Comment on Designed by men, for men: Why sex with robots does not have appeal among women

SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• random_character_a@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Dildos and vibrators were first a medical devices for hysteria.

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  • DrBob@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Dildos have been around a lot longer than that. allthatsinteresting.com/history-of-the-dildo

    My understanding is that “hysteria” legitimized the use of the vibrator (not unlike how “weight loss” was used in the 1980s to prescribe fentanyl), but they were around before that, and probably would have found another way of entering the mainstream.

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    • rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Vibrators, too, if you could the hollowed out wooden dildos filled with angry bees.

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      • Kitathalla@lemy.lol ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        hollowed out wooden dildos

        I don’t think the Cage likes being referred to so blandly…

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• python@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Colloquially, the word “robot” always implies a certain amount of anthropomorphism. So no, I don’t think a vibrator would count, as basically no vibrators on the market try to look human-like.

  But that definitely is a weird difference between male and female sexuality - the sex toys women buy most are the very effective and utilitarian ones: Vibrator wands, Rabbits, Air pulse Vibrators etc.

  While the most popular tools for men tend to focus on “realism”(?): Fleshlights, Sex Dolls, things like VR and POV porn. And I guess sex robots would fall into that category too in the future.

  I can absolutely see the weirdness-factor of someone who is desperately trying to emulate a partner rather than just accept masturbation as a solo activity and optimize it from there 😬

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  • MrPoopyButthole@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I agree with you in general but fleshlights don’t really resemble a human any more than a dildo IMO.

    Air pulse vibrators? I’m going to have to Google this haha 😄

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  • JustEnoughDucks@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    duckduckgo.com/?q=robot+vacuum&t=fpas&iax=images&…

    Ah yes, the extremely humanlike robots. 😂

    I think one difference is that men often have no support structures at all, and certainly not with levels of physical or emotional connection. They aren’t just craving sex, they are craving human intimacy and connection where it is very normalized among women to have emotional and physical intimacy among friend support groups.

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  • TheEighthDoctor@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I think you are confusing the word robot with the word android

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  • BradleyUffner@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Slap a pair of googly eyes on it and it as good as has a soul.

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  • LaggyKar@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    A robot doesn’t need to be anthropomorphic, an assembly line robot is still a robot. It does however need to be able to perform some actions autonomously, for which a vibrator hardly qualifies.

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    • Arkouda@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      It does however need to be able to perform some actions autonomously, for which a vibrator hardly qualifies.

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    • Ageroth@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      An assembly line robot (like welding or material handling, I’ve worked with ABB, Fanuc, Motoman, Panasonic) are still called robot “arms” with the end portion often called the “wrist” so there is a degree of anthropomorphizing even if it’s not the whole body. And they do resemble an arm, however with 6 axis motion the motion is more like from your hips to your wrist than shoulder to wrist.

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      • Cethin@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        We call them the same for animals. Those are words we have for joints and appendages. They have nothing to do with being human. These robots have joints and appendages, so we use those names. We also call connections in pipes joints, not because they resemble humans but because the definition of the word includes them.

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      • CaptPretentious@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Ok, then a vibrator is a robotic dick.

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  • barsoap@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Overpriced pornstar-branded fleshlights aren’t the only masturbators in town and it’s not like there’s no life-like dildos either. The long and short of it is that the mechanics of a lubed hole are superior to that of a hand and you’re not looking at the entry point all the time so noone actually cares what they look like.

    Yes, the branded stuff does exist, humans, male female, doesn’t matter, enter parasocial relationships news at 11. Can you imagine how well Justin Bieber dildos would sell.

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    • Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Probably not as well as the Edward Cullen Twilight dildo (NSFW, obviously)

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      • HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Of course this is a thing lmfo.

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