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- Comment on farting 3 hours ago:
why is that individual in such an extreme level of distress, I wonder…
- Comment on Tis the season 2 days ago:
ah, I see
apologies
- Comment on Tis the season 2 days ago:
it is wednesday
- Comment on Google AI strikes again 5 days ago:
This is so fucking funny dude…
- Comment on I totally missed the point when PeerTube got so good 2 weeks ago:
I see the delusion takes precedence. I respect it.
- Comment on I totally missed the point when PeerTube got so good 2 weeks ago:
I never experienced the 90s…
- Comment on I totally missed the point when PeerTube got so good 2 weeks ago:
Wow! I can’t even imagine that… It sounds a little depressing, but also really awesome and a true privilege to witness someone grow up.
- Comment on I totally missed the point when PeerTube got so good 2 weeks ago:
Getting older… There’s a creaking in my bones… 2020 was 5 years ago…
- Comment on You received a(nother) like! 2 weeks ago:
I might be a little too old for this particular match…
- Comment on [deleted] 3 weeks ago:
My dad helped me shave my face, it’s really not very different. It’s just personal grooming.
- Comment on 3 weeks ago:
Holy shit that sucks… Something?
- Comment on Hard choice to make 3 weeks ago:
Not to tell you how to live your life - and do take note that I don’t know you or your dad personally - but this sounds like a piece of generational trauma that you have the opportunity to get rid of. Best of luck!
- Comment on 3 weeks ago:
What do you mean by verified? I’m not sure there’s such a thing as “verification” on Lemmy, at least.
- Comment on Hard choice to make 3 weeks ago:
Why the fuck did you have to pay rent the day you turned 18?!
Yeah, that would be a detriment to your financial stability.
- Comment on YSK that apart from not having a car, the single greatest thing you can do for the climate is simply eating less red meat 3 weeks ago:
Convenient for me, that is.
- Comment on You can only bring back one. Which do you choose? 3 weeks ago:
Not here; They’re still called Toys “R” Us.
And from looking at the Wikipedia for Smyths it seems that they bought the Toys “R” Us stores in Germany, Austria, and Switzerland. Not really the same thing as here (Portugal, btw), I think, since they kept the branding, but IDK, I’m not an IP lawyer…
- Comment on Just.....why? 3 weeks ago:
Oh, alright, I guess…
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
If you say so… It guess there’s a lot of unempathetic people around.
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
Do I?
- Comment on Just.....why? 3 weeks ago:
Uh, looking that up, it really doesn’t seem to be true.
- Comment on You can only bring back one. Which do you choose? 3 weeks ago:
None of these ever existed in my country, except for Toys “R” Us, which still exists.
- Comment on Hard choice to make 3 weeks ago:
I guess this depends on the parents. Well, and on you, I suppose.
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
You would notice that I wrote, as a condition of the hypothetical, that you agree with the banning. Hence, it is perfectly irrelevant if you think it’s crazy, in actuality. It’s a hypothetical. You know? A hypothetical - a make-believe situation, if you will - to illustrate the question. It’s when you imagine something that isn’t real in hopes that, that way, you could maybe distance yourself from other factors that could cloud your judgement if you were tackling a real problem.
It does seem, based on yours and others’ replies, that this particular hypothetical wasn’t very effective. For that, I apologize.
I will, however, point out that it is indeed normal to be upset at other people when they wear intense and obtrusive perfumes, or if they smell intensely of something. If you smell terrible - including strong or disagreeable perfumes - you won’t be allowed into many establishments, may be kicked out of public transport, etc. So no, it’s not utter insanity, it’s actually perfectly normal.
Then again, nobody was arguing about that! So, I guess that’s that.
- Comment on Fun!!!! :) 3 weeks ago:
Lotsa fun :D
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
Right, OK, I get what you mean.
Well, other than this:
but leashed dogs that are aggressive are worse than a well behaved but unleashed dog so I let the unleashed and behaved ones slide.
Why?
Getting shot in the head is worse than getting stabbed in the calf, but I still think you shouldn’t stab me in the calf! Obviously that’s a very extreme example, but these rules exist for a reason.
The dog may seem well-behaved for now, but what if it gets bothered by something random, as dogs do? The whole point of the rule is to prevent aggressive dogs from bothering people, because owners seem to always think their dogs wouldn’t hurt a fly. If you only complain about a dog being unleashed after a dog misbehaves, then aren’t you just asking for an issue to happen, instead of preventing it by enforcing the rule?
You get what I mean?
Then again, it does bother me when people don’t use crosswalks or cut in line lol
- Comment on Someone should make an anticapitalist Dexter. A serial killer who kills evil rich people. 3 weeks ago:
My thoughts exactly. Robin Hood, but he actually shoots those arrows at a good target.
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
Banning an allergen because a small fraction of the population suffer - Also No.
Well, that’s why I said you already agreed with the banning, as part of the hypothetical. Dang, I really feel like quite a few people got kind of hooked on that… I asked this in a Discord server and several people just said “well I wouldn’t want it banned.”
Just out of curiosity - and some frustration - what do you think would be a good abstraction for asking this question?
Regardless, sounds like a reasonable answer.
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
I feel like you might’ve misunderstood the question?
When I said “upset” I didn’t mean that you would fly into a fit of rage, I didn’t even really mean that you would confront the other person (though those are things that you might do, I suppose), just that you would find that it sat wrong with you and you would feel that the other person was wrong to do it. Perhaps “upset” was the wrong word to use there, sorry about that.
There are also legitimate differences in the world, and we need to respect liberties to dissent & differ. They need to be justifiably upset.
That’s why I said that you already agree that the thing should be banned! The whole point is that you already think that they are justifiably upset, and that what the people are doing is wrong and shouldn’t be done.
Sorry… I did get some people before saying that my hypothetical wasn’t very good. I see that it’s caused some confusion for several people.
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
IDK, frankly I’m just straight up a dog hater. That’s why I posed a hypothetical. With dogs, I just really can’t stand them… Aren’t there like, dog parks or something, where the whole point is that they get to roam free without bothering people? Maybe that’s not available where you are. Maybe you’re really reasonable with when you do it.
I don’t know… I really find it hard to keep my [strong dislike] out of my thoughts here!
- Comment on Does people doing things that upset others also upset you? 3 weeks ago:
Yeah, that makes total sense.
but don’t want it to be required.
That was a key point of my question - that you agree that it should be required - but maybe it shouldn’t have been… Could you elaborate on this?
What would be something that upsets others, but you think shouldn’t be banned/required, you still think people should act in a certain way, but it doesn’t upset you when they don’t?