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Can’t catch a break
- Comment on If youre bi do you have to prove it? 2 weeks ago:
No. I’ll take someone at their word about their sexual orientation.
If someone is bi and they only date people of the opposite gender, they’re still bi. They’re not straight but want to be different.
If someone is bi and they only date people of the same gender, they’re still bi. They’re not gay in denial.
If someone says they’re bi, and they’re not… Who cares?
- Comment on I'm gonna need surgery, doc 2 weeks ago:
Ahh my back. I need money to fix it.
- Comment on [deleted] 2 weeks ago:
I think it happens often. Doesn’t make it right. I’m sorry she said something so hurtful to you.
If you want advice or just to talk, message me. I will listen.
Curious about the meaning of life? I don’t think we’re really assigned roles. We’re just kind of here. You can just do the minimum if you want, just securing food and shelter. Or you can choose to do more if you have the means. You have the freedom to assign your own meaning to your life. I find most people either pursue religion/spirituality, community service, knowledge, or pleasure.
- Comment on Amazing. 4 weeks ago:
I bet that smelled fantastic.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
Make your home as unattractive to pests as possible. You’re not going to be able to have airflow and keep the pests out of your computer.
Below is a dump of things I did when I had to deal with roaches.
Reduce moisture as much as possible. Roaches love water. Any leaks, even slow ones, should be addressed. Puddles should not be left ever.
Seal up any holes. If they’re coming out of around your outlets, there is some foam sheets you can install behind the plate to seal up that gap.
Seal up your food in your home as best as possible. No bags with clips. You must put it all in airtight containers.
Keep your kitchen and dining area clean. Never leave any dirty dishes out. All leftovers should be dealt with ASAP. Clean your sink, counters, table, and floor.
Take special care to maintain your dishwasher. Clean your garbage disposal daily at the least.
You must only eat in your designated dining room. Do not eat anywhere else.
Clean all of your floors daily. Sweep and mop. Vacuum your couch.
Take out your trash daily at the least.
You will also need to treat for the pests. If you’re sharing walls with other households and they’re not doing the same as you and they are not getting treatments, you have my condolences.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
One thing that would make a creep a creep is a power imbalance of some sort. For this to exist if we’re only considering the age gap between adults, is if one adult is so young they’re being taken advantage of.
A 20 year age gap where the younger is early 20’s is creepy, because the younger’s lack of experience makes them vulnerable. A 20 year age gap where the younger is in their 30’s or beyond isn’t, because the younger likely has the maturity to avoid being taken advantage of.
Are there any other factors that would make this creepy, like you have influence over this person’s career? If not, then no worries! Enjoy dating.
- Comment on It was africa all along 4 weeks ago:
Gender dysphoria, continental drift
- Comment on Good morning here is a terrible idea. 4 weeks ago:
Oh, what a cute noisy present. Perfect to stay at gift giver’s place when you visit!
- Comment on Sleep well 5 weeks ago:
Fair enough. If I witnessed a deer bashing its own brains out, I would definitely be so fucking freaked out my memory would be doing wild shit about the encounter, too. Filling in details that weren’t there, not noticing that only part of the brain fell out, just completely unreliable.
- Comment on Gardening idea 1 month ago:
What a prick
- Comment on I tried to be as honest as possible. Apparently I am evil oO 😈 1 month ago:
Photo of a screen: chaotic checks out
- Comment on That's only fair 1 month ago:
Yes, that is the Colorado state flag.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Yep. My therapy was used against me in a court case. As a result, I just figured out how to deal with most things myself.
It has very negatively affected my health and isn’t optimal, but it’s a lot better than the alternative.
- Comment on I'm jealous 1 month ago:
Fuck you vegetables, you little delicious motherfuckers. I will eat your dicks and corpses.
- Comment on I'm jealous 1 month ago:
Getting that brocussy
- Comment on Math is amazing! 1 month ago:
NaN with you again
- Comment on How do I decrease acne after shaving my face? 1 month ago:
Do you have any metal allergies? If you think you do, you might consider looking for a blade without that particular metal. Most stainless steel contains nickel, which is a fairly common allergy.
- Comment on Stop wasting taxpayer money! 1 month ago:
I have encountered quite a few bus stops with no sidewalks near them. You just kind of had to hike, sometimes on fairly hilly/uneven terrain. Very hard for those of us with mobility issues.
- Comment on Winning 1 month ago:
It’s the physical manifestation thing. It also helps you try to be more mindful of your feelings. For instance, if you normally feel anxiety in your jaw, and you find your jaw tightening again in whatever situation you find yourself in, you might see if you can slow down and think of your next steps. Why am I feeling anxious? Should I take a break?
This only really made sense to me for the emotions that I strongly felt physically, like anxiety so bad I would get tunnel vision. For smaller physical reactions, not so much.
- Comment on when 2 months ago:
All of those beans, hanging out together, bodies touching. Ghey.
- Comment on The Circle of iLife 2 months ago:
I definitely have to give it to wireless sets, they are really convenient. I’m clumsy and it’s nice not having to be aware of the cable. (The sudden yank out of my ears… Aaaaaaargh.)
But I’m also forgetful (I don’t always remember to charge it…) and I have a low tolerance for connection problems so I do prefer wired in some scenarios.
I don’t get some people’s obsession with hating on wireless earbuds and headsets.
- Comment on Yep 2 months ago:
This is why I took a lot of time to make sure everything has a place without moving things out of the way.
…which my partner then saw as extra space and filled back up again.
- Comment on Bros being bros 2 months ago:
Raw dogging women. The gayest thing a man can do.
- Comment on Ok, thanks... 2 months ago:
It was probably the shade of blue that didn’t suit your coloration. If you really did want blue hair, there is likely a shade that would harmonize with your features better.
- Comment on this is not satire this is not satire this is not satire 2 months ago:
I hate how misogynistic traditional art is! Just last week, when I was drawing, my pencil started ranting about “feeeeemales.”
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 2 months ago:
Yeah, it’s natural to have spaces that aren’t for me. It’s fine. I really just have an issue with spaces where I am supposedly welcome to be hostile towards me.
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 2 months ago:
I am disappointed but not surprised. The attitude of men here reminds me a lot of default subs in Reddit. People tend to be more civil, but there is so much “but what about men?” when talking about women’s issues or belittling women still. Business as usual on the Internet, but I can see why it would cause women to avoid Lemmy.
I haven’t been back to Reddit, but it makes me miss the small niches where I didn’t see that as often.
- Comment on Elevated 2 months ago:
What should we have expected, “butt” is right in the name.
- Comment on Not like other grills 2 months ago:
Girl like fashion BAD and DUMB.
I like FOOD. I am worthy of praise and attention unlike those other girls. Upvotes to the left.
- Comment on If restaurants just microwave their food can I just get the frozen version and cut out the middle man? 2 months ago:
Even just the frozen food at your normal grocery store is really good. I’m pretty sure some of it it sourced in the same place these restaurants get their food. (I’m pretty sure I can get McDonald’s hash browns at my local Kroger.)
If you tend to buy in bulk, you might want to check out restaurant supply places like GFS. If I am doing bulk baking or cooking, I will sometimes pick up a few things from them. They are open to the public and sell a lot of stuff that restaurants use, too.