hard disagree. Go out and call 20 women sluts and see the reaction.
Your group of friends or whatever anecdotally only use it like you’re describing. But I have heard it recently being used derogatory
Submitted 6 months ago by Grail@aussie.zone to showerthoughts@lemmy.world
hard disagree. Go out and call 20 women sluts and see the reaction.
Your group of friends or whatever anecdotally only use it like you’re describing. But I have heard it recently being used derogatory
Slut was never a term used in polite company
It went from a patriarchal normative, to being reclaimed. Are people down voting over the ambiguity of “polite”? Or because rediscovering the term “reclaimed” isn’t really a shower thought?
Calling someone a derogatory term has never been acceptable in polite company. It doesn’t really make sense.
It’s also wrong people still call women sluts as an insult and the same people are still okay saying that to others.
And slut has never had a positive meaning.
Am I the only one here that likes sl… promiscuous women??
It’s not there yet… but it’s making progress.
I’m too sleepy to slut.
lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 6 months ago
Wait, slut was an acceptable word in polite company? What did it used to mean?
ogler@lemmynsfw.com 6 months ago
yeah but you used to be able to use it. like if your family friend Margaret was eating five zucchinis at once lengthwise you would say “Margaret, stop being such a courgette slut”. or if a pressure cooker full of oatmeal exploded and covered her face with oatmeal you could say that Margaret got oatmeal bukkaked to explain to the intake nurse at the hospital.
nowadays you cant say that kind of thing. because of woke.
masquenox@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Uhhh… nope. The term “slut” has never been considered acceptable in any way or shape where I come from.
And if you are dumb enough to use the term “bukkake” to any health worker in any setting they’d either think you mad or call security on you… and rightfully so.
Hadriscus@lemm.ee 6 months ago
ngl…
Grail@aussie.zone 6 months ago
It used to mean a woman who has sex with lots of people, and it was derogatory. You’d call a woman a slut to shame her, because old people hated sex.
lord_ryvan@ttrpg.network 6 months ago
But that’s not polite in my book…
tobogganablaze@lemmus.org 6 months ago
And what do you think it means now?
Holyginz@lemmy.world 6 months ago
You aren’t making any sense here. It’s still not good to call someone that unless it’s a friend or whoever that understands it’s joking or if it’s involving a kink both adults share in.