Eh, it’s better to communicate with your partner and give them a chance to get you there by other means.
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SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 4 months ago
If someone spends the time to fake an orgasm to make me feel good then they are pretty cool.
pearsaltchocolatebar@discuss.online 4 months ago
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 months ago
This assumes that the person faking it expects continued interaction and/or safety. Women often fake it with flings when they simply want things to finish and don’t want to have an awkward conversation with the person they never intend to see again. They also fake it to avoid confrontation due to perceived emasculation.
Now, if you feel safe in your non-transient relationship, this is literally the best advice in the world.
intensely_human@lemm.ee 4 months ago
My god why would you have sex with a person you never intend on speaking to again?
Gullible@sh.itjust.works 4 months ago
Cuz sex is fun. I’m not gonna slut shame.
SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 4 months ago
So they can fake an orgasm obviously.
ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 4 months ago
spoken like an incel who doesn’t understand trust.
SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Which one is the incel?
Me or the one I’m having sex with?
Plopp@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Both, thrusting your pelvis towards another avatar in VR Chat doesn’t count as sex!
;)
LNRDrone@sopuli.xyz 4 months ago
Sure, sounds good in the short term. Probably better in the long term to be honest and figure out something that lets everyone to have an orgasm though.
intensely_human@lemm.ee 4 months ago
And lets people give orgasms. Someone who fakes an orgasm robs their partner of the opportunity to give orgasms.
Dkarma@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Honey if she’s faking it he’s not ever gonna be able to give it.
intensely_human@lemm.ee 4 months ago
Exactly! He needs to find himself a more compatible partner, but she’s lying and preventing him from learning this.