Why is society so hard to work within whether online or physically in person

Submitted ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨DaddysLittleSlut@lemmy.world⁩ to ⁨nostupidquestions@lemmy.world⁩

Simple as the title says: Why is society so hard to work within whether online or physically in person

I am done… with all of it. Trying to collaborate with people online, seeking medical advice or mental health advice in person. Talking to people I don’t know. Just why is it so hard? I’m cancelling all medical appointments, everything besides getting vaccinations. I want to be mad or sad. Though deep down. Time and time again I’ve been shown. Society isn’t ready or willing to interact with me. My unwanted thought stream wants to say Fucking Burn in Hell but what I truly wish to say. Is, I hope one day. People can look beyond what is comfortable for them. Understand that not everything is black and white. That most of the constraints we have in our life. Is simply social constructs but sadly my ideas go far beyond anything that can be fathomed by humanity and society. My last message. Look beyond yourselves, look at the nature around you and what we are losing. Ask yourself what is truly real. I do hope you all find peace and happiness in whatever comes next. Remember you are all loved and meaningful in this reality.

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FriendOfDeSoto@startrek.website ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Don’t shoot me, for I’m only a messenger As a rule in life, if you can blame everything on everyone around you it’s time to look inwards for change. I’m just saying, maybe it’s not all of us, maybe it’s you? My first reaction to reading your post was to suggest a therapist. And I’m saying that as somebody who isn’t great at social interactions either.

We lionize medical professionals as these infallible gods in lab coats. They’re only human too, although they would not admit that. It’s good to keep that in mind; alter your perception to work with them on you rather than you being fully serviced by them.

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- DaddysLittleSlut@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  I’m hesitant to respond to any of these messages but I will to this one. And yes I fully understand what you mean in the first part. And I have looked into myself. Don’t extensive work beyond anything most people do. Though the main issue comes where my ideas are so beyond what most people can accept or think is true. Making me feel incredibly isolated and I believe you could understand. Eventually it’s better to just stop communicating online? I wouldn’t mind getting a therapist if I can even afford it.
  
  I got to this point by the time. I went to see about a medical problem today but realize. They don’t even do physical exams or anything to see if anything I say has merit. They instead look and put a certain label on it without evaluating it. Then when I go to ask individuals online. It seems they can’t consider it. Can’t even interact even if skeptical. And most my post seem to get so much more hate than even skeptical interactions.
  
  My idea of doctors is an equal partner. I can research things suggest things and they help cross those things out.
  
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  - jeffw@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    Do you have a medical degree? Why do you think you know more than people who studied the topic for years?
    
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  - Montagge@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    What ideas exactly?
    
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Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
I have you tagged in my Lemmy client so I remember who you are. We’ve interacted a few times, not much. I am going to tell you what I think but I’m not going to be at around the bush. I am not trying to be rude. You are mentally ill. You have some problem that isn’t being treated by whatever medicine you are on. You’ve said that your doctor is happy with your treatment, but also said you are manifesting wings. You are not. That is the mental illness talking, and that is why society is so hard for you. Your brain isn’t working on a wavelength that the rest of us are comfortable with.

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- DaddysLittleSlut@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  I mentioned you in another comment. Now can I ask why you assumed manifesting is the correct word. Since if you took time to read my post in the past. You’d understand it’s not manifesting rather and induced biological adaptation similar to evolution. I haven’t even done anything for it in over 8-10 months. And before that hadn’t been for years. Most of these changes are happening without my influence after I already started it.
  
  I’d say it’s more, society has conditioned individuals to instantly assume this is mentally Ill and impossible but when someone actually connects dots that make sense beyond typical magic. It is extremely uncomfortable.
  
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  - Deceptichum@quokk.au ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    You have mental health issues. Address them.
    
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  - Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    I believe I took the word manifesting from one of your posts. :) But I don’t mind. I just wanted to make sure you had your answer, even if you didn’t want to hear it.
    
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Opinionhaver@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
What’s the common denominator in all these difficult encounters?

You are.

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Azzu@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
I agree with you conceptually. Society is bonkers.

However, it is possible for everyone to build themselves a subset of society that is adapted to them. It is possible for everyone to build a community, a group of friends, that share values. No matter how “out there” it is.

And let me tell you, what can be read from you is quite “out there”. If you go to a scientist/doctor and talk about magic, it can be easily expected for them to dismiss your words. I’m not saying that’s right of them. Magic can or can not exist. I’m talking about knowing reality, and reality is that if you talk about magic in front of scientifically minded individuals, your words will likely be dismissed.

I’m not saying anything you think is either right or wrong. The only thing I would like to say is that you seem like you “know” more than you actually can know. We should always come from a point of “not knowing” by default, and only believe/know something if we can be very very sure about it. “Not knowing” is very scary though, it’s very hard to “not know”. I can always understand the need for explanations. But clutching to explanations based on fear leads to missing scrutiny of beliefs, leading to possibly wrong beliefs. Holding wrong beliefs is very problematic, as any prediction you make can be off, leading you to make wrong decisions.

In any case, I wish you well, hope you can find people to truly listen to you, and hope that you can also truly listen to people.

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- DaddysLittleSlut@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Thank you. You responded kindly. As for a group of individuals. I do have them. Though the biggest issue. Is no one has the knowledge to help me understand the induced biological processes that I am going through.
  
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fuckwit_mcbumcrumble@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
We’ve been raised in an individualist society.

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Lembot_0001@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
It is easy. If you have a goal. Ask a concrete question and you’ll receive a concrete answer. What can be easier? If you don’t have a concrete question then why do you bother people you don’t know?

Continue to take your prescribed pills. Do something meaningful.

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Proprietary_Blend@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
What’s the question?

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shani66@ani.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Don’t get me wrong, most people are barely sentient and we’ve deliberately created the world to be a bad as it can be, but it seems like you’re complaining about your own deal a bit there.

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Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Some people just suck, and it’s because of those people that we can’t have nice things.

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