I struggle to believe that anyone is 100.00% straight or gay. Like, really? Youâre straight, sure⌠But thereâs not one person? One situation? One perfect storm of circumstances where youâd try swinging the other way just a little bit?
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SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone â¨11⊠â¨hours⊠ago
Iâm not convinced that thereâs anywhere near as many straight people as straight people pretend there are. Itâs gotta be closer to like fifty-fifty split between straight and bi/pan/ace/and so on.
GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone â¨3⊠â¨hours⊠ago
basxto@discuss.tchncs.de â¨11⊠â¨hours⊠ago
Iâm not even convinced we really managed to universally agree to uniform definition of what straight actually is. As long as thatâs the case people, who want to be "normalâ, will just stretch and twist the definitions to fit in, if they can fit in that way.
Demdaru@lemmy.world â¨8⊠â¨hours⊠ago
Thatâs a problem with everything though. No matter what definition for something you come up with, even if most of population agrees with it, youâd have aggresively vocal minority that will try and push it other way to conform it to their perception/goals etc.
Straight means that as a man you are sexually attracted only to women. Already met people who dragged it into the âfeminine peopleâ camp instead and people who dragged it into âfeminine womenâ camp. I tend on the other hand to stick into the tried and tested too much so I find both irritating xD
basxto@discuss.tchncs.de â¨7⊠â¨hours⊠ago
I more had âonly/exclusivelyâ vs âmostly/usuallyâ in mind. But yes. There is also the question of whether its about gender or sex; homo-hetero being viewed as âsame-oppositeâ vs âsame-differentâ; what you wanna do with them ⌠sex, relationship or both. Some think samesex intercourse is fine as long as you donât want a relationship . And what even does attraction mean.
FishFace@piefed.social â¨7⊠â¨hours⊠ago
Whyâs that?
MTZ@lemmy.world â¨11⊠â¨hours⊠ago
Sexuality exists on a spectrum, imo. There are a few people who are totally straight, a few who are totally gay, but the vast majority fall somewhere in the middle. I do not feel that sexuality is a binary for most people.