Whats_your_reasoning
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- Comment on There Is No Male Loneliness Crisis. What’s Actually Happening Is So Much Darker. 1 week ago:
I’m just too tired after work. When coworkers had a get-together after work recently for us to hang out with a former coworker, I got too tired after only an hour and left. It was fun, I like the people, I just spend so much energy at work that I have nothing left over when the work day ends. Then the weekend comes and it’s my one chance to actually rest, so I don’t want to go anywhere or do anything that isn’t related to keeping life going (like doing laundry, prepping meals, etc.)
Just three days ago I made a comment here on Lemmy:
“If I didn’t spend that [social] energy every day to work, I’d have more of it for fun things in my time off. But the way things are, I only get two days of the week to not have to put that effort in, to recharge my social battery. I cherish those days.”
This article is spot-on. Poverty doesn’t just mean “everything that costs money is out of reach,” but also, “we spend so much effort trying to afford life, we don’t have the energy to actually live it.”
- Comment on There Is No Male Loneliness Crisis. What’s Actually Happening Is So Much Darker. 1 week ago:
If we need more fun social events for poor people to take part in, that sounds like a great way to start!
- Comment on It's not much, but it's honest work. 4 weeks ago:
Exactly where my mind went
- Comment on batman effect 4 weeks ago:
The potential applications for this research are worth a mention, too:
These findings contribute to discussions on how public spaces and social interventions can be designed to encourage kindness and cooperation. If unexpected yet non-threatening events can increase mindfulness and prosocial behavior, urban planners, policymakers, and psychologists may consider ways to integrate “positive disruptions” into daily life. This could range from artistic or theatrical interventions in public spaces to strategic messaging campaigns designed to momentarily break routine and engage individuals more deeply with their environment and community.
It sounds like more public art can lead to more pro-social behavior, especially if the art is changed periodically (to keep it “unexpected.”) There’s a lot to be explored with this idea.
- Comment on Please, feel free to be awed by my cosmopolitan refinement 1 month ago:
Generally, in the US, it’s pronounced as cres-AHNT. It has a clear R sound, the T at the end involves moving your tongue toward the T position, but the word ends without a clear T sound (as opposed to the French pronunciation, where the R becomes a W and the word ends on the N sound, with the T completely omitted.)
- Comment on Oh lord yes 1 month ago:
I’m with you - you stated a fact. That doesn’t imply an endorsement of anyone’s ideas. Just because some people use biological differences as excuses doesn’t mean biological differences don’t exist.
Sadly, it appears that parsing nuance and reading comprehension are common struggles these days.
- Comment on Oh lord yes 1 month ago:
It’s true. I remember when I could go most of the day without eating and feel nothing but minor hunger, which was easy to ignore.
But now I’m in my 30s, and if I try to skip lunch it’s like my entire body goes into revolt. Lethargy, headaches, mood changes, the works. My metabolism has changed with age and now the effects of blood sugar actually pack a punch.
- Comment on Communist yaoi 1 month ago:
No, fantasies are for anyone with imaginations.
- Comment on Communist yaoi 2 months ago:
It’s a joke. I think it’s cute. Look at the way they smile at each other, put their arms around each other, hold each other’s hand. Them being bros is cool, but personally I like the idea there’s a love story behind it all.
And there’s nothing wrong with thinking that.
- Comment on 1919 vs 2026 2 months ago:
My high school history curriculum was one year of World History, followed by two years of U.S. History. I always thought that was completely backwards. There’s so much more history in the world than in the U.S. Besides, we’d already covered pretty much everything except the 20th century in elementary and middle school, making the first U.S. History class basically a rehash of stuff we already knew.
- Comment on Pluto is still a planet, just a dwarf one 2 months ago:
Haumea is fun. It’s got a weird shape that bulges out, giving it a profile similar to an egg:
- Comment on Pluto is still a planet, just a dwarf one 2 months ago:
I don’t think most Americans are aware of Pluto being an American discovery. That would require scientific and historical knowledge, both things that are not our strong points.
I say this as an American astronomy nerd.