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- Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month 22 hours ago:
Mood, we’re on the same page the word authoritarian just has a bit different meaning to me
- Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month 22 hours ago:
I’m sick of respectful debates about my right to exist. That’s what blahaj zone is for, and it does it well.
- Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month 23 hours ago:
Yep exactly pretty much
- Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month 23 hours ago:
Sure. Transphobia is straight up not tolerated at all. There is zero room for discussion. It’s not something a community on bz can allow, it’s ada’s mission statement that bz is a safe space for trans people, end of story. That’s why I love it and use it. I wouldn’t call it censorship heavy, at least not in the aame way ml and the like are. You can criticize and bitch about ada and her actions as much as you want, you won’t get silenced. However, I’d still absolutely place it on the authoritarian end of the spectrum compared to a place like dbzero. I call it authoritarian but it’s not a negative thing, it’s why I use it. It’s it done right. Idk maybe I have different connotations for the instance and for the word authoritarian than you/most people, I hope this clears up what I mean
- Comment on lemm.ee is shutting down at the end of this month 1 day ago:
Lemmy.world – biggest, defaultest instance. All the pros and cons associated with that
Lemmy.ml – very authoritarian leftist instance. Has a tankie problem but also has cool communists. Has heavy censorship
Lemmy.blahaj.zone – trans focused, very queer, authoritarian by nature of being a trans safe space. Generally chiller but contradictorily also the center of a lot of drama, because people love to hate trans safe apaces.
dbzero – don’t remember the actual domain, run by dbZ. Anarchist democracy instance, very cool and chill, it’s what I’d sign up on if I started afresh
sh.itjust.works – tbh don’t know much about them but pretty straightforward, is what the label aays, it just works
Hexbear – wver wanted to see a aerver that unironically loves the chinese communist party and thinks north korea is aspirational? There you go
pawb.social – I think this might be am mbin instance instead of a lemmy instance but I’m not sure. Can be summarized as " the furry one"
lemmynsfw – the porn one. Most instances are defederated feom it
Those are the ones foremost in my mind. Tons of small European ones that are focused on specific countries too. I anticipate replies giving me shit for uttering the word “tankie”.
- Comment on A postal worker in Harlem attacked a trans woman. She fought back and fatally stabbed him in self-defense. This is how the NY Post framed it. 2 days ago:
Yeah. Stabbed him 14 times. Laughing while doing it. Talking about how much she loved it. How she wanted to do it again. Self defense is more than fine, it’s damn good to stand up for yourself, but spitting on someone and escalating it into a fight that you use as an excuse to kill someone is unacceptable. If it was a Republican who spat on someone, starting a fight before shooting them 14 times, saying how much he loved shooting her and how he’d love to do it again, I’d say that’s indefensible and he’s an evil bastard, just like this woman is.
Self-defense endong in the attackers death doesn’t make the killer a bad person. The facts of this circumstance, as I know and understand them (which very well may be flawed, it’s not like I was there) lead me to the conclusion that she’s an evil bastard. Trans people are just fucking people. We can be evil bastards, the same as everyone else. We may be at higher risk of violence due to hateful bigots, but that doesn’t excuse the act of murder. The act of killing, sure, if necessary in the course of self defense. However, as I know and understand what happened (and seemingly the jury as well), that was not the case here.
Hate me if you want to, I’m used to it. I just want to speak out because I have seen the whole “excuse terrible actions from your side no matter what and refuse to look at reality” thing from shitbag republicans SO MUCH and I hate to see allies doing it too.
- Comment on A postal worker in Harlem attacked a trans woman. She fought back and fatally stabbed him in self-defense. This is how the NY Post framed it. 3 days ago:
I’m a trans woman. Self defense? Stabbing someone 14 times to death and talking about how much you loved it and would do it again? That’s pretty plainly not self defense. Even if you are happy a transphobe got atabbed to death (please, develop some empathy) she clearly deserves the sentence she got. Trans people are just people, some of us are evil bastards, just like all the other people. I’ve gotten slurs yelled at me, I would fight back if I needed to, but I’d never take sadistic glee in murdering someone. Please, consider what I’ve said. Try to understand why I said it. Don’t bother ranting at me in a reply, I’m preemptively blocking you because I truly don’t believe you want to do anything but argue.
- Comment on A postal worker in Harlem attacked a trans woman. She fought back and fatally stabbed him in self-defense. This is how the NY Post framed it. 3 days ago:
Yeah, I’m trans and find this pretty indefensible. I’ve gotten slurs yelled at me, I’ve never started a physical fight over it and certainly never fucking stabbed someone 14 times to death.
- Comment on Amazing. 4 days ago:
If it’s jank and it works, it’s jank and you’re lucky
- Comment on The longer I look the less I can tell them apart 6 days ago:
Nya nya
- Comment on There's a noticable influx of trans kids in my job. Are there any topics I should avoid or considerations I should take into account when training them? 6 days ago:
Lol gonna get me a job forcefemming people
- Comment on There's a noticable influx of trans kids in my job. Are there any topics I should avoid or considerations I should take into account when training them? 6 days ago:
Honestly, just tell them to let you know, in private if they feel it necessary, if you make them uncomfortable. In general, jokes about people being trans/gendernonconforming are ok, as long as it’s not the one “joke” – identifying as an attack helicopter/dragon/ridiculous things. Pretty much just don’t make fun of them for being trans, but it’s fine finding humor about their transition, if it makes sense. It’s generally pretty easy to tell when someone has a problem with you being trans and is going to be a dick to you under the veil of humor, and when someone is joking around with you. Just make sure they know to let you know if you make them uncomfortable, and tey not to be a dick. The fact that you’re asking makes me think pretty much anything you’d consider saying is forgivable at worst.
- Comment on Helldivers 2 and Palworld devs wish players understood that 'easy' additions and updates are sometimes really hard: 'That's half a year's work. That takes six months' 1 week ago:
There is NO reason for hunts UX to as fucking terrible as it is. They literally took it from bad to straight up awful. Believe me, I know how hard to design and implement a good UI can be, I’m a software engineer.
- Comment on Drink deep, my loves. As it ever was and will be, this too shall pass 1 week ago:
Yeah I somehow have avoided developing drinking to forget as a coping/self harm mechanism. I want to tbh but alcohol is expensive and also keeping a low tolerance seems wise in case I want to try suicide by alcohol poisoning
- Comment on Do you think a story that mixes magic with super advanced technology can work? 1 week ago:
Absolutely. Read the nightlord series, just skip through the first half of book one, it’s the first thing the author ever wrote and could have used better editing for sure. High tech kicks in at book 3
- Comment on Drink deep, my loves. As it ever was and will be, this too shall pass 1 week ago:
Yeaaaaa that’s some bullshit, sadly
- Comment on Mom sues porn sites (Including Chaturbate, Jerkmate, Superporn and Hentaicity) for noncompliance with Kansas age assurance law; Teen can no longer enjoy life after mom caught him visiting Chaturbate 1 week ago:
Hahahaha, maybe they were onto something (this is a joke) – I consumed way too much porn at way too young an age and I did turn into a girl! Dick never fell off though sadly
- Comment on Helldivers 2 and Palworld devs wish players understood that 'easy' additions and updates are sometimes really hard: 'That's half a year's work. That takes six months' 1 week ago:
Lol hunt takes six months dev time to make the ui twice as worse
- Comment on If I donate my testicles as a donor for whatever reason, and they have a child, is that child mine? 1 week ago:
Ok
- Comment on If I donate my testicles as a donor for whatever reason, and they have a child, is that child mine? 1 week ago:
Nope, fucked up situation that has actually happened. Take it with a grain of salt though because I don’t remember any details
- Comment on If I donate my testicles as a donor for whatever reason, and they have a child, is that child mine? 1 week ago:
Legally, in some states sperm donors can be forced to pay child support. So, it might be more of a gray area than you think
- Comment on Do it, I promise 2 weeks ago:
It worked, my boobs are growing as we speak
- Comment on 7 for me 2 weeks ago:
I, uh, sleep with my stuffed bra on when the dysphorias really bad
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Just want to let you know, you typed a lot of text thinking you were being helpful but you’re really, really not. The condescension and belittling really just ends up with you being a dick to someone while feeling good for “helping”.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
Ayo, guess what, too fundamentally broken as a human being for real relationships so a fake relationship with someone who can’t hurt me and who I can’t hurt is looking pretty damn nice
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 1 month ago:
Erotador, totallynotjessica, kewwwi, and squirrel are by far the people who post most there and they’re all women.
My yin, I’m the one with the blahaj zone account here
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 1 month ago:
Are you talking about browsers/commentors? Cause almost all the prolific posters are women, unless you’re being transphobic
- Comment on Do you use your blinker in a car? 1 month ago:
Your eyes must be really dry
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 1 month ago:
Idk the majority of posters there are transfems afaik, with a smattering of femboys posting as well.
- Comment on Are there any Lemmy/Mbin instances by women for women? 1 month ago:
Hahaha the name doesn’t do it justice tbh, *cel has connotations that femcelmemes really just doesn’t have