Comment on happy international womens day💜

Signtist@bookwyr.me ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I feel ya. Got a similar situation. She often does not want me to go down on her or similar bevause she does not have the energy to reciprocate. But she still says she wants it. The she keeps saying ‘oh you don’t have to do all this’.

  It’s odd but sometimes we do stuff because it feels good to make our loved ones feel good.

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  • SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Ma’am, I’m trying to pleasure a Lady down here, that’s hard work. Please stop worrying and enjoy the trip.

    Besides that, I found blowjobs to be boring every time. It just doesn’t do that much for me.

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• frog@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Bro, talk to her about getting a Fleshlight. That way you both win. She won’t feel guilty and both of you pleasure each other.

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  • kamenlady@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    If it even touches the bed, I’ll burn it with fire!

    nsfw

    Image

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    • SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Most cursed travel mug

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      • snooggums@piefed.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        It is like kissing your coffee!

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    • imadethis@fedinsfw.app ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’m just going to lightly touch on this by saying my lips surely look better than those.

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    • frog@feddit.uk ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Sexy

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• tias@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I genuinely wonder what that’s about. Why is it so much of a sacrifice, why is it any different from giving a back rub (assuming you have good hygiene). I certainly am not bothered by going down on her - on the contrary.

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  • Signtist@bookwyr.me ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    From what I understand, her previous relationships had all been transactional, where the guy made her feel like she owed him for every nice thing he did. She’s still working on allowing herself to receive without feeling a sense of debt.

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    • tias@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’ve dated quite a few women and had a couple of long-term relationships. They all seem reluctant - it happens but rarely. I’ve never pushed it, only shown in every way I can how much I enjoy it when it does happen. My current domestic partner does it, but I probably go down on her 10-20x more often than she does me.

      But it’s also kind of a general pattern that they expect me to take the initiative in sex, and they are relatively passive. One hypothesis I have is that taking too much initiative makes them feel “slutty” or that their own desirability is not confirmed enough. Maybe this is just a part of that general pattern. But what do I know.

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      • binomialchicken@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        You are reading into it too much, you just have big dick problems.

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• HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  it sounds like she wants to reciprocate giving pleasure in some way. give her an idea.

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