If my first kiss was pre-transition and i am now a guy but i always had a guy brain, does that make my first kiss with a "straight" guy gay ?

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• Diplomjodler3@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Those anime titles are really getting out of hand.

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  • kibiz0r@midwest.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Boku no homo

    Tap for spoiler

    Partially a reply to the comment just below this one, asking if they said “no homo”

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• empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  If you still outwardly presented as female and the person you kissed considered you female, then no it was not gay.

  Realistically it doesn’t matter and you can kiss whoever the fuck you wanna

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  • classybattery@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    thanks, it wasn’t gay then.

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    • Zoot@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Darn, an I was so close to figuring out what I am

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• captainlezbian@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Whichever is funnier at any given time

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  • MrChewy@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    The right answer

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• Newsteinleo@midwest.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You all are way to fucking obsessed with labels.

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  • svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    This is a shitpost community, my dude.

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    • webp@mander.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      The shit flung over his head clearly

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• rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  It was gay for you and straight for him. You could say it was kinky.

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• ianfraserkrillmaster@midwest.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  yes he is gay now he must register with the bureau of homosexual affairs and receive his blue hat

  (sarcasm- everybody knows the hats are actually periwinkle which is closer to purple)

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• markz@suppo.fi ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  did you say no homo

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  • Chivera@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    They should send a late no homo message

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• NovaSel@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Idfk man

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• DrunkAnRoot@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  did you have socks or say no homo?

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• Lucky_777@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  You can kiss a guy and not be “gay”. You just kissed a male. You can still exclusively like females. Maybe you just wanted a taste?

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  • classybattery@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    thanks! i’m pan

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• Ekybio@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  If you want to then yes, if you dont want to then no.

  At least thats the way of thinking I chose for myself. I chose no for myself, but you pick what feels right for you.

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  • classybattery@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    ahhh thank you!

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• sundray@lemmus.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Doesn’t matter, had kiss 💋 😉

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• napkin2020@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  See, this is the kinda shit trans people have to go through. They suffer enough.

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• Simulation6@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  On a morbid note, if the first person you kiss dies at some later point, does that make you a necrophiliac? Same answer to both questions.

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• Godric@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Hey friend, that is a good amount of words with very little punctuation.

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• MissJinx@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I have no Idea what you even ment, but if you happy that’s what it matters! Happy for you dude

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• MintyFresh@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Depends? Did you say “no homo” first?

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• TrojanRoomCoffeePot@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Time, place, and status therein are what makes it. Were you a man or woman at the time? Who did you kiss in that time and place?

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  • classybattery@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    ah, makes a lot of sense. i was a girl who kissed a boy.

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    • TrojanRoomCoffeePot@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      My pleasure, best of luck.

      Image

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• Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Happened to me! First love transitioned away from being a girl. To me I remember the girl I fell in love with. He’s a dude now, can’t take that away but he can’t take away from me my memories.

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  • pineapplelover@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I think I saw this episode of Curb your Enthusiasm

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    • Gonzako@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I don’t know much about that TV series. How is it relevant?

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  • Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I had a friend who’s two years my junior. One day I addressed them as “young lady,” and in response I joked “you’re two years younger, even if we’re in an elder home, you’ll still be ‘young lady’ at that time.”

    Then they transitioned, she’s now a he, so that “young lady” thing will no longer work 😅

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• SingularEye@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  you were gay but he wasn’t

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• darksiderbun@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  What show is this uwu

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• hperrin@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yup.

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• Kuma@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Depends on what kind of kiss it was, did you kiss because of romantic interest? If yes then yeah that was gay.

  Would be funny if kissing someone who tricked you into being the opposite gender (you could even be blindfolded) made you gay haha

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