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If you have kids It’s helpful to have an open, flat area for them to run around on. It doesn’t need to be (just) grass, but that’s probably the most robust, and least likely to have sharp surprises, option.
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Submitted 2 months ago by jenni007@lemm.ee to showerthoughts@lemmy.world
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notabot@lemm.ee 2 months ago
corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
You’re talking about a shared park. A much better use for land instead of a hoarded, fenced lawn.
notabot@lemm.ee 2 months ago
Parks are great, but unless they’re directly outside the houses where I can keep an eye on what’s happening they’re not as safe or convenient. Being able to send the kids into the garden to run off some energy whilst I’m in the house doing something, and being reasonably confident that they’re safe is a huge benefit.
That’s certainly not impossible with a bit of sensible planning around how housing is laid out, putting clusters of housing directly around a shared green space, but it is rather challenging to retrofit in existing conurbations, and impossible in more spread out communities. The American style of huge featureless lawns surrounding the house right up to the property boundary are pretty awful, but the more European style of a bit of lawn surrounded by flower beds and maybe trees is rather better.
Asetru@feddit.org 2 months ago
But there are other people in parks. Why the fuck would I want to deal with their bullshit when I can just have my own park?
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
No one. It started out as a status symbol, to show off that you can afford have a bunch of empty space in your yard as opposed to using it (for buildings or growing food) and the time to/the ability to have a servant maintain it, and unfortunately now you’re excepted to waste time and water in order to do ecological damage.
usernameusername@lemm.ee 2 months ago
It’s so you can plant stuff there to defend your house from zombies
remon@ani.social 2 months ago
I need to to tell the kids to get off it!
Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Keeping the weeds out of a rock garden is annoying too I’ve found. The best way to do nothing is plant pine trees, everything under them dies lmao.
Backyard lawn gradually gets replaced by fruit trees and garden.
TranquilTurbulence@lemmy.zip 2 months ago
If the area is dry enough, the trees will barely survive and make sure nothing else will. If it’s slightly wetter, you’ll still get plenty of small shrubs and other hardy plants.
Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 months ago
I’ll take one.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
If you’re in America, grass isn’t even native to your country, please try to find alternatives!
Etterra@discuss.online 2 months ago
Fun fact, grass lawns got started by English aristocracy who could afford to waste land on nothing. It was a status symbol for rich people that got copied by people trying to look rich. Do everyone a favor and renaturalize your yard.
Shortstack@reddthat.com 2 months ago
I hate grass, I hate mowing it and the free time that eats. Its useless
I’m slowly deleting patches by installing garden beds and pathways with things that are useful to me and wildlife and don’t need constant maintenance.
My dream is to strip off the top layer of most of the yard and put down some grasses that don’t grow above 4-6 inches and other ground cover between my garden beds.
SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
I grew up mowing and hating mowing the lawn. Now that I’m an adult, I mow it exactly once a year. In fact, less than that because one of my partners and I alternate each year.
It gets pretty and nice and like 2 feet long like a natural forest with buzzing bees and the critters love it, then mow it and it dies for the year. Done.
It’s a pity that we have to mow it at all, though. When the early summer sun hits low through it and you can see how much life is in it, it’s like a dream… Then it gets killed and I remember I live in the United States.
roguetrick@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Goats.
AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Goats will only eat grass if there are no other green plants accessible.
Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu 2 months ago
I have 2000mq of “lawn”. Its actually native grass that I need to keep trimming 6 months per year. I only water some flowers and plants I added to a specific area for the wife, and only like two months every year if it doesn’t rain.
Letsdothisok@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Why, you got one you don’t want? Lawns are the shit. And not like suburban lawn. We’ll, I mean like a couple, at least. The more rural the better
TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 2 months ago
Lawns sure are weird :3
hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
and ugly and wasteful and horrible for biodiversity
hilliard@lemmy.world 2 months ago
salacious_coaster@infosec.pub 2 months ago
Manor lords who want to see attackers coming from a distance. Requires a few dedicated serfs for all the scything, but such is the cost of protecting one’s estates.
MrFinnbean@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Werent it more a flex how rich you were?
“See that lord over there. He is so rich he does not even need to use all off his land for agriculture.”
ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
In the 20th century it morphed into a marketing gimmick to sell lawn equipment, fertilizer and products to maintain a perfect manicured lawn
“See Mr Jones next door. He is so rich that he can afford to have a perfect cut grass lawn with no dandelions in it”