HatchetHaro

@HatchetHaro@pawb.social

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How would one exit a black hole?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  same as you would anybody’s hole: just pull out.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Pro tip⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  ehehehe

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Pro tip⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  pedant*

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does water necessarily seep in your butthole when fully immersed?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Only when you’re gaping.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Great Advertise⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  ChatGPT-generated images are getting yellower by the day LOL

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What's the easiest way to get hookups without seeing escorts?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Grindr.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Yeah⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  “What programming language should I use to build X” does not belong in AskLemmy, because that’s not the format of question that AskLemmy is for.

  On the other hand, “What programming languages do you guys use” does belong in AskLemmy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Yeah⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  the occasional software developer post counts as “random stuff”, don’t you think?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Hong Kong beef balls and boiled hotdog with chilli sauce⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  hong konger here! the beef balls certainly taste better than it looks; they’re very abundant here as a hotpot ingredient. idk about the sausage, but it looks like a standard chicken frank.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I'm doing my part⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Yes, gender incongruence may be in the same book now, but being in the book does not necessarily mean it is a disorder (e.g. paraphilia). In fact, in DSM-5, gender incongruence (they call it gender dysphoria) was actually renamed from “gender identity disorder” to avoid the word “disorder”.

  DSM-5 defines a paraphilic disorder as “a paraphilia that brings distress, or when satisfied, brings harm to self or others” (paraphrased). I think pedophilia fits that description, because “if satisfied”, that’s what we’d consider “bringing harm to others”. Perhaps the ICD has a different definition?

  I mean, I didn’t set the standards or write the books. All of these things have way too much complexity to properly categorize in the ever-shifting standards of society in different geographic and cultural regions, so of course different countries and different experts would treat these things differently. That also means what counts as a “mental disorder” can vary wildly from region to region. I daresay this is a universe where you and I are both right on the matter!

  I’m not sure about the criterion differences between the ICD and DSM-5, and I for sure do not know enough to be an authority on the matter.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I'm doing my part⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  To be fair, paraphilias were listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders as disorders before that definition was moved in DSM-5 to paraphilic disorder to be distinct from paraphilia (no longer de facto a disorder).

  Anyway, pedophilia is a paraphilic disorder, which makes it a paraphilia and a mental disorder!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Drinks shouldn’t be chewed⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I did list a whole bunch of things that aren’t balls but hey, I don’t mind if boba’s not everyone’s cup of tea, because that means more for me!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Drinks shouldn’t be chewed⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s so many different types of boba “balls”, and even the “same” ones have different textures and flavours depending on the boba shop you buy from!

  Many boba shops (at least the ones here in HK) also offer an incredible selection of different things you can have in your drink in place of just tapioca pearls, stuff like grass jelly, aloe vera, agar jelly, basil seeds, red beans, pudding, and the list goes on.

  I’m sure you’ll be able to find something from boba shops that tickles your fancy, even if it’s just fruit tea with coconut jelly chunks.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m glad to have been raised somewhere trilingual.

  In any case, if your reading and speaking is bad, you should practice that part. Get a few books you think you’d enjoy! If you are unsure about a word’s pronunciation while you are reading, you can look it up online, or just ask your husband.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨YSK that apart from not having a car, the single greatest thing you can do for the climate is simply eating less red meat⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  People here need to calm down. This isn’t about cutting out red meat entirely from your diets; it’s about lowering your consumption of red meats. If you really love eating meat (and I know I do), try replacing some of those with white meats like chicken or fish.

  Humans are evolved to be omnivores; eating meat is only natural for us. And yes, corporations and capitalism are the biggest factors in ruining our environment. But like recycling, we can still do our small part by ordering a grilled salmon in lieu of a steak once in a while.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If you don't own one you will never understand it⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  my two dogs didn’t really care at all. 4th of july never affected them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I am two of them⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  nah, people who take offense to this post can’t be gay, for sure; they’d be like “hell yeah i’d suck some dick for an onion ring”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I want these walls back⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  if i might Plonk in, i have a solution 4-WIdening up your perspective. if your Garbage is a Cheese Race you might want to take it in Stride, but if it’s neat you might want to T-spin your mindset and build on top. take it slow, Back-to-Back, and you can Perfectly Clear out your board.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I am two of them⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  i love how there are some straight men in the comments getting offended as if this post was directed specifically at them.

  like, bruv, you don’t know that it’s for you, so chill. maybe it’s for the pansexuals or intersex people out there, who knows?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How strong is fermented bean curd supposed to taste exactly?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  oh boy, yeah no don’t do that. fermented anything should be used in small quantities to flavour a much larger quantity of stuff, like rice.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Does anyone use a phone without a protective case?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  even better yet, make that durable phone shell user-replacable! you can even have those shells in different styles and colours so users can accessorize their devices any way they like! this would also give birth to a thriving industry of aftermarket shells for your phone cases, where small makers can even 3D-print their own shells for sale.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Partner has ADD, do I have misophonia?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  he should be the one wearing headphones. you do not deserve to be gaslit into suffering through this poor excuse for “accommodations” for him.

  multipoint bluetooth headphones exist. open back headphones exist. make him use them.

  on your end, you need to separate the TV from your PC; one has to be relocated to a different room, preferably as far as possible. that plus shutting the doors should be the maximum amount of effort you’ll put into accommodating your partner.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why am I seeing political ads for Donald Trump in April of the year of his second inauguration?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Not really an answer to your question, but Firefox + Ublock Origin will fix that problem for you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I had no idea y cunt was this powerful⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  oh good, i’m gay so i don’t have that problem. whew, glad my manhood is safe.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Thanks reddit, very helpful.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  reading this was like watching a train wreck, and the final sentence sent the train plowing straight into me.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Heroic dog⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  that’s so insensitive towards the heroic dog who was just trying to save his family :(

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Please dont feed the creatures 🪱⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  it’s kind of hard to just talk about this subject in a historical and scientific manner without there being a brigade just because there wasn’t an opinion raised on the matter in the post.

  i could have started that post with “child sexual abuse is not okay imo”, but then that would have been like putting “asbestos free!” on a bag of crisps: if i am clarifying that, something fishy is going on.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Please dont feed the creatures 🪱⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  hard agree on everything said here.

  keep in mind i’ve never stated what should or shouldn’t be. all i’ve stated is that societal standards surrounding this subject have always been different between different cultures and times.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨They don't make the parts I'm missing anymore.⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  oh yeah that turntable? it is a bog standard $5 plastic piece of junk manufactured in bulk in China. you can easily fix it with a hammer.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Please dont feed the creatures 🪱⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  this current aversion to underage sexual relations is entirely based on societal standards.

  for example, the whole talk of “pedophiles are monsters” are pretty much exclusive to the western world due to the US being on a pedophile scare craze, so much so that sitting at a playground would already give you the “child predator” label and have the police called on you.

  in the eastern world, on the other hand, it’s less prominent. it’s treated as a crime, yes, but it’s not sensationalized. as an extreme example, lolicon media is legal in Japan, and some anime is stuffed with sexualized depictions of adolescent-looking girls that happen to be like a hundred years old or something. it’s all legal, because it’s not real, and there’s way less of a scare about it.

  in ancient Greece, pederasty was socially-acceptable, where a man can enter a romantic and sexual relationship with a male youth. also, bottoming was shameful and would get you ridiculed, so any sex in pederasty was often intercrural (between the thighs). the whole thing really throws a wrench into the whole “ancient Greece was a gay haven” thing. shit was wild.