Comment on She's a keeper
burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 23 hours ago
In a sense of understanding the wife’s perspective, proximity is just as important as the other major factors that affect how likely a relationship is to begin. There was a cool study of college students who lived in an apartment style building that showed you were most likely to begin a relationship with the person who had a door immediately next to yours. The only exception to that was for the person who had a door immediately next to the mailboxes. Proximity matters because it lets another person see you enough to form opinions based on a lot of interactions, and we all know someone who ‘shines’ despite their physical looks.
Plot twist: new neighbor was wearing a shirt that read, “I <3 dad bods,” and was already flirting (asking for help moving boxes /eyeroll) with the guy in sweatpants.
asking for help moving boxes /eyeroll
Just as an aside, I would do this regardless of my interest. If I’m moving and there’s someone watching, I’m going to try to enlist help. They can say no and I won’t be offended in any way, but I’ll give it a shot, because moving sucks and it’s faster with more hands. I won’t gush about how strong the movers are or anything, but I will offer them beer/pizza afterwards.
If someone has to tell their spouse not to break their martial vows, or even feels like they have to say it, that couple should go to therapy.
I would bet the entirety of my yearly pay that it was absolutely, 100% a joke and they have a perfectly healthy relationship.
Oh, definitely. My point still stands for anyone saying it for real.
I agree, martial vows are sacred! It’s not worth the fighting.
Or you know they have a healthy relationship and joke a lot.
That study seems kinda backwards. I lived next to my future wife in student apartments, but that’s because we liked each other and intentionally chose the arrangement.
The apartments were randomly assigned. Do you know many freshmen who got to choose their dorms? Once I was a sophomore+, I did, but that first year in university-run student housing I didn’t get to pick.
QuantumSparkles@sh.itjust.works 22 hours ago
Really sad that so many people are closed-minded about relationships with mailboxes.
InvalidName2@lemmy.zip 22 hours ago
You wouldn’t believe how many people go postal once they see my tramp stamp.
WagnasT@lemmy.world 21 hours ago
Yeah, some people think there should only be relationships between mailboxes and femailboxes.
saltesc@lemmy.world 22 hours ago
“Oh, what the fuck?! There’s jizz on my mail again!”