What are some countries you’ve visited that shocked you with unexpected friendliness?

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• starlinguk@lemmy.world ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

  Not a country but a city: Berliners are notorious for being unfriendly but I’ve yet to meet one I didn’t get along with.

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• Shimitar@downonthestreet.eu ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Iran has been by far the most friendly and welcoming people. And I visited -a lot- of places.

  Also USA had very welcoming people, I must have been lucky by judging from people online, but in real world, my experience has always been very positive.

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  • TheLiveFive@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    This is one of my favorite videos and channels. He rides a scooter around the world. The people in Iran are almost absurdly friendly. I want to visit.

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    • Interstellar_1@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      What’s the channel?

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    • Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      What channel do you mean, c90adventures?

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• cecilkorik@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  China. The people are super nice, sweet, helpful, lovely people. It’s just their government I hate. I don’t know if they hate it too or not since they’re not free to say but I think they’re nice people and they deserve better.

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• harryprayiv@infosec.pub ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I’m wasn’t surprised but Mexico.

  I was in the waiting room at a dentists office in Ciudad Obregón. Every single person that came in was greeted with a warm hello by every single person in the waiting room.

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• rabber@lemmy.ca ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Netherlands. People there actually smile, it’s crazy

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  • ivanafterall@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    My answer, too. I remember being uncertain how I’d be received as an American. I stopped in a random restaurant once to ask for quick directions. The lady didn’t just give me some “fuck off” answer, she walked from behind the counter, came around, took the map I was holding out of my hand, and spent SEVERAL minutes explaining to me in perfect English all kinds of helpful info.

    I loved that place.

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  • spacecadet@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    If avoiding conflict was a sport, a random person from Seattle would take home gold from the Olympics every four years.

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• ultranaut@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Paris. I’ve always heard bad things about Parisians but they were cool. The only rude people I encountered were tourists.

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  • Notorious_handholder@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Im planning to visit Paris soon in a few weeks so hearing this is really helpful! I don’t speak French well and have been trying to get better before the trip. But was worried I’d be treated rudely for it from all the stories I’ve heard. Glad to know they’re just stories

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    • ken_cleanairsystems@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Don’t worry! Say “Bonjour” when you go in a place and say “Merci” when appropriate, don’t be loud in general, and everything will be fine.

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  • RexWrexWrecks@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Are you white?

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    • ultranaut@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Yes, white American who is unable to speak French. Which reminds me, Parisians are a lot less white than in the movies. At least the places I went and the people I met.

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• FiskFisk33@startrek.website ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I went to rome once, and I found people to be super unfriendly. Like, giving me looks levels of unfriendly.

  After a few hours of this I realized the problem, I was wearing a Deicide t-shirt, and rome is christian as fuck. God I’m stupid. Image

  After a quick change people were really nice :D

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  • RedAggroBest@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yea, even down to the name, Decide has a very “we’re the devil worshippers your pastor ranted about” look.

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    • FiskFisk33@startrek.website ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I think the word itself, italian being closeish to latin, evokes the killing of jesus.

      not my greatest moment hah

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• sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Turkey! I had such a wonderful visit there as a teen in no small part because of the locals we met.

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  • 9point6@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Turkey is an amazing country with amazing people in it

    The unfortunate part is their leader is the opposite and is currently holding their country and people hostage

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    • thewanderingbackpack@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Same with most countries. The people are nice but the politicians are not

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• iMastari@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Germany. Namely Northern Bavaria. They love it when you try to speak their language and suddenly you are their friend, they are speaking English to you, and they are buying you beer. Suffice it to say that I made a lot of friends there. An amazing experience.

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• iltoroargento@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Cambodia. Genuinely the nicest, and most helpful, people I have ever encountered all throughout the country. I was told about their general friendliness before, but was blown away by actually seeing it firsthand.

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• Professorozone@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  New Zealand. So wanted to stay there. Made Canadians look a little rude. LOL.

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  • Krudler@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    As a Canadian, I can declaratively say that our reputation for being polite is bogus. As a whole, we are a shitty, privileged, nasty group of people. Our country is built on colonialism and genocide, so you can only imagine what a shit pot this is.

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    • Professorozone@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Ah, don’t be so hard on yourself. I’ve only had great experiences traveling in Canada and I like to think of Canadians as our brothers. There’s good and bad everywhere. I might have had a miserable trip to New Zealand if I had left just an hour later. Who knows.

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• UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  France.

  Was there on business, visiting a factory of a large vehicle manufacturer, down in the south east. My god these people were nice. There was a guy who made sure we had everything we needed to get our work done, who would literally jump and run if we needed anything. There were people bringing us mini choco croissants for meetings. They always invited us for lunch and paid for it. There was always coffee for us if we needed it. We had desks to work on, which is a rarity in a factory environment, but they made it possible.

  The best part was when we were standing at the line with a special piece of equipment that we had brought, and a guy stopped and said “hey, that looks interesting, what’s it for?” - and then we chatted about that for five minutes, eventually realizing it was time for a meeting. For both of us. Five minutes later, it turns out the guy who casually talked to us tech people was actually the head of their corporate IT. You wouldn’t have been able to tell that he was some higher up because he was so down to earth and friendly and casual. They all were. It was a mighty pleasure working with them.

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  • Hugin@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Yeah I spent a week in south east France. Best trip I have ever been on. People were so nice. Paris was the only unfriendly place and It wasn’t bad.

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• daggermoon@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Y’all can afford to visit another country?

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• some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Taiwan.

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• Aliktren@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Germany, went just as brexit was happening, loved the place and people were so friendly, had a few long conversations with people on the bus/train. Also best breakfasts anywhere.

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  • grandel@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    As a German, I can not relate. But I’m happy to hear about your positive experience!

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    • Aliktren@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      No drama, maybe we were just lucky, i think we are way too much alike always happy to put our cultures down, also great, great grandfather was apparently german so maybe it was just like coming home !

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• Professorozone@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Yeah, I would say the same thing about Americans (yes I know you’re Americans too. I think we all know I mean the US). If you meet MAGA on the street in a non-political way, they might be super nice. You might have a great interaction. I have traveled around the world and I maintain that food service personnel in the US are the friendliest. I’m guessing many of them are MAGA.

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  • duhbasser@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Food service people are not MAGA for the most part. The owner of the restaurant is probably MAGA and all the servers probably hate him.

    Also, American culture, especially in the South is to be kind to people at face value

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• Iapar@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I feel this is racist.

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  • phoenixarise@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Why do you say that? Genuinely asking.

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    • Iapar@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Because we reduce a population made of individuals to anecdotal evidence.

      “People from there are like this” is just a problematic way of thinking.

      Even if it is positive. Saying all Asians are good at math may seem positive, but it is racist because you imprint one attribute to a whole group and rob people of their individuality.

      It’s racist 🤷

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  • synicalx@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    You feel wrong, unfortunately.

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    • Iapar@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Another commenter said it’s technically racism so not really wrong.

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  • RexWrexWrecks@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    It’s not racist.

    If you paint an entire population with the brush of the experience/anecdote of one person, that’s generalization.

    But this thread is NOT doing that. This thread is only asking people to share their experiences of places they have visited and people they found to be friendly. It is not meant to pass judgement on everyone from that place.

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    • Iapar@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      “What are some countries you’ve visited that shocked you with unexpected friendliness?”

      Why would you be shocked by friendln

      Since we had a post about the most friendliest countries, we should look at countries that have unexpected friendly people, not the usual answers like Ireland, Scotland, Canada, Taiwan, etc. For me it’s Montenegro. Londoners are considered to be cold and rude but I find them to be very pleasant with me.

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• manuel2258@lemy.lol ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Like you already wrote, Ireland!

  It was kinda shocking how openly friendly and relaxed most people there are.

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• BlueEther@no.lastname.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  For me it was Russia when I spent aroubd 9 days there (in and around Moscow). The people were genuinely friendly and there we not the scammers/tourist traps like in most of Europe and Asia.

  The markets were as interesting as any I’ve been to in Asia/North Africa.

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  • JayGray91@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Back when the world is simpler (because I was young and ignorant mostly) Moscow shocked me too. Had to study there for a few years and despite their gruff outward look they are some of the friendliest I’ve met at that time.

    Only exception is riding the metro/tram during rush hour. Those babushkas aren’t playing around and will tackle you down

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    • BlueEther@no.lastname.nz ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      I must say its 20 odd years ago that we went, I’m sure the world was a simpler place

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• Krudler@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Turkey

  People love to make exaggerated statements on the internet for attention but I can say very truly that the spirit of the people changed me inside and it helped start my sobriety journey

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• scoobford@lemmy.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  England. I got blind drunk and was stumbling back to a hotel in a western suburb. A group of young men with knives approached me for cash but when I told them to fuck off (not smart, I know) they were so excited to hear my accent they walked me a couple of blocks to the bus station and sent me on my way.

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