Comment on Me when my parents told me they first met in the summer of 1999 & started dating the following year and I did the math (dad - 1959, mom - 1984)

jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

• Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  | For the life of me, I cannot fathom what a 30+ year old man could see in a 16/17 year old girl

  Himself, likely

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  • Zagorath@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    I don’t actually know any 16 year-olds. But are they into Roblox? I thought that was more of an 8–14 y/o type thing?

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    • Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      I don’t fucking know. But I know what I was like at 16. I was an idiot and so were all of my classmates.

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  • surewhynotlem@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    Tiktok is a great learning tool. If you spend a bit getting the algorithm right.

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    • TheRealLinga@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      👆found the 16 year old👆

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• Nythos@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  other than maybe being easily manipulated. That may be enough.

  It’s mostly this and a little bit of women their own age being smart enough to recognise the red flags they’re constantly blaring

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• peoplebeproblems@midwest.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I’m a 30+ year old man, and women in their early 20s are foreign enough.

  The only things I can think of are power and control, and maybe the youth=pure thing? I mean from the appearance stand point there’s really nothing different for women into their 20s, if anything they dress in different styles.

  The lack of intellectual, emotional, and social maturity is really off-putting. Hell, I remember personal hygiene was an issue for some girls when I was in college. The number that didn’t wear deodorant was concerning enough.

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• Dorkyd68@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  I dated someone younger than me for a couple months. She kept asking me if I knew of “such and such” or “did you know they make that this way” or “have you ever heard this band from the 90’s” or “did you know about this”. Essentially she was still discovering a lot of things in life that I already well aware of, then I had the realization she was way too young for me. Plus she was horrible at sex, way too inexperienced

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  • Shou@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    What was the age gap?

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