Does Porn Logic sometimes happen in real life we just don't notice it?Submitted 17 hours ago by IonTempted@lemmynsfw.com to showerthoughts@lemmy.world
We usually think of porn logic as one person using sex to get power or favors, but what about the cases where it’s mutual? Two consenting adults, both getting exactly what they want in absurd, over-the-top ways. Somewhere out there, people must be quietly living out scenarios straight out of a porno.
Yes, it absolutely does. It’s called “being part of a health kink community that reinforces consent and mutual satisfaction”. What did you think happens at a kink dungeon?
The bdsm community has been doing this for ages.
Limits are discussed. A scene is negotiated and played out. There’s aftercare if agreed upon. Everyone goes home happy.
I don’t think it does. On an unrelated note, i haven’t looked at my lemon tree in a couple of minutes.
Two consenting adults, both getting exactly what they want in absurd, over-the-top ways.
Every sexual encounter I have ever had has been two consenting adults getting exactly what they want.
Many times it has been over the top but never absurd.
Including my current partner, my wife, I have played out many porn scenarios with partners.
Scenarios I can remember:
Really depends on the porn. I feel like a lot of porn (if it has any logic or plot to speak of) is simply about sex occurring quickly in situations that it doesn’t usually. That can be beause it breaks a taboo (step-incest porn) or just an ordinary non sexual interaction getting horny (workplace, public, dinner, pizza delivery, etc.)
It isn’t generally “two people meet on a date and end up going back home and hooking up” because it’s just not the novel. I imagine there’s some of real life equivalents of both categories, but they’re almost be definition exceptional.
Closest I can think of from my own life, is drunkly having sex in a deserted area, not thinking about security cameras. But if it’d been real “porn logic” I would have had sex with the police officers who later took me in for questioning. But no.
Yeah, I’ve had a few. One that’s pretty innocent: my ex was my Ukrainian au pair. Pretty good classic porny scenario.
shalafi@lemmy.world 1 hour ago
Closest thing I can think of in my life was the Mexican chick downstairs bringing her cute young friend over one Saturday night. I was utterly hammered on vodka, so I was clueless until I looked over and saw Maria deep in her friend’s pussy. And away we go!
Been in all sorts of freaky sexual situations, but that one could have been filmed as a porno.