I wish you strength, and hope you’ll find a good solution. Maybe it would be worth a thought of spending the money for couples therapy.
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
I’ve thought about it. It’s tempting because it’s simple. When you spend time and energy on your wife and she doesn’t give anything back, it’s very lonely. A cam girl is simple. Money goes in, attention comes out. It’s not exactly what I want but it’s got a higher success rate that what I’ve got now.
CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 7 months ago
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
I’ve been asking for years. I can schedule an appointment, but they have to show up.
Usul_00_@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Go on your own. You likely know this, but saying it just in case.
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
I have. I’ve gotten what I can. It’s gotten me stable and surviving.
afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Hey can we spend some time together?
Get death glare
Fine, go back to your 9 hour streaming marathon. Sorry to bother you.
Pratai@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
Divorce is an option.
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
Can’t afford it. I can’t afford the aftermath, keep my kids, and keep my sanity. I’ve thought about it.
Agent641@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Thank god I dont have kids, and my wife isnt a bloodsucker. We tentatively agreed in principle to a divorce yesterday, and one of the first things she said was “Do we need lawyers or can we just sign the divorce application and be done with it?”
I hope that its over, quickly and cheaply.
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
I knew a couple who did that. They had a mutual friend lawyer represent them both, lol. It was smooth to say the least.
Pratai@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
Fair enough. Wish you the best of luck. You seem to have a good heart. You deserve better.
GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 7 months ago
Thanks. :)