Bug lite?
i hate my wife and i love bug lite
Submitted 9 months ago by PP_BOY_@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 9 months ago
EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Slowly going away. I remember, when I was a kid, out during the summer in the backyard. You would see so many of these little fuckers in every direction you look. Just all over the place. Now, during the summer, you are lucky to see one every few minutes.
PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 9 months ago
Slowly going away.
Ya just like my dad! He’d go on increasingly longer business trips before divorcing my mom and taking all the money. Eyoooooooooooo 🤙
MrJameGumb@lemmy.world 9 months ago
I still see a lot of them in the summer where I live now!
PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 9 months ago
OH MY GOD IM CUMMING
ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 9 months ago
This is how my ex would react when I tried to leave her because the relationship was toxic.
Screaming at me about how she hates being with me then straight to the manipulating when I tried to cut it off
c0mbatbag3l@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Sounds like narcissistic tendencies, when you stop feeding them they come back.
Had an ex like this too, the moment I called her bluff and said I was going to grab boxes to move out she changed her tune since the power dynamic shifted. Then she wrapped the conversation around how we should try again and it wasn’t that big of a deal what I’d done, etc.
Most of them just don’t want to admit anything they’ve ever said was wrong so the perspective changes and gaslighting starts to creep in.
theangryseal@lemmy.world 9 months ago
That whole power dynamic thing was insane. For nearly 3 years my ex would throw me out, call me back, sit up in the bed and say, “I just don’t love you anymore.” I’d go stay at my mom’s, cry myself to sleep, get a random message a few weeks later, “We can work it out. Come home. No sex or anything, we’ll just watch tv shows and spend time together.” Oh, seems to be going alright, BAM, “I don’t love you anymore. Leave.”
I told her one time, “you’re going to make me leave, I’m going to randomly bump into a woman who is going through the same shit I am, we’ll bond, and I won’t come home when you ask me to. You keep playing these games, eventually you’ll lose.”
Well, I met someone else. She lost her fucking mind. Instantly, all of the power she had over me jumped into my hands like a bolt of lightning. I didn’t want it. I just wanted the chaos to end. I wanted to move on with my life and try to rebuild it.
She nearly drove me insane. She did everything she could to run my girlfriend off. She texted her mother, told her all this crazy shit. She texted her friends, said I was an abusive monster and she was just concerned. She told me she’d kill herself if I didn’t come right away in the middle of the night. I was afraid she’d do it, she had already pulled so much of her hair out that she was nearly bald. She seriously lost her shit. The look on her face when she held that power, I had never seen it on her before. She knew she had it, and she used every ounce of it on a whim to see me squirm I think. The second she lost it she was reduced to an infant.
Humans are insane. That time in my life taught me lessons I wish I hadn’t learned, but I am glad I did. I believe I would handle it all better if it ever happened again.
Thcdenton@lemmy.world 9 months ago
yesman@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Logic is a incomplete mental discipline and can only be helpful in artificially axiomatic and simplified situations.
All formal logic is circular. The premise(s) must be an axiom beyond question. So you need knowledge to get knowledge. This is why moral claims like “it’s bad to murder” are beyond logical examination. Any attempt will require an argument like “murder does harm” which relies on the moral claim that “it’s bad to harm”, and round and round we go.
Logic is a word game. Every semantic argument proves that controlling a definition can change the conclusion. A sort of alchemy where language shaped reality rather than being a description of it. As if you could drive home in the word car.
The Vulcan, making all decisions with logic alone would be paralyzed and helpless.
dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 months ago
While what you wrote is very intelligent sounding, “doing harm is bad” isnt a moral statement. Harm by definition is bad outside of any system of morality. You can break down any situation into a set of logical proposals, but not without consequences. How much of an autist the gentleman in the picture is being is really what prevents him from clearly seeing the shittiness of his decision. Calling your hysterical wife that youre leaving after 15 years slave to the sunk cost fallacy isnt logic. It’s being a terrible person.
yesman@lemmy.world 9 months ago
The easiest way to tell your making a semantic argument is when you literally use the phrase “by definition”.
itsralC@lemm.ee 9 months ago
What if doing a little harm today leads to more good tomorrow (so, a net positive amount of good)? And in a year? And in two centuries?
afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 9 months ago
Well yes this is a shit post.
50_centavos@lemmy.world 9 months ago
The plot of Our Flag Means Death in a nutshell.
iAvicenna@lemmy.world 9 months ago
If you know enough fallacy types you can basically regress any argument to a set of fallacies. Good job you now have the power to suggest anything said by anyone is a fallacy. Go and use your powers for being extremely annoying and super counter productive.
ryathal@sh.itjust.works 9 months ago
That’s where the fallacy fallacy comes into play. It’s the ultimate trap card for those obsessed with pointing out fallacies.
BreadOven@lemmy.world 9 months ago
The uno reverse?
Dkarma@lemmy.world 9 months ago
That’s because arguments and debates are not the same thing. Fallacies apply to legitimate debate. They do not apply to arguments.
Zozano@lemy.lol 9 months ago
I’m going to disagree with this.
Fallacies are logical flaws, they exist regardless.
Being trained in epistemology to identify my own faulty thinking is one of the best things I’ve ever done.
Not for arguing or debating, but for communicating, and expressing myself sincerely.
iAvicenna@lemmy.world 9 months ago
I would say the opposite, it makes more sense to me to apply fallacies to arguments where as to apply it to a debate you probably have to isolate its main arguments and then apply it to those arguments individually