Tartas1995
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- Comment on This man is suffering 2 days ago:
I think it is rather questionable to express that any of the real world practices of the porn industry is “outside the scope” when judging the real world practices of hooters. I think it is shameful that hooters doesn’t have very clear guidelines. I think it is shameful to make “jokes” that could make someone uncomfortable in such a dynamic. And okay, the man is probably lying to his wife and speaks in vague terms. He probably wants to look at the servers, but does he do more? That is your assumption. Understandable one but an assumption. So let’s grant that he makes weird jokes to the servers. Is he really less of a creep when he would watching Mia Khalifa porn? Of course, as Mia probably wouldn’t know that he specifically is watching, he would cause less harm in a sense, but the question is not harm reduction but being a creep.
- Comment on This man is suffering 2 days ago:
I don’t see how you conclude that e.g. the man in the post plans to bend the rules at all.
The rest of your comment is disappointing. You know that I didn’t mean that a customer can’t sexually assault a server or former server. I meant that if the server quits, they are not longer being sexualized as part of their job and unless people are fucking creeps, their former employment should continue to sexualize them.
Also well it is a regrettable career. That doesn’t mean you have to regret it. But it is certainly regrettable like any other career. And women like Mia Khalifa have expressed regret in the past and yet while she was expressing regret, porn videos of her were widely available and consumed. That is what I was talking about. Not that the career is always ending in regret.
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
Thanks, I enjoyed explore the topic with you. Ch00f is doing a good job that expressing their thoughts. I am not convinced but I respect their effort and skill.
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
Yes there is a difference.
A customer of porn could share that porn long after that actress quit the industry and has publicly expressed regret.
A customer of hooters can’t force the server to continue to be sexualized at hooters.
But let’s focus on your example,
A customer could break rules at hooters, therefore consume porn and don’t go to hooters?
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
I guess my question would be creepy in perception or creepy in behavior?
Perception? sure, fine. Behavior? I think sexually dehumanising behavior would be what we would call creepy.
But I think a call to action (what the original comment was) to not be perceived as a creep… idk.
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
I would agree with you on that notion, while i think strip clubs are weird as fuck, but then we talk about personality and not behavior.
The original comment is a call to action, it is about behavior and not personality.
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
So it is less creepy to engage with porn than hooters while porn is arguably far more exploitative and dehumanising than hooters because the creep is interacting with the woman?
I really don’t know if I agree there and again, I think very poorly of hooters and their customers, I am not defending it.
- Comment on This man is suffering 3 days ago:
I don’t know what to think about this.
While I don’t intend to visit hooter, strip clubs or anything alike and I think people can be creeps even if they are acting completely within the consent of others.
But how is a man who wants to go to hooters a creep but a man who wants to consumes porn not? The exploitation of women in porn is arguably worse because while they consent to the recording (i mean if not… I don’t need to continue my point) oftentimes they sell all their rights and lose all control over the recording. Consequently there is no backing out if they no longer want to be seen like that. (Of course, there are other issues) If you work for hooters, you know wtf is going on before you were hired and if you quit, you are not longer exposed.
So what is creepy about hooters but not about porn?
Is it the simple fact that the man seeks out some kind of sexualized interact with the woman?
- Comment on Poor doggo 1 week ago:
Like?
- Comment on Poor doggo 1 week ago:
As a serious question, what makes you feel like you have to correct a deliberate choice of a word? What about that choice makes you feel like that? What bothers you about it?
- Comment on Jesus hates American "Christians" 1 week ago:
That is a good point while honestly I can’t think of a vague group like “others” without thinking of including my e.g. mom and also a random person from who knows where. We are brothers and sisters. And I don’t understand how i could have learn anything else from Jesus’ teachings and I am now a non believer.
- Comment on Enemies 1 week ago:
It speaks to their confidence. Your lack of confidence is why you aren’t a top assassin.
- Comment on Beware!!! 2 weeks ago:
“I do kneel” is a wild abbreviation for antifa.
- Comment on Do you think he knows? He's gotta know. 2 weeks ago:
Honestly i add $10 to the pot. Please, get then talking!
- Comment on Spokesperson 3 weeks ago:
I am serious!
I know the name kid rock. I don’t know a single song of his, like I don’t know that it is his at least. And while I have seen his face recently, I couldn’t tell you who that people in the meme was without the label.
I seriously don’t know that guy at all. I am not denying his legend title to be mean or rude to him. I just think I would know a music legend.
- Comment on The level of discourse in the US right now 4 weeks ago:
I was straight but the garfield in this meme… I am gay now.
I am looking forward to the christian efforts to save our souls by finding the counter-piece to garfield.
- Comment on Dinner is ready! 5 weeks ago:
Yeah and Malay food 😋 god, d is easy
- Comment on Political discourse 5 weeks ago:
Well they are slightly vague terms, so please don’t feel stupid. A shocking amount of people who think they know, don’t know.
Left wing politics are generally about a rejection of hierarchy of people. Consequently, they tend to be interested in an international community because we are all the same and deserve the same. As freedom is something that everyone wants for themselves, the left tend to be in favor of an equally free community, e.g. freedom to love.
Right wing politica are generally about hierarchy of people. But not because the hierarchy is necessarily the point, but it tend to be in favor of maintaining the current state, Which just happens to be hierarchical. And usually everything get viewed from a hierarchical pov. E.g. nationalism is a hierarchical view of country and people, your country and its people above other country and their people.
Obviously you could point at the historical stance of us republicans that they want a small government and argue that a small government creates less of 2 class citizens, the law markers and the citizens. But the left would point out that a small government just enables the powerful people to exploit the weak people and create more 2 class citizens.
On the left: The strong hierarchy in the previous attempts of “communism” is the reason why some people will say that true communism was never tried. Other will argue that you need a little bit of authority to run a communustic state.
So the whole thing is a little more complex than “freedom” and “restrictions” and who supports what “restrictions” when.
- Comment on nooooooo 1 month ago:
Sry fr typos. Typin with just the left hans is complicated. Anyway, this msn is telling the truth, there are so many men that I havw to stand 5 meters away ans that is just not the experience.
- Comment on discord 1 month ago:
I read this with trump’s voice and now i need to go to therapy.
Thank you for your attention to this matter.
- Comment on Age check 1 month ago:
You are missing the point where a man with the most powerful position on the planet, more than twice the woman’s age, made her feel special by the attention that he gave her at 22 years of age. The human brain is not fully matured until at least 25.
Having that big of a power difference and age difference is huge.
And you missed the point where he broke his promise to his wife and she broke no promise. You don’t know what bill told her what his deal with Hillary was. So why judge her for a crime that she didn’t commit?
- Comment on Age check 1 month ago:
Wtf??? Where did you read that?
- Comment on Age check 1 month ago:
Compared to her? Not at all.
- Comment on Age check 1 month ago:
He was her boss and the president of the usa… considering her age too… questionable behaviour
- Comment on Age check 1 month ago:
Can we not make joke about Monica? She got horribly treated by the public while he is the only one who should have been punished.
She is fighting bullying and she is pretty cool for that.
- Comment on Y'ALL NEED TO WAKE UP!! 1 month ago:
The prominence of windows within offices but also e.g. ATMs, makes me extremely uncomfortable, because we don’t know what windows does.
- Comment on paz 1 month ago:
Good luck! I want a different world for you all. We fight together!
- Comment on I love bpd girls 2 months ago:
Good Luck for both of you!
- Comment on Funny 2 months ago:
Please remember, they are not there to convince you of their faith! They are there to be rejected. They sent out 18yos with a up until that point unknown other 18yo person to a far away place, then tell each other them that they should look after each other. So now they effectively spy on each other and know their only “friend” in that situation is expecting them to behave like a good elder. Then they were told that the outside world is rejecting god as it was corrupted by the devil and now they are running around and approaching random houses and bother the people living there, which will obviously mostly reject them.
This is fucking brainwashing.
Look up the BITE model…
Behavior: imagine living with only 1 person that you are supposed to spent your whole day with and that person spies on you and you know it. Information: the mission is supposed to prove that the outside world rejects them Thought: you are supposed to focus on the mission and god alone. Emotion: fear based indoctrination by being told that the world rejects them and their only support is a member of the organization.
It is fucking cultish
- Comment on mensa 2 months ago:
I was curious too. I heard that online test didn’t mean shit, so I did an “official” Mensa Test and well, trust me, you don’t want to join.
following is a summary of a real conversation that I witnessed:
A parent sought advice, their child would fake being sick to avoid school within the first 2 weeks of the first school year. After some conversation, the parent expresses 2 opinions, 1. that they think their child gets bullied and 2. That the child couldn’t express themself well enough to communicate what the issue is. So they just assumed that their child gets bullied, because if my child would tell me that their classmates are mean, I would call that express themself quite well for that age. Then in the conversation, they talk about how they thought their child how to write and read. So they are wondering why their child doesn’t want to go to school after their child was forced to sit in a chair for hours, being taught the alphabet for hours that the child already knew. I wonder 🤔 can someone here tell us why the child doesn’t want to sit in a chair for hours, writing down the same letter again and again as practice for something that they are already able to do? Does someone know?
They really couldn’t figure that one out.