HatchetHaro
@HatchetHaro@pawb.social
Gay scalie game dev!
- Comment on Pro tip 7 hours ago:
pedant*
- Comment on Does water necessarily seep in your butthole when fully immersed? 18 hours ago:
Only when you’re gaping.
- Comment on Great Advertise 3 days ago:
ChatGPT-generated images are getting yellower by the day LOL
- Comment on What's the easiest way to get hookups without seeing escorts? 3 days ago:
Grindr.
- Comment on Yeah 3 days ago:
“What programming language should I use to build X” does not belong in AskLemmy, because that’s not the format of question that AskLemmy is for.
On the other hand, “What programming languages do you guys use” does belong in AskLemmy.
- Comment on Yeah 4 days ago:
the occasional software developer post counts as “random stuff”, don’t you think?
- Comment on Hong Kong beef balls and boiled hotdog with chilli sauce 4 days ago:
hong konger here! the beef balls certainly taste better than it looks; they’re very abundant here as a hotpot ingredient. idk about the sausage, but it looks like a standard chicken frank.
- Comment on I'm doing my part 1 week ago:
Yes, gender incongruence may be in the same book now, but being in the book does not necessarily mean it is a disorder (e.g. paraphilia). In fact, in DSM-5, gender incongruence (they call it gender dysphoria) was actually renamed from “gender identity disorder” to avoid the word “disorder”.
DSM-5 defines a paraphilic disorder as “a paraphilia that brings distress, or when satisfied, brings harm to self or others” (paraphrased). I think pedophilia fits that description, because “if satisfied”, that’s what we’d consider “bringing harm to others”. Perhaps the ICD has a different definition?
I mean, I didn’t set the standards or write the books. All of these things have way too much complexity to properly categorize in the ever-shifting standards of society in different geographic and cultural regions, so of course different countries and different experts would treat these things differently. That also means what counts as a “mental disorder” can vary wildly from region to region. I daresay this is a universe where you and I are both right on the matter!
I’m not sure about the criterion differences between the ICD and DSM-5, and I for sure do not know enough to be an authority on the matter.
- Comment on I'm doing my part 1 week ago:
To be fair, paraphilias were listed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders as disorders before that definition was moved in DSM-5 to paraphilic disorder to be distinct from paraphilia (no longer de facto a disorder).
Anyway, pedophilia is a paraphilic disorder, which makes it a paraphilia and a mental disorder!
- Comment on Drinks shouldn’t be chewed 2 weeks ago:
I did list a whole bunch of things that aren’t balls but hey, I don’t mind if boba’s not everyone’s cup of tea, because that means more for me!
- Comment on Drinks shouldn’t be chewed 2 weeks ago:
There’s so many different types of boba “balls”, and even the “same” ones have different textures and flavours depending on the boba shop you buy from!
Many boba shops (at least the ones here in HK) also offer an incredible selection of different things you can have in your drink in place of just tapioca pearls, stuff like grass jelly, aloe vera, agar jelly, basil seeds, red beans, pudding, and the list goes on.
I’m sure you’ll be able to find something from boba shops that tickles your fancy, even if it’s just fruit tea with coconut jelly chunks.
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
I’m glad to have been raised somewhere trilingual.
In any case, if your reading and speaking is bad, you should practice that part. Get a few books you think you’d enjoy! If you are unsure about a word’s pronunciation while you are reading, you can look it up online, or just ask your husband.
- Comment on YSK that apart from not having a car, the single greatest thing you can do for the climate is simply eating less red meat 3 weeks ago:
People here need to calm down. This isn’t about cutting out red meat entirely from your diets; it’s about lowering your consumption of red meats. If you really love eating meat (and I know I do), try replacing some of those with white meats like chicken or fish.
Humans are evolved to be omnivores; eating meat is only natural for us. And yes, corporations and capitalism are the biggest factors in ruining our environment. But like recycling, we can still do our small part by ordering a grilled salmon in lieu of a steak once in a while.
- Comment on If you don't own one you will never understand it 4 weeks ago:
my two dogs didn’t really care at all. 4th of july never affected them.
- Comment on I am two of them 5 weeks ago:
nah, people who take offense to this post can’t be gay, for sure; they’d be like “hell yeah i’d suck some dick for an onion ring”.
- Comment on I want these walls back 5 weeks ago:
if i might Plonk in, i have a solution 4-WIdening up your perspective. if your Garbage is a Cheese Race you might want to take it in Stride, but if it’s neat you might want to T-spin your mindset and build on top. take it slow, Back-to-Back, and you can Perfectly Clear out your board.
- Comment on I am two of them 5 weeks ago:
i love how there are some straight men in the comments getting offended as if this post was directed specifically at them.
like, bruv, you don’t know that it’s for you, so chill. maybe it’s for the pansexuals or intersex people out there, who knows?
- Comment on How strong is fermented bean curd supposed to taste exactly? 1 month ago:
oh boy, yeah no don’t do that. fermented anything should be used in small quantities to flavour a much larger quantity of stuff, like rice.
- Comment on Does anyone use a phone without a protective case? 1 month ago:
even better yet, make that durable phone shell user-replacable! you can even have those shells in different styles and colours so users can accessorize their devices any way they like! this would also give birth to a thriving industry of aftermarket shells for your phone cases, where small makers can even 3D-print their own shells for sale.
- Comment on Partner has ADD, do I have misophonia? 2 months ago:
he should be the one wearing headphones. you do not deserve to be gaslit into suffering through this poor excuse for “accommodations” for him.
multipoint bluetooth headphones exist. open back headphones exist. make him use them.
on your end, you need to separate the TV from your PC; one has to be relocated to a different room, preferably as far as possible. that plus shutting the doors should be the maximum amount of effort you’ll put into accommodating your partner.
- Comment on Why am I seeing political ads for Donald Trump in April of the year of his second inauguration? 3 months ago:
Not really an answer to your question, but Firefox + Ublock Origin will fix that problem for you.
- Comment on I had no idea y cunt was this powerful 3 months ago:
oh good, i’m gay so i don’t have that problem. whew, glad my manhood is safe.
- Comment on Thanks reddit, very helpful. 4 months ago:
reading this was like watching a train wreck, and the final sentence sent the train plowing straight into me.
- Comment on Heroic dog 4 months ago:
that’s so insensitive towards the heroic dog who was just trying to save his family :(
- Comment on Please dont feed the creatures 🪱 4 months ago:
it’s kind of hard to just talk about this subject in a historical and scientific manner without there being a brigade just because there wasn’t an opinion raised on the matter in the post.
i could have started that post with “child sexual abuse is not okay imo”, but then that would have been like putting “asbestos free!” on a bag of crisps: if i am clarifying that, something fishy is going on.
- Comment on Please dont feed the creatures 🪱 4 months ago:
hard agree on everything said here.
keep in mind i’ve never stated what should or shouldn’t be. all i’ve stated is that societal standards surrounding this subject have always been different between different cultures and times.
- Comment on They don't make the parts I'm missing anymore. 4 months ago:
oh yeah that turntable? it is a bog standard $5 plastic piece of junk manufactured in bulk in China. you can easily fix it with a hammer.
- Comment on Please dont feed the creatures 🪱 4 months ago:
this current aversion to underage sexual relations is entirely based on societal standards.
for example, the whole talk of “pedophiles are monsters” are pretty much exclusive to the western world due to the US being on a pedophile scare craze, so much so that sitting at a playground would already give you the “child predator” label and have the police called on you.
in the eastern world, on the other hand, it’s less prominent. it’s treated as a crime, yes, but it’s not sensationalized. as an extreme example, lolicon media is legal in Japan, and some anime is stuffed with sexualized depictions of adolescent-looking girls that happen to be like a hundred years old or something. it’s all legal, because it’s not real, and there’s way less of a scare about it.
in ancient Greece, pederasty was socially-acceptable, where a man can enter a romantic and sexual relationship with a male youth. also, bottoming was shameful and would get you ridiculed, so any sex in pederasty was often intercrural (between the thighs). the whole thing really throws a wrench into the whole “ancient Greece was a gay haven” thing. shit was wild.
- Comment on Please dont feed the creatures 🪱 4 months ago:
it is a paraphilic disorder. a paraphilia is basically a fetish; a paraphilic disorder is a paraphilia that, if satisfied, is harmful to society or self.
i’ve also seen some people describe it as a sexual orientation. i disagree with that, but at the same time homosexuality was considered a paraphilia a while ago, and the difference between sexuality and kink isn’t quite so well defined or researched.
- Comment on Definitely didn't waste half an hour making this 4 months ago:
i love my kuru toga, but i don’t really write much anymore. i do still like doing sketches in my sketchbook, so either 1 or 3