Oh boy! You serious? I said if it is real love and:

We need to make the difference between what each person thinks.

Let’s say, person A is 50+ yo and person B is 19yo.

If A doesn’t love B and B doesn’t live A, A is just getting a prostitute. And that can be judged for all the reasons, you can judge that for. And personally, I think using the service of a sex worker is yikes.

If A doesn’t love B and B loves A, then it is obvious why it is abusive and yikes.

If A loves B and B doesn’t love A, because B is in it for the money, A is doing what you quoted and B is taking advantage too but without necessarily knowing what that could mean down the line.

If A loves B and B loves A, A is doing what you quoted.

As I said in my comment, if it is real love, meaning of the side of A as I was judging his behavior, what I said remains true.

Thanks for showing us that you aren’t willing to think about the topic in detail. I will take that as a sign to end the conversation. Have a great day and try thinking about it.