throuple
Threesome. Corrected for you.
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axexrx@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I get it, I absolutely respect someone wanting to be safe, but i think it would also absolutely ruin the date for me. I just can’t really interact the same way in a group as I do one on one. Either that, or I’d end upv mirroring both of them simultaneously and it would end up in a throuple.
FelixCress@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Nope. Throuple is dating, threesome is a one-time thing. Like if my wife and I have a girlfriend, we would be a throuple. And if we all sleep together, it would be a threesome. But saying “throuple=threesome” is like saying “couple=sex” when the two describe fundamentally different things. One is the relationship between people, and the other is just a physical act.
mr_satan@lemmy.zip 3 weeks ago
And here I thought OP just misspelled trouble.
Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Prepare for trouble!
And make it throuple!
axexrx@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Tbf, I was briefly in one, and it did very quickly turn into trouble.
missfrizzle@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
throuple : threesome :: couple : hook-up
Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
is this valid C code?
Sonotsugipaa@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
It could be valid C++ code within a function, if not for the last colon which isn’t a unary nor binary operator
missfrizzle@discuss.tchncs.de 3 weeks ago
nope, it’s the verbal analogy puzzle format used by tests like the SAT.
Pieplup@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
throuple goals!
Beacon@fedia.io 3 weeks ago
I respect it, but i don't get it, and it would be a complete deal breaker for me. What do you think a person on a date in a public place is gonna do to you? You're both in a room full of people.
hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
right, this is basically saying “i don’t trust you not to spike my drink, take me to a second location, and rape me”
and maybe you shouldn’t be online dating at all if that’s where you start out from
Beacon@fedia.io 3 weeks ago
But even then, no one needs to ask you out on a date to do that. Any time you go out in public by yourself that could happen just as easily.
Blueberrydreamer@lemmynsfw.com 3 weeks ago
Most women don’t make a habit of going out to bars alone, for good reason. It’s a very real risk.
As a guy who’s been roofied (presumably by accident, still don’t know what happened) I sure as hell don’t blame them.
Blueberrydreamer@lemmynsfw.com 3 weeks ago
Why should they trust some random dude they met on a dating app?
You act like that’s some crazy fear, but it happens all the fucking time.
If you’re that dismissive of other people’s concerns, maybe you shouldn’t be online dating at all.
SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Why should he trust her?
You’re coming from a place of internalized misandry and fear.
hypnicjerk@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
no one says they have to, but they probably shouldn’t, i dunno, go out on a date with them if they can’t.
call it a crazy thought, but if i were premeditating sexual assault, i probably wouldn’t choose someone who has my name, photos, phone number, and a history of correspondence to show motive. lol