of course just my opinion.

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  • null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Nah.

    Some people age well, others don’t. IMO the ratio is about the same in any gender.

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  • Shellbeach@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Blergh

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• peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Fuck that I look way better.

  I look older, sure. With less hair. A lot more single. But I’m down 90lbs and I’ve finally figured out style

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  • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    and I’ve finally figured out style

    Heeelllll yeah \m/

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  • Lemminary@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Same here. I’m getting a lot more attention from people who I thought were way out of my league when I was younger.

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    • null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Weirdly this is true.

      I’m a lot less attractive in my appearance but aparently more attractive as a person.

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    • peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Oh I haven’t gotten any attention, mostly because I don’t get out of the house much.

      I could. Probably should take a cooking class or something

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  • rockyracoon@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    That’s awesome, congrats! This is the kind of inspiration I need.

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• itsgroundhogdayagain@lemmy.ml ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I hated my hair but I sure do miss it.

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• Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  is there any sub where I can post my pictures to get a female eye on it? Lately I’ve been feeling very meh about myself

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  • Trainguyrom@reddthat.com ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Honestly I just want some ideas for mixing up my style. I’m jealous of my wife and daughter for all of the fun dresses and jewelry and whatnot they can do but masculine outfits don’t really allow for many options

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    • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      There is if you know where to look, but yeah, I feel you. I want to wear long flowy coats and such, but they’re all cut at the goddamn hip.

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  • 1984@lemmy.today ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Reddit has subs for that but people are really not fair. Pretty people post pics of themselves and say they look awful. Yeah right.

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• SacredHeartAttack@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I feel seen. DON’T LOOK AT MY THOUGH I’M HIDEOUS!

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  • ickplant@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Not as hideous as you’ll be in a few years!

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• nikosey@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  100%. Also cleaning the kitchen. Always cleaning the kitchen.

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  • i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.

    …which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.

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  • jballs@sh.itjust.works ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Image

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  • ickplant@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    And laundry. Always folding the laundry.

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    • Droggelbecher@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The key to a successful relationship is to have one partner that is sort of ok with doing the laundry and one partner that is sort of ok with doing the dishes.

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    • prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Not if I never fold it and just pull out of the basket for the rest of my life

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• partial_accumen@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’d change that as : “Being an adult is mostly realizing you didn’t look as bad as you thought you did because the only person that was concerned about that was you. Everyone else was doing their own thing focusing on themselves, just like they are now.”

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  • ickplant@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I like this version.

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• Lembot_0002@lemm.ee ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Nah, with age I become wiser and my look is more or less stable for the last 20 years. Just more white hair but that doesn’t look bad.

  You’re maturing wrong :)

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  • sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I feel like this is less true for women.

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    • shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Partly! Some women explode out the gate with a little age on them. My ex-gf was pretty in her 30s, but in her late 40s would turn heads when she walked in the room. And then there are the plain Janes in high school that turn out OMFG years later.

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    • abbadon420@lemm.ee ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Yes, men definitely grow old better when it comes to looks. Women live longer than men though.

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  • motor_spirit@lemmy.world ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    good bot

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    • Lembot_0002@lemm.ee ⁨11⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      good engine

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