So this is the guide my parents used
How to love
Submitted 1 day ago by Yuyarl@sh.itjust.works to [deleted]
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rockerface@lemm.ee 1 day ago
Yuyarl@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
I know many people who handled it just fine, it must be a you problem. You probably misunderstood them most of the time. I’m sure they just wanted the best for you. A friend of mine handled it just fine and turned out a better person than most. Really, you must be overreacting to something that was probably just discipline. Surely, they wished the best for you and tried to build your character.
tap for spoileueueuer
/s
flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 4 hours ago
Wow, that’s some exceptional train of thought stuff.
Ouch. AF.
FauxLiving@lemmy.world 19 hours ago
It’s like being a kid again 🤩
some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 18 hours ago
You’re just ungrateful.
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Yeah… i started tensing up halfway through reading this.
Kyrgizion@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Been out of the house for 20 years, things have never changed.
100_kg_90_de_belin@feddit.it 9 hours ago
My father must have written this post from the pinewood box he’s in.
Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Beautiful, society is healing
andros_rex@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
Hey, it’s a list of my ex husbands favorite tips and tricks!
Did you know that “square breathing” exercises are not helpful when someone’s yelling at you to do them?
daggermoon@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
I’m sorry to hear about your bastard ex husband. The only thing that’s really helped my anxiety is drugs. I’m guessing you’ve tried that though. Square breathing never really worked for me. Hope things are better now.
raod_guitar@feddit.org 22 hours ago
Never tell them what you want. Only be passive aggressively pissed off when they don’t do it.
Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 hours ago
Anything you say, do, or express interest in, can and will be used against you.
Xanthrax@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I have ADD, and my partner has GAD. I always feel bad about the pacing. 90% of the time, I’ve lost my train of thought/ something. I noticed if I say, "I’m fine; I’m just looking for something."It helps a lot.
buddascrayon@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
I could be wrong but I think the pacing referred to in this post is a physical manifestation of impatience.
Doom@ttrpg.network 13 hours ago
Wow my ex must’ve taken this post to heart
SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
Have you ever tried gaslighting someone?
That shit isn’t as easy as they make it sound.
King3d@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
There’s no such thing as gaslighting. Your making it up because your paranoid that everyone’s out to get you.
lugal@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 hours ago
Are you gaslighting me into thinking no one is ever gone gaslight me so it’s easier for your co conspirator to gaslight me in the future? I’m not making things up! People are up against me and your comment is proof!
Carrot@lemmy.today 17 hours ago
Gaslighting? I’m pretty sure the term you’re looking for is gaslamping. Don’t worry, it’s a pretty common mistake for people to make.
Siegfried@lemmy.world 16 hours ago
Oh my god! I can’t believe OP mistook gaslighting for gaslamping… I thought that that was one of those mistakes nobody does anymore.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
are you sure it’s gaslamping? last i heard gaslamping is a term for when you start making random shit into gas lamps for no particular reason, seems to be a weird anomalous quality of certain post industrialized human societies.
Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 22 hours ago
AFaithfulNihilist@lemmy.world 23 hours ago
that shit isn’t as easy as they make it sound.
Yeah it is. You must be remembering it wrong.
OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 21 hours ago
Nearly everyone gets gaslit if you try, what do you mean?
peregrin5@lemm.ee 23 hours ago
That’s because the real term is gas-lamping, not gas-lighting. The term was invented around the Victorian period where the primary source of lighting were gas-lamps.
raoulduke85@lemm.ee 23 hours ago
I get annoyed when my wife uses that term every time I disagree with her.
Tai@lemm.ee 23 hours ago
What are you talking about? It’s super easy you idiot.
^/s^
CidVicious@sh.itjust.works 23 hours ago
The secret is persistence.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
Repeat yourself? Why?
I’m confused.
blind3rdeye@lemm.ee 8 hours ago
Repeat yourself? Why?
I’m confused.
hexabs@lemmy.world 27 minutes ago
Pete repeat!
AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 1 day ago
“Pace around for no fucking reason” this sounds hilarious, it would even irritate people without anxiety.
Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
For me, its not that it would be irritating, but rather spike my anxiety and makee very uncomfortable, a feeling of being unsafe moreso than irratation
papalonian@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Sending this to my girlfriend, Nicole
peteypete420@sh.itjust.works 13 hours ago
These tips actually work for most loved ones.
Maggoty@lemmy.world 22 hours ago
I had to check the sub. I was loading the proverbial shotgun. You got me OP. :)
ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 1 day ago
Honey? … is … is that you? … I’m sorry
Coldgoron@lemm.ee 23 hours ago
My Nicole checklist.
Deathray5@lemmynsfw.com 16 hours ago
I don’t mind pacing. Partly as I do it
AgentOrangesicle@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
Ow.
devilish666@lemmy.world 1 day ago
buddascrayon@lemmy.world 3 hours ago
This brings to mind the highly underrated movie Stuart Saves His Family. Surviving toxic people is hard, but it’s even harder for anyone with anxiety disorders.