Are my standards for women to high?

Submitted ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩ by ⁨TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca⁩ to ⁨[deleted]⁩

My friends are saying that I should lower my standards because they think my standards are too high. But I think my standards are not high at all because all I want is a woman that is lean and in shape that plays video games and watches anime.

I do not want a woman that is overweight or obese that goes to clubs, does recreational drugs and drinks alcohol on the weekends.

Because I hate going to clubs because those places are to loud and noisy and I think doing recreational drugs and drinking alcohol is not healthy in my opinion.

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Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
I mean…sure, you can pick and choose all you want, but you yourself gotta match your preference, i.e. you yourself must be lean and in shape.

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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  I am lean and in shape. imgur.com/a/4CmHfLV
  
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  - roboto@feddit.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Are your balls droopy or tight tho? This picture says nothing.
    
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FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Consodering this is posted in LemmyShitPost, I can only assume that this is an absolute troll-post.

Because otherwise OP is an absolute clown.

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warbond@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Yes. It sounds like you’re talking about the features you’re on the lookout for in a used car, which comes off as creepy.

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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  But how is it creepy to only want a woman that has the same hobbies and interests as me?
  
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  - warbond@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    You asked, I answered. Do you want to know what people think about your standards or not? I agree with your friends. I’m not equipped to help you demystify your feelings towards women, but I think a good place to start is by examining why these things are such deal breakers to you. Is the presence of these qualities the only things you find attractive, regardless of any other factors? Because that’s not how people typically view attractiveness.
    
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tfw_no_toiletpaper@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Gamers, I can understand, but I draw the line at an*me fans 😤

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bunkyprewster@startrek.website ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Video games and anime probably don’t contribute to being lean and in shape

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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  I’m lean and in shape and I play video games and watch anime all day.
  
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ieatpwns@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Top tier shitpost

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majestictechie@lemmy.fosshost.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Yes. For me it comes down to two things:

Do I get on and have fun with this person?

An I attracted to them?

I don’t think you need to be so specific with your requirements. If they don’t like Anime, then that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. As long as they’re not forcing you to stop watching /liking those things, you can like different things.
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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  But the reason why those things are a deal breaker for me is because I want a woman that I can play video games with and watch anime together in my 1 bedroom condo.
  
  I don’t care if a woman is 18 years old or if she is 50 years old. Aslong as she is a hardcore gamer and a anime fan and she is not obese or anorexic. Because there are hot 50 year old woman in my opinion.
  
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  - majestictechie@lemmy.fosshost.com ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Wow ok. So even if you met an amazing woman you got on with, if she didn’t have play video games or watch Anime you’d reject them? Seriously, you need to think of your priorities before you enter any serious relationship because it doesn’t sound like many of them are gonna end well
    
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iiGxC@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
If you really are a tren goblin you should stop taking unhealthy recreational drugs before you worry about drugs other people use. Like another user said, don’t expect anything you can’t bring to the table for them.

Also, the health of recreational drug use varies wildly. Having one drink of alcohol each night is different to getting very drunk every friday and saturday is different to going on cocaine benders every weekend is different to smoking a bit of weed after work is different to tripping on shrooms once or twice a month. Some of those have huge negative side effects on health, some have zero impact.

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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  I don’t take any PEDS my username is just a joke.
  
  I believe that recreational drugs and alcohol even in moderation is not healthy. Its just my opinion if you disagree with me then that fine. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on that.
  
  As far what do I bring to table. I can offer a woman a very loving loyal man. I will compliment her about her appearance everyday and tell her how amazing I think she is and I will never look at another woman sexually ever again.
  
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  - iiGxC@slrpnk.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    I agree even a little bit of alcohol is unhealthy, but that’s backed up by the science on the topic. Classic psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) are extremely safe tho, less impactful to health than an unhealthy meal. If health is that important to you, at least have a consistent and evidence based perspective on it.
    
    Complimenting appearance everyday is a misguided thing to promise, it’s better to compliment things people have more direct control over, and it’s better to understand the person and their love languages and show love in a way that they’ll appreciate the most. Never looking at another woman sexually is an impossible standard which you’re better off not promising.
    
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AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
At the risk of making a serious reply in a shitpost thread…

Who you’re attracted to and what you’re looking for is subjective. No one else gets a say in what that is.

However, there are repercussions. The more rare what you’re looking for is, the harder it is to find. The more broadly desired what you’re looking for is, the more you’re competing with other people.

So sure, go looking for what you want, but be aware that you might be looking a long time, and they might not be interested in you.

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BarbecueCowboy@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
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- TrenGoblin@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  When it comes to flaws that I’m willing to accept and overlook in a woman. If a woman doesn’t lift weights then that’s perfectly fine as long as she is not obese or anorexic. Because obesity and anorexia are not healthy. If a woman is into different types of video games or anime than me then that’s fine because at the end of the day we are both still gamers and anime fans. And I don’t if she is 50 years old I will still go on a date with her as long as she has the same hobbies and interests as me and she isn’t obese or anorexic because age is just a number to me.
  
  If I were this perfect woman I would definitely date a myself.
  
  As far as what I can bring to the table. I can offer her a very loving loyal and honest man. I will never betrayed her and will doing everything that she wants me to do for her.
  
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