vestmoria
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- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
you sound like a complete asshole dude
right back at you
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
whatever you want to think so you sleep quiet at night, healthcare worker :D
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
it’s ok, I’m also jaded.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
I’m glad that putting up with not-so-smart people works for you, and I’m glad that you can give attention to people who are so in need of it. I’ll pass.
you still didn’t write what you do in healthcare though.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
a strange, convoluted way of admitting you’re angry and I’m the reason why :D
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
A few words in and I could already tell who it was
no, it’s because several users did that before you
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
Why don’t you tell these two “experts” to shut up and leave me alone?
I don’t know if each workplace is like this, but at my hospital people are very, extremely thin skinned and if somebody feels offended because I prefer to keep to myself and to learn instead of talking about their boring lives they start acting like teenagers: he is unfriendly, he doesn’t talk to me, he thinks he is better than me, can you believe that? and much worse stuff. It’s usually a minority but this minority is large enough so most of the neutral ones within the group are cowed into saying nothing, because otherwise they’re the ones being talked about and suddenly considered not a team player, not a good employee…
very sad but true.
It doesn’t make sense to work in a group that behaves like this, not worth my peace of mind.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
It’s a common form of hazing.
jesus chirst, I just read the wikipedia article on hazing and now I’m scared.
You can’t control them, but you can refuse to engage at their jr high level.
they’ll badmouth me all the way to management.
better to stay where I am. Holy crap.
Why do people have to be like this?
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
and having to manage personalities full-time is not in my bandwidth
precisely, neither mine.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
That answer could gain you enemies even if you don’t even interview if it’s not kept confidential.
for sure. nurses can be this vicious
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
then you really have no idea what you’re talking about.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
why does my post trigger you so much? calm down.
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
This is gen z…
ok boomer
- Comment on if you're offered a position you can use to advance your career but it involves people without boundaries, do you tell your maybe-future-to-be manager you don't want to work with those people? 1 week ago:
So right up front, you want to inform your supervisors
they’re not my supervisors, they MIGHT be, though.
And you think that’s going to go well for you?
I don’t know how it’s going to go. What I don’t want is to work with those 2. Peace of mind is more important than advancing a career.
You call me weird for not wanting to work with people who drain me… well, all power to you.
Are you angry at me because I actually get to choose the people I work with? My actual gig is very light on the drama side. If somebody pesters me I get to leave that place.
and choose another candidate for the job.
good luck with that. You clearly don’t work healthcare. Are you a manager btw?
You don’t get to choose who you work with
actually I do, everybody does, you can quit, you can work part time, you can start looking for a job that better fits you and then either 2 week notice it or quit on the spot. You mean you’ve never met people who quit not the job itself but a manager, a charge or certain coworkers? I don’t know if YOU cannot choose the people you work with or you’re convinced you cannot do that, but everyone has a choice: in my case, either advance my career now accepting I have to deal with those 2 moronic gossips or either keep my current job and look for the next opportunity. A third option would be to fake give them the attention so desperately need for a minute and then go back to learning and ignore them. And a fourth one, do nothing, stay where I am without thinking about advancing my career. I’m sure you can choose as well, it’s only you’re convinced you cannot. Maybe you think it’s easier for you to stay where you are or you think changing might be too much of a hassle. Doing nothing is also a choice.
Who told you that you could go through life without the minor inconvenience of having to deal with conflicting personalities?
Now you sound like a granddad or a mother who didn’t have it too good fully convinced everyone must have it as bad as you. Ironically, this happens way too often in nursing: you remind me of how old nurses act with the new grads.
Are you calling me entitled for wanting a quiet life? knock yourself out, but, are you implying you don’t want that? why?
you don’t get some protective bubble from the icky, inconvenient parts.
You’re being conformist. If everyone thought like you nobody would have changed jobs ever.
You sound angry. Are you angry?
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- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
you are right, but somehow I cannot stop ruminating about this. Just thinking about them and how I was treated infuriates me.
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
I must insist you read the thread again. I haven’t even started my new job.
Kindly point where I’m having the exact same issues at a new job I haven’t even started.
calm down, think before writing.
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
thank you
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
this is bed nursing specific
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
I don’t know if this is PTSD, but the mere mention of their names and remembering them infuriates me.
I know I should be better than this and leave the past behind me, but somehow I cannot.
At least I’m eating and resting well
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
This is like the 6th thread I’ve seen on here by you, every one almost identical in that you hate your job, you hate everyone there, everyone is mean to you, everyone else is lazy, etc
then read the thread again dude, apparently you didn’t notice I no longer work there
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
People won’t like you for it but you won’t care.
actually, some unidentified coworkers complained I’m not friendly and the way I speak is demanding.
My former supervisor seemed to care about this because she came to me with these accusations, repeatedly. I still don’t know if this something big enough to fire somebody.
I don’t care, don’t give a fuck but apparently hr does…
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
Don’t give a fuck attitude going forward is a must.
I’m gonna have to ask you to explain here:
I stopped giving a fuck about my coworkers 2 weeks before calling in sick, like, fuck them and I hope they burn in hell. If I ever have to set foot at that god forsaken piece of shit ward I’m calling in sick again. Fuck em.
I also don’t give a fuck about any of my former managers.
I don’t want to to say I don’t give a flying fuck about my current hospital, because I’m staying with them on a different role until I find something better, which may or may not happen, but it’s a clock in clock out and I’m fucking done with you and fuck you asshole situation
you suggest not giving a fuck even going forward? but I do need to give a fuck not to lose my new position until I have secured a newer one, right? I don’t even know if I’m going to hate the new position away from patients as much as the ward.
you other 3 bullet points are great though
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
so I’m going to have a way to work and sustain myself while doing some therapy?
Did you do therapy or simply started your new job and somehow your brain forgot that part of your former life? Talked to friends?
I’ll watch the video now
- Comment on I'm burnt out, already changed jobs, what else can I do to go back to my normal self? 1 month ago:
I don’t want to go to work dreading having to go to work, I don’t want to think about how I’m going to be yelled at, what snarky remarks I’m gonna have to hear, what coworkers are going to lazy around while I work and their sit on their asses, I don’t want to prepare a working plan for the day only to be completely ignored by a coworker that, while not my superior, feels and acts like it only because she’s been there longer than me.
I don’t want to go to work in fear.
this looks like PTSD now.
I want to go to work to do the job to the best of my abilities feeling rested, to do my pauses as stipulated in the contract, to avoid drama and go home.
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