Mostly just Mom
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Submitted 5 weeks ago by liyah27@lemmy.world to nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
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Impromptu2599@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Lasherz12@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Just mom
FearMeAndDecay@literature.cafe 5 weeks ago
Yep. Unless I’m being dramatic, then it’s mother
Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
It’s always been mum and dad. My kids call me dad/daddy/dumb ass/fucker.
SnokenKeekaGuard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 weeks ago
That took a sudden turn right there
Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
The 10 year old has emotional regulation issues. Good kid but very volatile.
maxwells_daemon@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Mãe.
I’m Brazilian.
alquicksilver@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Mid-30s woman here, from western US. I call my mom any of the following, depending on mood/context:
- Mom
- Mommy
- Mama
- Ma (definitely can become Maaaaa at times)
- Uma
- Mother (usually in a jokingly stern tone)
- Her name (when she’s being particularly deaf)
KazuchijouNo@lemy.lol 5 weeks ago
móðir, madre, mah, a-máaaaa
(Not icelandic, but it sounds cool)
LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Mom
Uri@infosec.pub 5 weeks ago
Ammu
corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 5 weeks ago
I call myum “mum”.
Don’t shame people for calling their mothers “mommy” : it sounds so middle-school edgy.
skrlet13@feddit.cl 5 weeks ago
Mamá (spanish, equivalent to mom)
jaxxed@lemmy.ml 5 weeks ago
Maaam… MAAAAAM!
TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 weeks ago
Mom
Ma
Mameleh
MutterDebatableRaccoon@lemmy.ca 5 weeks ago
Because of My Cousin Vinny, I know ‘Ma’ to be very New Jersey but I suppose it could be southern too.
adhocfungus@midwest.social 5 weeks ago
That’s how I always imagine it when I read it too. Joel from Marvelous Ms Maisel says it almost exactly the same which just reinforced it.
dubyakay@lemmy.ca 5 weeks ago
Anyám
Anyukám
Iccsanyám
WhyJiffie@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
nézzenek oda! magyarok az interneten! :)
dubyakay@lemmy.ca 5 weeks ago
A szomszédos fost teli volt ilyenekkel. Volt mit tagelni Utazóban.
RBWells@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
My kids call me Mom, step kids call me by my first name.
DaMonsterKnees@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
A miserable cunt. Sorry, but I think balance is good and as much as most folk have decent moms, and I’m grateful for it, my mom is top 5 worst humans I’ve ever met. I hope your’s is better.
Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 5 weeks ago
“Mutter” (= mother) which started as a joke thing because it sounds as formal in German as it does in English but it kinda stuck and now anything else would feel weird
RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Mom or more often her name? A diminutive of her name. I like her name. I do not think she does.
Peppycito@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
I called my mother by her name. My oldest brother started it.
piranhaconda@mander.xyz 5 weeks ago
Well she involuntarily quit responding to Mom now that she’s a grandma (not my doing, my siblings have kids). So now I call her the same thing the kids do, Mimi
frenchfryenjoyer@lemmings.world 5 weeks ago
mum
Leonixster@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 weeks ago
Momther/mumther when I’m feeling particularly silly
garbagebagel@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
Mom, mamá or viejita (old lady) when I’m feeling brave. Sometimes when I’m feeling extra brave (and playful), I use her childhood nickname that she hates because it’s funny.
xx3rawr@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
You must be my mom
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
Usually, just mama. There’s a few nickname alternates that have piled up over the years, but mama sticks for whatever reason. She usually prefers it as well, so that works.
Strangely, my dad has two. Daddy and papa. I use them interchangeably, my sister sticks with daddy.
My kid calls their mom mommy or mom usually. Mommy when they’re tired for sure though lol.
Elaine@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I call her Mama and only refer to her as my mom when talking to people outside the family. Kids call me mom, momma, mama - it just depends. They never call me by my name and I never call my mom by hers - that would be super weird and would seem disrespectful.
93maddie94@lemmy.zip 5 weeks ago
I call my mom “mom”, but now that I have a kid I use her grandma name more frequently. Honestly it’s a little easier to call her that, I have some unresolved stuff and while we’re friendly the mom term is a little much. My daughter calls me “mommy”, but usually doesn’t enunciate so it’s “mah-ee” most of the time.
GoddessGundy@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
I call my mom Ma, too. My kids call me Ma or Mama. It’s funny but we took in some stray cat brothers in one day and kept them. A couple months later I heard Maaa-aaaa Maaaama! But the kids were at school… The kittens had learned they could get my attention immediately by mimicking my kids and that first couple times I couldn’t tell the difference. To this day their meow sounds like 'maaaa"
Vandals_handle@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
As a child, usually mother. As an adult, by her name.
nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 5 weeks ago
I call mine as little as possible. My life is so much better without her.
sprite0@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
yeahhh i usually just use her birth name if I must refer to her at all. Some folks weren’t meant to have kids and don they best to prove it.
SolarMonkey@slrpnk.net 5 weeks ago
I use “my mother” for the same effect, but she died when I was in my early 20s.
I sometimes wonder if we could have made things work, or if I could have figured out stuff for both of us (we know I had adhd from my dad, but I’m pretty sure the autism came from her, and that was a post-death discovery)
But then I remember how hard she was to live with and that I probably wouldn’t have grown the way I did… so maybe I wouldn’t even know I’m autistic at ~40…? Idk, I wouldn’t be who I am today if she was still around though, that’s a certainty.
She never wanted kids. When I was 16 she told me all about how my sister was the product of marital rape and I was the planned companion for the rape baby she didn’t want… cool… my life in context.
Well my sister fucking hates me and always has (because she was the golden child, first born to a woman in her 30s, hallelujah!), so that worked super well. We haven’t spoken in almost 20 years now, my sister and I. Born 11 months apart. Wish she’d just had an only child, tbh.
I got one good thing from her though: perspective. She clearly didn’t want kids and I know how that turned out when she had them, and I also don’t want kids, so whenever anyone pushed back on my choice to get my tubes tied in my mid 20s, I was like nope. “What if I regret not having them? Fine I regret lots of things I’ve chosen to do or not do, but what if I’m like my mom and regret having them? There’s no solution to that… And I know how it turns out…”
neidu3@sh.itjust.works 5 weeks ago
Norwegian: Mamma. It’s the same general meaning as “mom”. “Mommy” strikes me as a bit more childish, and I don’t think we have an equivalent here.
Oisteink@feddit.nl 5 weeks ago
Hadde venner i oppveksten som brukte mor og far. Litt for formelt for meg, så mamma og pappa, selv om begge er over 80 nå
adhocfungus@midwest.social 5 weeks ago
Yeah, I’ve got mine in my phone as “Don’t answer”, but she changes numbers a lot and borrows phones so I still fall for it sometimes if I’m expecting an important call and have to answer unknown numbers.
nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 5 weeks ago
My mother just got mad at me because my sister did not tell me my mother was going on vacation.