K-pop: How jealous 'super fans' try to dictate their idols' private lives

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• shalafi@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  It’s horrifying that so many are so lonely and desperate that they fall into parasocial relationships.

  I’m not going to beat the drum for conservative “traditional families”, but there are reasons those dynamics got us out of tiny tribal units and built societal strength. At the least, children require TWO parents, and IDGAF about gender or sexual orientation. Kids need TWO points of view to bounce off of, respond to. TWO people to be responsible for their care and health.

  Social cohesion had shredded to the point that children, and far too many adults, see a pop culture figure as not relatable, but personally relatable.

  And remember kids, “personally relatable” is where the old-time religions got the idea of a personal Jesus.

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  • remotelove@lemmy.ca ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Idolatry, unfortunately, can be a natural part of development. Teens are especially vulnerable as they are in search of their own identity. What is happening can be out of desperation, there is a considerable amount of exploitation happening as well.

    While a healthy family can mitigate the risks, it becomes especially difficult because it’s a behavior that is exploited by large companies for money. It’s magnitudes worse when it’s exploited over a generation.

    Disney was the worst of the bunch as they curated fake lives of children, for children. As normal kids grew older so did their idols from the shows they watched as kids. Those kids lived in lock step with their idols through teenhood and into adulthood, all the while, they are doing the same shit at the same time. It’s hyper-relatable over time and can even be exploited through adulthood now.

    To my understanding, K-Pop is the same shit but just a different theme. Maybe not as extreme as Disney, but still very similar.

    I started to compare this situation to cigarettes, actually. The more I thought about this, it’s probably magnitudes worse. Unfortunately, that is speculation on my part.

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    • xpinchx@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Just curious - worse than cigarettes in what way?

      Not feedback, it’s just an odd comparison.

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  • SPRUNT@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I love Personal Jesus!

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    • Akasazh@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I prefer a chocolate one

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    • Mr_Blott@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Good cover version -

      music.youtube.com/watch?v=WLouJNjatXQ&si=lNlalbfI…

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• NoneOfUrBusiness@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Not gonna say they deserve it, but they should've known what they were getting into, right?

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  • Kbin_space_program@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    From what I understand of Korean Kpop stars, particularly the female ones, are less actual stars and more the replaceable face of a massive and very nasty corporate machine.

    Just like with the western ones, particularly Disney, I doubt most of them understand what they're getting into.

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• turkishdelight@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Paying customers decide what the seller should sell to make more money

  Nobody is dictating anything.

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  • emergencyfood@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Not when the goods being sold are humans.

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    • turkishdelight@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      These celebrities are free to live their private lives as they wish. But they can’t complain if their fans take their money elsewhere.

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