Droggelbecher
@Droggelbecher@lemmy.world
- Comment on The dreaded she's typing icon 22 hours ago:
Jokes aside, I know there’s many situations where you should help someone to calm down. What I mean is that phrase won’t achieve that.
- Comment on The dreaded she's typing icon 22 hours ago:
Calm down
- Comment on The dreaded she's typing icon 22 hours ago:
Constructive
- Comment on The dreaded she's typing icon 22 hours ago:
Can’t think of a situation where ‘calm down’ is a constructive thing to say
- Comment on Ever think of the inconsistency of airlines weighing luggage? 2 days ago:
You’re the one defending the gazillionaires. They’re saying the gazillionaires are the ones profiting from stealing, and they’re right.
- Comment on Just how visible is your butthole to a gynecologist? 3 days ago:
As far as I know they take a bit of a glance at the entire area to check if there’s any potential health concerns, as you’re already there and you’re likely not showing that area to other doctors or checking it yourself. e.g. problematic moles.
- Comment on We'd like to welcome our newest Student to Hogwarts, Hun-Gary Mc'Spud. 1 week ago:
I’m white so she wouldn’t base my name on ethnicity, she’d probably go with Tr*nny Girlman
- Comment on Let people enjoy things 🙄 1 week ago:
I used to live way outside of town and there weren’t any night buses on weekdays, so I got a moped at 15. I just didn’t drink at all when I hung out with friends on weekdays, even when I turned 16 and it became legal, because I had to drive. It wasn’t hard to do and nobody batted an eye. So, the alternative is not drinking. Having no alternative transport is a poor excuse for drunk driving.
- Comment on Let people enjoy things 🙄 1 week ago:
For every person who thinks they’re interesting for hating a popular thing, there’s ten who will be like OMG YOU THINK YOURE SO SPECIAL AND BETTER THAN EVERYONE when you casually mention you don’t particularly care for a popular thing.
- Comment on Look out its the D*tch 1 week ago:
That is an aggressively shitty way to present that data
- Comment on Bounce bounce bounce 1 week ago:
Major mood
- Comment on Bounce bounce bounce 1 week ago:
I’m both like you and a fidgeter myself. It sucks. I do try to fidget subtlely- I like rubbing my fingernails with the thumb of the same hand.
- Comment on Enough is enough 1 week ago:
Huh I thought since most are moisturizing that they were basically lotion with extra sun protecting ingredients!
- Comment on cooking question 1 week ago:
Not questioning that you can die of nicotine overdose! I mean, you can die from water overdose. More wondering what the LD50 was, and if the butt of one cigarette was enough to be lethal.
- Comment on Enough is enough 1 week ago:
I’ve been wondering why so much sunscreen has alcohol, exactly because of what you explained. Do you happen to know?
- Comment on cooking question 1 week ago:
One time when I was a drunk dumb teen I ate half a cigarette and I didn’t die. Didn’t even feel anything. I hear that thing about a cig butt killing a child a lot, I wonder if anyone has a source?
Disclaimer: it’s not a good idea either way
- Comment on Damn 1 week ago:
Valid to not care!
I have fun with my nails, I don’t see them as expected/socially required maintenance. In my field it’s actually seen as less professional to have long nails, especially in noticable polish. I get excited when I get to work from home for a week because that means I can go crazy with nails and makeup.
- Comment on Helth 1 week ago:
Microwaving some soy milk and stirring in some powder isn’t exactly ‘make’
- Comment on Damn 1 week ago:
Me: if I DIY I’ll save money! My 30 bottles of nail polish plus files and oils:
- Comment on Damn 1 week ago:
You 100% are judged on your looks. As someone who’s assigned female though, and usually lets interviewers read them as such initially, I have something to add.
There’s a VERY specific type of look women have to have in order to be seen as professional. You have to be as flawless as possible, but you also have to be understated. Any ‘fun’ type of femininity is looked down on. The long lashes, long nails and red lips definitely fall in that category. ‘Professional’ for women means you have to spend a lot of time and money on skin, makeup, jewelry, nails, hair, clothing, but you can’t have fun with it.*
Personally I’m in stem academia, where it’s expected that you look like you don’t spend any time on your appearance at all. Otherwise it’ll be assumed you can’t keep up with the men. Still can’t have, for example, body hair though.
*Unless you happen to have fun with nude colours and understated jewelry and fashion. Nothing wrong with that!
- Comment on But I am mighty!! 2 weeks ago:
I have autistic sensory issues and the cheapest one I can at all tolerate to have on my skin is 15€ for 50ml. I have so many of the 5-10€ bottles at home and can’t handle any of them. Fml
- Comment on Summertime be like... 2 weeks ago:
Half ashamed to admit but I’m white and sometimes something like that slips out when I see my partner. How are some people so perfectly milk coloured
- Comment on I know I'm a damn failure OK 3 weeks ago:
My mum made the decision to not let me skip any grades as well as not let me be tested got ADHD and still is like this.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
Everyone basically saying that you can fuck yourself and should never drive again is a bit of a dick at best. It’s ofc perfectly fine to not want to drive. But if you do have to, or if you end up wanting to in the future, it’s not like this was your only chance and you can never again learn. If you want/have to get back to it, please practice with someone experienced in a calm and safe environment. Pay for an instructor, go to and empty parking lot, etc. Take as much time as you need before you’re good enough to drive in traffic again.
- Comment on the cake is a lie 4 weeks ago:
you’re done with your research before there’s any official ruling
This really isn’t how science works at all. Results that aren’t reproducible and can’t be retested under varying conditions are almost completely meaningless. And no way to find out if it’s (justly or not doesn’t even matter) decided that you can’t do that kind of experiment shortly after your single one experiment is over.
- Comment on How often do you take him for a walk? 4 weeks ago:
I’m not saying more kids die in traffic over there. I’m saying people have to be, and are, way more careful to keep their kids away from traffic.
- Comment on How often do you take him for a walk? 4 weeks ago:
That, and streets are deadly hellscapes over there a lot of the time. Driving laws are barely enforced and infrastructure is almost like it’s intended to kill anyone who dares to exist outside a car.
- Comment on Who is Sodium Lauryl Sulfate and why is she in my toothpaste? 😡🤬😡 5 weeks ago:
It isn’t. Soap is the salt of a fatty acid, sodium lauryl sulfate is a salt, but not of a fatty acid. Both are surfactants (meaning it breaks surface tensions), but have some different properties. A relevant difference in cosmetics is that SLS strips oils waaay better, which can damage your skin barrier and your hair. For some people it works fine, for others it’s too harsh and soap is better. (For me it damages my hair structure and thus makes my waves lackluster, but is fine in shower gel)
- Comment on This section of Jim Carrey's Wikipedia Article 1 month ago:
You know, if it’s that terrible, and construction would be better, you could probably get a job in that.
- Comment on Low quality cropping will officially launch on Lemmy in 2025 1 month ago:
How people can look at (mostly) state owned rail vs private airlines and still think the free market benefits the average person is one of life’s big mysteries to me.