vestmoria

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• Job related: Am I being stupid?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨do managers value if you're an engaged employee even if you had/have a bad reputation?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  FYI, the medical community is one of the worst from the popularity contest perspective.

  could you write examples of is worse here than in other industries? Are some units worse than others? Some regions worse than others?

  promoting team cohesion and performance is one of our primary responsibilities, as is stepping up and leading when necessary.

  are you a nurse or doctor working in a hospital?

  I don’t agree with your last part: it’s not my fault that a unit is controlled by lazy gossips and the manager does nothing to make a more welcoming workplace for the quiet, working ones because she either is too coward to confront the lazy bullies or enjoys the attention or believes she is not going to find better employees. I do not work with people like that anymore, nor do I socialize with these kind of people, neither it’s my job to promote performance and my paycheck sure reflects that. That’s a manager’s job.

  I take this job as seriously as my coworkers. If they go smoking for an hour and let me alone to take care of the whole unit your model fails. If they spend their first 90 minutes consciously not working but gossiping and I’m the only one checking vitals and charting your model fails. If the popular and lazy ones control the narrative and paint me as the uncooperative nurse while I work and they do nothing and the manager believes them over me your model also fails. To lead up I need to see that my coworkers know their shit and that they actually do that, something I hope to find at my new unit.

  This post might sound a bit abrasive, not my intention.

• do managers value if you're an engaged employee even if you had/have a bad reputation?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨is this something you can say to a potential new manager? about giving report in a hospital when your shift ends⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  if OP isn’t masking then neurotypicals will likely see OP as rude, cold, or robotic.

  assuming that your post is in good faith, do you understand how tiring and ludicrous it is to pretend something you are not?

  Should we advice gays to pretend not being gay?

  It’s not my fault some of my coworkers stopped growing up immediately after leaving high school. I just want to work and go home.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨is this something you can say to a potential new manager? about giving report in a hospital when your shift ends⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  And folks who are neurotypical are going to find what you said a hard pill to swallow.

  why? are people really this thin skinned?

  fwiw these people I described are not the doctors, but like 40% of the nurses. Doctors are not the reason I quit, but these nurses are. I’m actually gonna miss working with some nurses here, the good ones, the drama free ones.

  Often in life you have to pretend to “fit in”, it’s just the price of living in a society.

  does that means listening to dumb stories I don’t care about? My brain starts yelling me to leave.

  It would be bearable if they didn’t act like children (another coworker, a neurotypical one if you like, told me that).

• is this something you can say to a potential new manager? about giving report in a hospital when your shift ends
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• I'm transferring to another ward within my hospital and the whole thing feels odd. How do I sort myself out?
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• is feeling disrespected reason good enough to change jobs?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨have you ever had to confront a female mob at the workplace?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s something seriously off about this story, and I can’t help but think you’ve left out some significant details.

  not really, but feel free to think what you want.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨have you ever had to confront a female mob at the workplace?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m guessing you cursed out a coworker and not for the first time.

  Not what happened.

  there’s a difference between cursing the poor work done by a coworker and cursing a person that was there and wasn’t responsible for the dressing.

  I don’t understand why you choose not to see the difference.

• have you ever had to confront a female mob at the workplace?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨have you ever been given a warning or suspension for using profane language at work?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  lucky you

• if you quit a job you didn't like or was toxic, didn't the financial hit scare you?
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• have you ever been given a warning or suspension for using profane language at work?
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• What kind of person am I if I decide to stay in a job, even if my supervisors work against me?
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• how do I accept that a doctor earns more than double what I do?
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• American tourists visiting the EU, what do you think of it?
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• I'm not a good liar but need to pretend I like my current job and not rant about how much I dislike it till I find a job I like more. How do I make my coworkers and supervisors believe this lie?
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• what's a polite way to reject a picture with a very thankful patient who was under your care?
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• can you smoke bacteria out of meat boiling it?
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• if you ever had to start consuming low fat dairy and cheese due to high cholesterol, did your ldl cholesterol levels decrease?
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• is it possible to be married and still feel lonely?
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• humble, introverted self asks for your advice about human behavior at the workplace. Please read below:
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• is it normal that I need to apply more sunscreen to certain parts of my body?
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• In your career, have you found a drama free workplace?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨if you like doing your job and going home, how do you bear with coworkers who are lazier but more popular than you and get away with doing less?⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  yes, a very beautiful post.

  Lost_My_Mind: how do you do it? Because apparently I’m very thin skinned and overly political statements my coworkers blurt out trigger me or their boring marriage troubles bore me and I find myself trying to control me not to yell ‘I don’t give a f*ck about you, leave me alone’, which of course earns me an invitation with management…

• if you like doing your job and going home, how do you bear with coworkers who are lazier but more popular than you and get away with doing less?
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• do humans shed more skin when sunbathing?
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• what's your experience washing sneakers in the washing machine?
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• I this a firm and polite way to tell an opinionated coworker to stop pushing his agenda I don't care about?
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