Ibaudia
@Ibaudia@lemmy.world
- Comment on A conundrum 1 week ago:
My issue wasn’t getting pre-approved, it was being able to actually afford the mortgage amount I was pre-approved for. A lot of these companies don’t give a damn if you can actually afford the mortgages they offer, because they know you’ll either figure it out or go homeless trying.
- Comment on Hit him with the toadstool chair!! 1 week ago:
Trailer dropped recently, yeah
- Comment on That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why? 2 weeks ago:
Home office!!!
- Comment on That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why? 2 weeks ago:
I’ve also never been in a relationship that totally satisfied my sex drive, so I feel this a lot. My fiance used to be very sexual like me, but then she went on antidepressants and that was kinda killed. Now, she’s off then again, but her sex drive never rebounded, even though she thinks I’m more attractive now that I’ve been working out and gained muscle. Just sad to be jerking off in the office or bathroom every day instead of being intimate with someone you love because they don’t want to have sex with you 🫤
I don’t blame her or anything, it just hurts my soul a bit. Her sex drive is so low now that I feel guilty and anxious even asking, because I know she’ll either reject it outright or just tolerate it if she really wants to make me happy that day, which kills it for me.
I’d say we only really have sex where we’re both equally enjoying it maybe once every few weeks to once a month. If her drive were the same as mine, that would be once or twice a day. Just a shitty situation for me.
- Comment on nooo my genderinos 3 weeks ago:
Chatgpt is wrong here, sex is more like a series of bimodal bell curves measuring traits like gonad type, chromosomes, hormone levels, secondary sex characteristics, neurobiology, and probably some more I’m forgetting. For each trait, one bimodal peak can be labeled something like “typically male” and the other “typically female”. For instance, hormones would have “higher testosterone” for one peak and “higher estrogen” for the other. You can usually categorize male vs female by weighing where an animal falls on these bell curves across all traits, but that’s more of an art than a science, since the scientific perspective is more “sex is a composite profile” than “sex is a binary to be categorized”.
That’s why you always hear people say 'it’s a spectrum" or “it’s socially constructed”, because that’s the easiest way to explain it in simple terms (even if it is non-descriptive and annoying to hear as a shibboleth)
- Comment on Deserved honestly 2 months ago:
Man, I wouldn’t even eat that shit fresh. Are you from the US? I’ve heard their quality is better in other countries, but here it’s disgusting.
- Comment on naruto therapy 2 months ago:
The article seems to actually be about how media like anime can be used as a tool to help therapy patients break through mental barriers to treatment by helping normalize or explain concepts that might be unfamiliar to them. Unless I’m misunderstanding?
- Comment on Who did this 😂😂😂 3 months ago:
You think this is old? Where are the stone tablets with chisels? Kids the days…
- Comment on Rule 34 rule 3 months ago:
Same guy here. Looked it up and no. My info was out of date.
- Comment on Rule 34 rule 3 months ago:
I agree but the availability of csam on the internet (real or simulated) reduces the instances of real-world abuse so… take that as you will I guess :/
- Comment on Awooo 3 months ago:
It’s okay, I’m autistic and I’m giving this guy the pass.
- Comment on Don't try this at home 3 months ago:
Damn so it sounds like the answer was “no”
(Nothing but love btw)
- Comment on Beans 4 months ago:
Just fry them in a pan with butter and add Cajun seasoning, eat on toast. Good toast, not sandwich bread. Literally unbeatable.
- Comment on he got what he deserved for driving like an idiot 5 months ago:
This is also true but I still enjoy seeing someone who probably shouldn’t be driving face consequences for failing to follow basic road safety
- Comment on Big Marijuana don't want you to know... 5 months ago:
That probably means you should take less bro.
Everyone responds differently so really to find what helps you concentrate you need to experiment with different products and formulations.
- Comment on [deleted] 6 months ago:
Librewolf is privacy-hardened so it’s probably the best option. Brave is Chromium-based. Realistically though, all web browsers come with compromises, and internet anonymity is virtually impossible without unrealistic amounts of effort.
- Comment on [deleted] 6 months ago:
The new manifest v3 version is actually not that bad, though not nearly as good as normal ublock.
- Comment on Just shoot me and save me the trouble 6 months ago:
I have tinnitus so I can’t sleep without a fan or noise-maker.
- Comment on wrappers 9 months ago:
Don’t worry, they’re only 5-9 mm big and are generally chill
- Comment on Blessica Blimpson 10 months ago:
I found the OP and their post got deleted, but the only comments she responded to were the supportive ones (maybe 1 or 2 out of dozens of “wtf is wrong with you” reactions).
The poster has a history dating back 2 years so I don’t think it’s a troll, or if it is it’s convincing. I just can’t believe anyone would actually want to name their kid fucking Blessica. Absolutely revolting name.
- Comment on Netflix has closed its AAA gaming studio 10 months ago:
For those saying they didn’t know about this, it’s because they never actually released anything. They got shut down unexpectedly before they finished any projects. Allegedly there are still some in-development games based on Netflix properties that will still be released on their gaming service, and the service itself will stay up. It’s just the studio itself that was shut down.
- Comment on Netflix has closed its AAA gaming studio 10 months ago:
Not really AAA at all, no.
- Comment on House Centipedes 10 months ago:
The centipedes have learned to draw. Not gonna fool me.
- Comment on [Opinon] With Gaza in ruins and Lebanon under siege, what defence remains for Israel’s actions? 11 months ago:
If you look at the comments under any YouTube video about Gaza or Lebanon, it’s mostly people cheering it on, especially on videos from major media outlets.
It seems like people understand the immense human toll and just don’t care because they want to see Israel continue to take out alleged military targets regardless of civilian deaths. It’s truly evil and reminiscent of any other genocide in history, the victims just aren’t respected as humans.
I’m tired of seeing this over and over, even in the information age. I’m starting to be convinced that humanity is just not viable as a species and is destined to destroy itself ad infinitum over shit like this.