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• phoenixz@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Should you though?

  I get it, it’s annoying, but the entire “let’s block people with opinions I don’t like” is probably the single source of pillerization and increased extremism on the internet.

  If I’m not allowed to have a discussion or disagreement with you, and get kicked out instead, I’ll just go to places where they will talk with me and where it’s chock full of other idiots like me who are much more extreme and in our safety bubble we can all continue not beat the same dead horse and circle jerk and make eachother more extreme because there are no dissenting voices, there are no voices or reason and calm, there are no cooler heads around.

  This entire moderation where we simply started dumping people with who we disagree has made the world a.much, much worse place.

  Granted, it sucks to have to deal with crazies and extremists, but at least whilst they’re in the group we can all keep them grounded in reality.

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  • oce@jlai.lu ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If I’m not allowed to have a discussion or disagreement with you, and get kicked out instead, I’ll just go to places where they will talk with me

    I actually tried to, and if it was possible to have rational and polite discussion, without straw man arguments, dog pilling, personal attacks and finally threats of violence, I would have continued to try. But sadly all of this happen, multiple times.

    At some points I considered leaving Lemmy, thinking that this federation as a whole was not safe for debating. But then I started understanding patterns, either it was from the users from a specific instance, or it was communities from a specific instance that turned like that. Overall the pattern seem to be that if the instance mentions extreme political ideologies in its description or if the profiles of its admins do, then debating is not possible.

    If they want to stay connected to people to avoid the circle jerk, they have to work on themselves too (ex: learning to debate politely), you can’t except us to absorb all the damages to help them avoid radicalization.

    I do enjoy debating and questioning my own beliefs, but I am not on Lemmy to consume my mental health, so I need to take some actions to protect it.

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    • phoenixz@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      not safe debating

      Sorry, just to comment on this one: I really dislike that phrase, its use is part of the reason why we are where we are. You ARE safe, all the time. It’s not like you talking in a lemmy instance puts you at risk of being shot in the head.

      You may encounter assholes, and opinions that you don’t like but that doesn’t make you unsafe. Uncomfortable, mayby, for having to read information you oppose?

      A black man driving and stopped by US police can claim he feels not safe. We lemmies are perfectly fine. I think many people need to grow a little thicker skin in that regard.

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      • oce@jlai.lu ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Uncomfortable, mayby, for having to read information you oppose?

        dog pilling, personal attacks and finally threats of violence […] I am not on Lemmy to consume my mental health

        Not all violence is physical.

        I think many people need to grow a little thicker skin in that regard.

        Are you blaming me for not having a tick enough skin? Please reconsider that thought.

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  • Kedly@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m not on the internet or lemmy to make the world a better place, I’m on here to kill time/enjoy myself/learn some things. I dont have the mental space to deal extremists, and particularly extremists that have a world view thats incompatible with itself if taken at face value, and I certainly dont have anything valid that I can learn from tankies, and as such, my block list has gotten quite large, and my general mood has increased because of it

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    • thrawn@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      This is my thinking for using .world. I don’t get all my news or interaction from Lemmy or the internet as a whole, and Lemmy is small enough that it has an almost zero impact on broader society. I respect those who try, but if my internet experience was antagonistic or frustrating I’d probably just stop using it.

      I also feel that conversations of that nature are best had in person, where there’s a higher chance of changing minds. I’ve no proof but it feels like internet discussions are taken less seriously and thus merely end before any opinion changing can occur.

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      • Kedly@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        You also have far less info on internet conversion on whether or not its being had in good faith, which is an extra hurdle on opinion change

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  • FiniteBanjo@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    This operates under the assumption that there are good decent people on every instance, but instances like Hexbear and Lemmy.ml are inherently corrupt and run by people who want to sow misinformation and chaos to negatively impact western powers. I’m not saying the whole thing is a Chinese operation, but if it were then it would be run exactly the same way it is now.

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    • yolo@r.nf ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I don’t think your whole thought process differs from a tankie. They think the same in a “my team is better, other one is sowing misinformation” way.

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      • FiniteBanjo@lemmy.today ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Lmao, Tribalism is certainly a problem with out society, but ignorance of people clearly acting against your interests is no solution.

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  • KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I “blocked” hexbear, because a mod didn’t take the time to use their brain, labeled me a “pedophile apologist” and banned me from the entire instance. If they moderate based on “I don’t care what actually happened, I’m mad” then I’m not going to bother interacting with them.

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    • fuckingkangaroos@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Hexbear mods are paid to spread propaganda, not use their brain, two fairly exclusive activities.

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  • Cavemanfreak@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I was planning to, but ultimately didn’t. I have handed out personal blocks to obvious trolls and a brunch of hexbear users that spammed gifs in every single thread though.

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    • acockworkorange@mander.xyz ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Not even grad? Wow.

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      • Cavemanfreak@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Nope. I have filtered both grad and hexbear out of my feed though, I don’t need their shit there. And don’t forget that many instances already are defederated with them, so there’s also fewer of them through that!

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  • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Yeah, I don’t block instances, just individuals that have proven to not act in good faith. I try to expose myself to as many diverse opinions as possible, but know if the people holding those opinions can back it up with facts, or are at least willing to consider the possibility that they’re wrong, and I try my best to do the same.

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    • Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Problem I see with this is that a lot of “I block people who act in bad faith” have hair triggers when it comes to what they consider bad faith. I see their comments all over the place where its a disagreement and 6 comments in they’re claiming the other person is acting in bad faith and they’re blocking them

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      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Yeah, that certainly happens.

        I personally have only blocked like 2 users. It takes a lot for me to do it.

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    • phoenixz@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I very well get what you’re saying but a lot of people don’t understand the difference between “has a valid opinion I disagree with” and “is a flame troll LLM” and just block anyone with an opinion they don’t like, loudly proclaiming"you are a bad fatig actor!"

      I think it really made the entire world a worse place to be in, everyone is in their own echo chambers now, nice and safely shielded from scary opinions that don’t align with their warped world view.

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      • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Yup, and I don’t know the solution here, but I’m honestly giving it a solid try. I intentionally place myself in online groups where people disagree with me to hopefully learn something from them and challenge their own preconceptions. I’m working on a ranking algorithm that should help highlight insightful content based on a web of trust (trick is to trust people who vote based on constructiveness, not agreement).

        People point to media companies and politicians for the reason we’re so divided these days, but really that finger should be pointed back at us, the people. Those politicians wouldn’t be in power and media companies wouldn’t optimize for divergent opinions if we vote them in and reward them.

        I don’t know the solution here, but I try to do my part. I live in a very conservative area, have libertarian views, and spend my time on leftist social media. I just hope it all balances out in the end.

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  • Texas_Hangover@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Being able to block what you want is great, having other people decide what to block for you is not.

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  • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Because engaging in discussion with certain groups, does nothing but legitimize and amplify their messages of hatred and bigotry you fucking genius.

    You don’t engage in polite discussion with people that want you dead, that want to seize power and implement fascist authoritarianism, and who want to purge the “impure”.

    How you deal with it is by aggressively reacting to and putting down their bullshit, and denying them platforms which to spread their messages and hatred.

    People like you, who want to wring your hands and play nice and polite with nazis their ilk, are doing nothing but pushing their agenda for them. People like you are nothing but collaborators, and people like you will end up on the wrong side of the stick alongside everyone else once you’ve outlived your usefulness.

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    • fuckingkangaroos@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I didn’t vote on your post, but want to say that you’re not going to convince many people with an antagonistic approach.

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      • A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Well thats a condemnation of yourself, then. Not of me.

        Cause if you cant see what engagement, and by extention, legitimization of their points due to that engagement, has done by this point… Then honestly you’re either blind and ignorant, or one of their agents trying to open the door with a soft approach.

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  • bitwaba@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    blocked

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    • phoenixz@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Exhibit a

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  • fuckingkangaroos@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    “let’s block people with opinions I don’t like”

    I don’t think a lot of them are actually people, but rather LLMs. Also, does it count as “people with opinions” when it’s shills paid to spread authoritarian propaganda?

    I do agree we should limit personal blocking, but that’s because we need to collectively manage the Fediverse. There’s no budget for countering misinformation campaigns, just us.

    Instances blocking propaganda instances, on the other hand, is fantastic. It’s what we need for the Fediverse to survive instead of going the way of Voat and other extremist communities.

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    • phoenixz@lemmy.ca ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      While LLMs have become a problem recently, this problem existed since way before that

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• spraynpray@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Instance blocking is dependent on client implementation, as it isn’t provided by lemmy itself.

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    • spraynpray@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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      • aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Huh, neat

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  • oce@jlai.lu ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I think you are correct, but not having the opportunity to participate in a thread on those instances because you can’t see them anymore is part of the ways to avoid troubles.

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• overcast5348@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Okay, which instances should I block to get rid of the tankies?

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  • oce@jlai.lu ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Lemmygrad and Hexbear are the most obvious ones, sadly lemmy.ml is also part of them in my experience despite being not being obvious about it (you have to check the admins and mods profile to see the link) and having some good content when it’s not about politics. There may also be some defederated by my home instance admins that I may not be aware of.

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  • fuckingkangaroos@lemm.ee ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Lemmy.ml, lemmygrad.ml, and Hexbear.

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