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It really is a double standard. A woman can sleep with a few guys and get labeled easy/slut/whore/etc. But if I do it they call me gay.
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Submitted 18 hours ago by ACourtesanOfArabia@lemmy.world to [deleted]
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Breadhax0r@lemmy.world 10 hours ago
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
That got a chuckle outta me, a knee slap even, hahah!
fonix232@fedia.io 16 hours ago
Some men call women they failed to get with easy, just because other men had more success with her. These insults are almost never about the women themselved but the men trying to make themselves feel better about their failure.
tias@discuss.tchncs.de 17 hours ago
I never heard anyone call women easy. Quite the opposite.
trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
Not women in general, but specific ones are being called that.
jaybone@lemmy.zip 12 hours ago
And they tend to be less attractive, usually both physically and personality-wise.
karashta@piefed.social 13 hours ago
Anyone that gets little attention will likely be easier to get with because they’re so unused to anything like it.
It’s overwhelming and intoxicating to suddenly seemingly be the center of someone else’s world and desires when you never experience anything like it in your day to day life. Or maybe ever.
It’s like not knowing you’ve been living in a desert your whole life and it suddenly starts to rain and you realize you’re not a cactus, you’re a willow tree and you need rain to live.
kali_fornication@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
so true. if you walk up to me in the middle of the night and ask me if i will have sex with you, i’ll probably say yes
TheRealKuni@piefed.social 13 hours ago
If you walk up to me in the middle of the night and ask me if I will have sex with you, I’ll probably say, “What the fuck are you doing in my home? Get out!”
wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 14 hours ago
Me, a super ultra mega gay: my time has come, try me thot
AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
Shit, I’m as straight as they come, but super picky and shallow. Good luck. Unless you keep yourself in as good of shape as I do, you don’t have a chance.
RobotToaster@mander.xyz 17 hours ago
What makes you think it was intended as an insult?
Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 hours ago
gender
answersplease77@lemmy.world 13 hours ago
unless he had a wfe who would kill you both if got with another woman
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 hours ago
… This is a self fulfilling prophecy.
She’s met men who were hard to get with.
They weren’t interested in her, or they didn’t hit her radar level, and it never even occured to her to consider them as potential partners, or they were already married or in committed, faithful monogamous relationships.
She’s telling on herself, and doesn’t realize it.
If she’s only met men who were easily to get with… that’s all she’s looking for, all she can see.
And this applies in reverse as well, or in any other gender … direction.
This is just myopia, idpol… we’re really still doing this?
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 hours ago
I mean pretty easy for a skinny girl whose profile is nothing but thirst trap pics with a link to her onlyfans page to say.
Not so easy for the unfortunate looking women who hit on me and I politely try to let them down as kindly as possible.
There are extremely sadly ugly people out there of all genders. They didn’t ask to be born that way but it is not easy for them.
realitista@lemmus.org 17 hours ago
Yeah I’ve rejected girls before. I haven’t felt good about it. As I got older I tried to oblige as much as possible even if I wasn’t that into it. But then you have to let them down afterwards too. But generally less painful I think that way.
sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org 15 hours ago
did you really just did type that fucking a girl who likes you for a while before you reject them makes it less painful for them? or did you mean just like chatting for a while
Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 11 hours ago
Your comment reminds me of these lyrics from Hobo Johnson and The Lovemakers song “Sex and The City”
[Intro] Caller: “Okay so the first one, I do have to ask. Would you be able to pay the balance in full today? $691?” Frank: “No I can’t” Caller: “Okay, no problem. So what we can do is break that up into three monthly payments.”
[Verse 1] Beautiful people only live in downtown And midtown and not around where I stay Is it their brain that really matters Or their character that flatters Or dependant on their beautiful face But if you’re beautiful from birth, do you really have the courage Of a woman picked on for girth Ever since she was a kid, and you know how kids work Up until she was a full-grown adult Now I’m not saying that it’s really smooth sailing But guys, being nice doesn’t hurt And I’m not saying that they’re perfect I’m just saying that they’re different And the difference is they love to wear skirts [Chorus] Sex in the city Probably feels really really nice With hands placed on faces and twinkles in their eyes Sex in the city Probably looks really really great with A girl that’s like a ten and a guy that’s 'bout an eight Sex in the city Sounds like it takes place on stage Both moaning in key while Marvin Gaye sings Sex in the city Candles smell like great jobs and promising careers My candles smell like fear my roommates may hear
[Verse 2] I have really bad back-ne It looks like the gosh-dang night sky And I promise I’m gonna get it taken care of So I’m not a baby maker looker, but maybe I am To a woman that really loves me for Who I am …Or maybe who I’m not Either way, it’s getting bothered and hot—gross! Hey missus, would you take me to a world Where nothing else exists except The contents of our soul And there we’ll talk Y’know, or Instragram DM works too (whatup!) If I look like Brad Pitt mixed with bit of Jake Gyllenhaal And a bowl of David Hasselhoff I wouldn’t be here at all I’d be in Los Angeles Or at your mom’s house eating all the sandwiches! [Chorus] Sex in the city Probably feels really really nice With hands placed on faces and twinkles in their eyes Sex in the city Probably looks really really great with A girl that’s like a ten and a guy that’s 'bout an eight Sex in the city Sounds like it takes place on stage Both moaning in key while Marvin Gaye sings Sex in the city Candles smell like great jobs and promising careers My candles smell like fear my roommates may hear… and socks
[Outro] And whatever freshening spray I use Thirty minutes beforehand While I was quickly running through my room trying to clean it Right, uh? Right, uh? I’m right, uh? You think this song’s about to end, is that what you think?
SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 hours ago
Love these lyrics, gonna have to give that song a spin, thanks.