aBundleOfFerrets

I haven’t used tailscale in a while, but afaik no, it’s strictly p2p besides their NAT punching hardware and (heavily throttled) backup relay servers.

Can always use your own tunnel, like wireguard or even just SSH. You are then responsible for where the tunnel terminates, of course.

Having to manually start and stop your VMs is very atypical, proxmox can absolutely handle that itself

Did PugJesus die?

OP speaks of a jellyfin client, not the server

There was an era where the BGA chips giving up the ghost was a common enough occurrence and pushing on things was a relatively normal troubleshooting step

It’s not actually half duplex, but because every outbound packet needs an inbound twin (and vice versa) on the same cable, you get half-duplex rates for the interface in effect.

Do note you can use a device with only one ethernet port as a router/firewall, if you have a managed switch, you just only get half-duplex speeds naturally.

It is wired for PCIe, it will probably work, I have personally had wonderful luck with these kinds of things, but you always risk stupid UEFI vendor code stopping it from working.

My bad big guy

Your wife died?