Girlfriend

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• djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  didn’t a lot of women end up leaving tinder because it’s gained reputation as exclusively a hook-up app, leaving mostly bots? Is this meme just a v old repost? I believe Hinge is the app de jour, but I might be out of date.

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  • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    A combo of Hinge and Bumble, apparently. Seems to be working for my buddy anyway (to the absolute fury of the people he complains to about the number of matches/dates he gets).

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    • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      because they don’t meet his marriage standard, which is high)

      it’s important to be with who you want, don’t settle for whoever comes first.

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• Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Only 1?

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  • MycelialMass@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Not greedy

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  • zero_spelled_with_an_ecks@programming.dev ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    The poly peeps are on different apps.

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    • rumschlumpel@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The monogamous girlfriends are (apparently) also on different apps.

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    • AntiBullyRanger@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Can confirm🤣.

      To this day, only one person joined my simpleX, and that’s because of /c/privacy

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• Smash@lemmy.self-hosted.site ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  A bot is all you can get

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• Emi@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Planning on making an account too because I have no idea how to interact with people outside. Hope to find at least someone I understand with.

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  • Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I suggest to just talk with people online using social media and social networks, try to not use tinder because it’s based on the loom and IMO ot’s a toxic thing. For example i know a lot of funny people from discord

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    • kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The problem with discord is that it’s also filled with a lot of very weird children

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    • Emi@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Ten problém is on discord they usually live on other side of the world.

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  • Verdorrterpunkt@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Have you ever applied for jobs? I think dating apps are somehwat comparably demotivating. Just be sure you can handle it.

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  • Asafum@feddit.nl ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Try if you must, but as a guy after 10 years on and off these dating sites I just completely gave up. It’s like a constant attack on your self worth and for me I just ended up feeling absolutely pathetic and worthless. I’m still lonely but I feel better than getting ignored constantly and literally only getting likes/messages from bots that want to scam you.

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  • Contramuffin@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Pro tip: don’t. It’ll make you feel worse than if you just isolated yourself.

    The incentive structure of dating apps is completely twisted and makes you feel like every part of yourself is getting commodified and ranked.

    Find some social groups or clubs and go hang out there. You’ll have a much better time. Many people don’t mind if you aren’t comfortable with communicating, just being present is a positive in their book.

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• sundaymidnight@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  absolutelly all

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