She is a good coworker, meaning she knows her duties and has ample experience.
She is also a gossip and a person that will rant when somebody doesn’t greet her the way she believes she deserves to be greeted, or about how a coworker or manager wasn’t friendly to her. It’s both what she says and how she says it, like she was hurt.
I still don’t know if what she wants is that everyone stops doing their jobs when she enters the workplace to give her attention, because otherwise, apparently, people hate her. She is also very pretty. Not that I’d want a relationship with her, because this trait is very off putting.
I’ve already heard her saying I’m not friendly and I don’t know who should I react. I think it’s ridiculous to start giving her attention to keep the peace because I have things to do that pay my bills and it would be very draining, I cannot fake interest in things that bore me. I don’t understand why we can’t just do our jobs and go home.
themeatbridge@lemmy.world 9 months ago
She’s living rent free in your head. Be polite, professional, and kind. Treat her the way you would like her to treat you. Ignore the gossip, and do your job.
You don’t know what she’s going through, or why she acts the way she does, nor are you responsible for figuring her out. You are not her therapist, you are not her friend, you are her coworker. You can be friends with coworkers, but you don’t have to be.