Comment on Inside the deadly instant loan app scam that blackmails with nudes

Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

• IWantToFuckSpez@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  It’s India not Denmark you dingus. It doesn’t matter if you don’t care, other people care they will ostracize you or worse see it as an excuse to rape you. Like many women get raped in India for simply breaking social norms like traveling without a male chaperone.

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  • codblopsii@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    DINGUS!

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  • curiousaur@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Then maybe we should be addressing those behaviors?

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    • jbrains@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Yes.

      Your house is burning. Stop wasting your time pouring water on it! You should be replacing the building materials with something much less flammable!

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• Lemongrab@lemmy.one ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  I can ruin your reputation or be used in conjuction with other social engineering techniques to eicit fear. It is also very intimate and personal, and shows a private side of your person that may not be intended for others. Examples of threats could be sending them to in-laws, emoyeers, your whole office, the school were your kids attend. Even without any really intention of distributing it, the threat is enough.

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  • Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Sounds like we just need a Share Your Nudes Week to help destigmatize a very ordinary part of modern life.

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    • Lemongrab@lemmy.one ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      While i agree in the idea of destigmatizing sex, consent (or lack there of) is a key part in why this is so traumatic, without even considering the negative and wrongfully directed anger often targeted at the victim by their community.

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      • nevernevermore@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        yeah having your bodily autonomy removed for any reason is a traumatic experience.

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    • Thorned_Rose@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I agree. I call myself a closet naturist because I'm all for the human body just being a human body and not ridiculously hyper-sexualised. But I'm also a sexual abuse survivor and that same western hyper-sexualisation makes me very wary and anxious around people who are not also naturists.
      I've been assaulted way too many times WITH clothes on to trust the general population who can't comprehend that a naked body =/= sex and an open invitation.

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    • flicker@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Remembering this from Community.

      "It's Vietnam!" And he laughed. They had no idea what they were in for.

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• 520@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Now imagine said nudes being sent to your mum, your employer, your kids, etc, and the knock-on effect it might have on your life.

  That is why they pay.

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  • doingthestuff@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I have this crazy strategy that has been working so far: I don’t take any nudes.

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    • smeg@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Did you read the article at all? They’re faked, but that’s still enough to cause harm.

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      • elbarto777@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        If they’re fake, then I won’t care. But of course, like it was said elsewhere, I live in a place where nude pictures are, at most, an embarrassment and not a threat to my life or physical wellbeing.

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    • 520@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Add 'dont use your computer or phone while naked' to the list. Spyware riddled machines with webcams can also be how these nudes come about.

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      • jet@hackertalks.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Alternatively, if somebody threatens you with nudes, release your own! Nobody’s going to blackmail you, if you’re a nudist! Jeff bezos energy

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  • Vodik_VDK@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    My mum Well she’d know how my transition is going.

    My employer Doesn’t seem professional for my employer to be looking at such things. Shame on them.

    My kids I don’t have kids but if they were underage then that’s a mail-ordered crate of ACME-brand Yikes bad ideas.

    (I want to be clear that, even if I am a Dingus, I’m only one who is shitposting.)

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    • 520@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      And such quality shitposting too!

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• ChaoticNeutralCzech@feddit.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Those weren’t nudes of herself, just of her photoshopped on someone else’s body.

  Do you think a fake bank app would ask for nudes for verification purposes?

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  • KevonLooney@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Indian society is nuts:

    She has been ostracised by neighbours in the community she has lived in for 40 years.

    “As of today, I have no friends. It’s just me I guess,” she says with a sad chuckle.

    Some of her family still don’t speak to her. And she constantly wonders whether the men she works with are picturing her naked.

    A picture of your head photoshopped on some chick’s body? Why is that embarrassing for anyone over the age of 13? I would just assume they were hacked. It’s embarrassing for whoever sent it.

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    • puppy@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Sadly common worldview among societies with “culture and history”. Ironically this culture of monogamy and being so sexually prude is a result of Western colonisation. These are Christian ideals, not necessarily the ideals of Buddhism or Hinduism (Temples of Kama Sutra, anyone?). While the colonies have stuck with 1800s, the colonisers have moved on.

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      • Frog-Brawler@kbin.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        That means the issue is the culture, not photoshop.

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